My mother annoys me constantly, as we are nothing like each other. we hardly spoke to each other for the first 13 years of my life, because my dad was around. he died a year and a half ago, and now all me and my mum do is argue. i know that i inherited my personality and my brains from my dads side, but recently i have been feeling like my intelligence is creeping away. i cant remember stuff as well as i could any more, and it sucks. i hate my mum. please help
2006-12-03 07:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am sorry to hear about your father. I lost my father at a young age also, so I know how you feel.
I can top your "mother makes me nuts" story though. Maybe my experience will make you smile.
I am 51 years old, was married for 23 years, have 2 grown kids, and 3 grandkids.
My mother still comes to my house daily to make sure I made my bed.
2006-12-03 07:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by maamu 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are both probably suffering from the grief associated from the death of your father. Give yourself a chance and also give your mom a chance. Perhaps you could suggest to her that the two of you go and get some grief counseling. This is sometimes offered at the local hospice agency for free. You can find the number in your yellow pages. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-03 07:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
At the moment I don't really feel like talking to my mother right now either. Sometimes it's just hard for us to like our family members. They do things to us that makes us wonder why they do it in the first place and expect us to understand. I do understand what you are going through and I hope that things do work out for you :)
2006-12-03 07:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by L.M.L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom is the same the only reason why she talks to me is cause my dad tells her to i hate my mom too she getz in EVERYONES buisness there is not one thing she doesnt know about she knows when they neighboors did this thry did that EVERYTHING i get mad at her tonz of times but the only thing that keeps me away 4rm socking the s@%t of her and telling her off is my freinds and my babe whom i love the most.
freinds are the key to getting u throught the hardest times when parents are supposed to be arround
when u feel lonely,sad, annoyed ,frustrated, ect. turn to your freinds or boyfreind if u have one and u'll find comfort within them
2006-12-03 07:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by ~LIL MZ.MENUZ~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur mom how u fell i used to have the same problem with my mom than i finaly sat down and told her that i need my personal space and to let me go off on my own i not little anymore. so just tell her how u fell
2006-12-03 07:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by native_gangsta15 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my mom dearly but we cannot get along for even a day. I would like to tell you that it will get better but I am 37 and still waiting for that day.
2006-12-03 09:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i know how u feel my moms really annoying and unreasonable to me and a ***** and acts like it's always my fault i know exactly how u feel i don't like my mom either my only advice is get a job and move far away as possible asap
2006-12-03 07:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like my mum..Sometimes my ideas and opinions regarding do differ but that's alright. You can't always say things just to please ur mom.. All mums want their best for their kids..You just give her more time and do talk her about ur inner feelings about her..
2006-12-03 08:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by pacific_islander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom's been dead for over 20 years and I'd happily slit someone's throat if it would give me one more afternoon with her. Quit whining and be thankful you have a mother.
2006-12-03 07:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by Tish 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you might say that but at the end of the day shes your mother and you should try to make an effort to get along both of you and to say hate is a little strong
2006-12-03 07:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by jericho sland 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋