im 14 and my dad still kisses me on my lips. ive told him to stop when i was 10yrs old cuz i told him i was 2 old. but he got really mad and said that it was the only way he felt tht he can show me tht he love me. But now im HS and he was a chaperone at a field trip and he came and kissed me on my lips. and now like every1 at skool say my dad a perv and they call him Micheal Jackson. It gets really mad but i dont what to do. what can i do/say so tht my dad will atleast stop doin tht in public? and how old r u when ur dad usually stops kissing u on the lips?
2006-12-03 09:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by Josh B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i did get a little bit of his tounge in my mouth and it made a smacking sound
thts why everyones says hes perveted
2006-12-03 09:44:25 · update #1
i was like 9 when my dad stoped kissin me. ban maybe u should just gey used to it bc if he hasnt stoped by now he probally is plannin on stopping it anytime soon
2006-12-03 09:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Charles B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him his affection makes you happy but you would prefer he didn't kiss you on the lips in front of others because this kind of thing happens. If he gets angry, talk to your Mom. Or someone whom you believe can get through to him. You do not deserve to be bullied for something that is, a.quite understandable at your age, and b. something easily remedied by your Dad. Let him know you love him and he can show you he loves you by being affectionate in the privacy of your own home. Good luck!
2006-12-03 10:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Me, Thrice-Baked 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would have stopped at 4 or 5..I would talk to your dad and tell him you r feeling uneasy..if that doesn't work, talk 2 ur mom or an adult u trust...IF he tries anything else like touching breast or privates DEFINATELY tell a trusting adult..My dad never even sad "I love you" until I was about 31 so at least your dad is showing some kind of attempt to love you but I still think it should have stopped a long time ago
2006-12-03 11:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by chilover 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yep he's a perv. This kissing on the lips should never have started sometimes babies do this but that should have ended years and years ago. If he will not stop tell someone else about this or go to the police. Sorry but your dad is molesting you and it needs to stop. where is your mom Tell her about this and how you feel about it. If she wont listen find an adult a teacher or grandparent someone, anyone but tell them about this now. It must stop
2006-12-03 10:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It should stop when you feel uncomfortable with it. You've already tried talking to him and that didn't work, it may not be a form of molestation, but if you feel uncomfortable it's leaning toward that. find something that makes him uncomfortable and do that in front of a crowd of people or make embarrassing comments when he does that to you, try to make him feel just as uncomfortable as you feel.
2006-12-03 09:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your Mom immediately. Something is definitely wrong. If you're Mom doesn't do something about it, talk to a school counselor, priest, anyone who will listen. Let them know about him tongue slipping in. Not a coincidence. Do not let him kiss you again. Turn your head and tell him NO!!!!
2006-12-03 09:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by justcurious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i was 5 my parents split when i was 2 my dad doesnt even hug me and im about to turn 14 consider yourself lucky he still loves u and isnt afraid to show it
2006-12-03 09:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
my dad always kissed me on the cheek. i think your dad is going overboard here someone mentioned you need to talk to your mom i would and do it soon.
2006-12-03 09:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable but be really happy you have a dad who loves you enough to show it.
2006-12-03 09:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by private n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jeeze, just be happy that he's not trying to slip you the tounge or molesting you.
2006-12-03 09:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋