Family - December 2006

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2006-12-03 18:11:26 · 3 answers · asked by Blood4lyfe 1

My brother starts arguements and my mother fights for him and never lets me speak. She constantly tells him she loves him and she calls me a *****. She calls me selfish and spoiled. I never ask her for anything. I buy her expensive gifts and she never says thank you, or if she likes it. She hasn't hugged me or told me she loved me in so long I can't remember when the last time was. The only time she ever talks to me is to tell me to do something or to yell at me. I'm the only one out of her two children, and I try so hard to make her love me, but she still doesn't even respect me. She constantly accsues me of lying and doesn't believe a single thing I say. She even favors the cats over me. I'm sure most of you will think that I am exaggerating, but I can assure you that I'm not. I'm so afriad of talking to her, I don't want another fight, I don't want to hear her say those things. No one else in the house defends me either. All I ever hear her say is that I'm a total mistake,

2006-12-03 18:09:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 18:06:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-12-03 18:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by Blood4lyfe 1

when they wish yau where weren't born the way you were

2006-12-03 17:41:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 17:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what to do and I know it's terrible but I hate my mother. I really do hate her and I can't believe she's my mother. I know she gave birth to me but that's all I have to thank her for because she doesn't know how to be someone's mother and never acts like one. She's always been a two-faced, selfish b i t c h who lies and steals and I'm really ashamed of her. She never makes sacrifices for anybody not even her kids and only thinks about herself. I just can't stand her any longer sometimes I just wish she was dead. I know I'll probably go straight to hell for saying this but you don't know what it's like to live with someone like her. She's a psycho b i t c h who used to abuse me physically and mentally when I was little but not anymore. Now that I'm older she can't hurt me anymore but I just feel so disgusted knowing that a part of me came from her.

2006-12-03 17:27:36 · 13 answers · asked by Coco 4

I always try to help out my family. I am always giving them money, presents everything and I am the first person to be there. But when I need help (which is rarely) they never want to help me! I dont ask but still, it is not offered. Also whenever I talk to them I am VERY nice on the phone keep the conversatino upbeat and lively yet they always "have to go". It seems the nicer I am the more they just think of me as a doormat who willl always be there. What am I doing wrong? Is it not good to be nice and helpful? I mean well. I dont know. I feel rejected. Like I am invisible.

2006-12-03 17:20:00 · 7 answers · asked by someoneyoudontknow 2

hi my mother is way overprotective, i am 18 years old and still have not been able to get my drivers license, also i'm barely able to leave the house, unless it's for school, she says she doesn't like my friends, i admit i have acted immature at time and this is really ruining our relationship, she doesn't even give me a chance to prove myself, i have to go against her will to do anything and she makes sure she makes me feel bad about it. if anyone can help i would appreciate it

Thanks

2006-12-03 17:18:13 · 5 answers · asked by Donny 2

2006-12-03 17:12:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13 years old and I'm lost,I don't know where to go,I was bullied for 6 years at 2 different schools for having a certain hair colour(I bet you can guess!) and I am now home schooled,things seem to be looking up but theres something in the back of my mind thats saying"your not happy" I just need someone to talk to other than family and friends,I know this sounds a bit vague but i just needed to get it off my chest.Thankyou for reading this.

2006-12-03 17:08:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mum HATES my friends parents and she wont let me stay there. I cant change her mind. she is having a small party because we are finishing school and my crush will be there. any ideas?

2006-12-03 17:08:14 · 8 answers · asked by xangiex7 1

How much does your family pay to place your "oldie" in an Adult Family Home in Washington State? Or does anyone have a listing I can look at?

2006-12-03 17:07:20 · 2 answers · asked by David S 1

What did they do that made you not like them anymore?
Also, do you think this is a phase that you will get over?

2006-12-03 17:00:07 · 18 answers · asked by rabble rouser 6

i think my parents lied to me of my age.. i was turning 18 this year i thought and they told me i was really 17 but i havnt seen any official documents of my birth date. i think they told me it because my moms sick and all of her other kids left her and wants me to take care of her. but i think thats something i deserve to know.

2006-12-03 16:43:22 · 11 answers · asked by reddragon21321 2

my dad is an alcholic. and 4 years ago he got into a car collision from drunk driving. he lost both of his legs. well, because of that my dad has become even more of an alcholic. he feels like he is useless because all he does is sit in front of the tv and drink. my mom works 2 jobs just to keep us by each month. and im worried. all this stress is taking a toll on my school education and i think i need to get a job. where can I get a job if im 14 in the state of washington? please! I really need some help!

2006-12-03 16:41:08 · 11 answers · asked by flymetothemoonlove 1

I am 30 and I am a single mother I work full time own my own business.
For reasons beyond my control I had too move very quickly from our home and I am now staying with my mother and My brother(only for a month) we have been here two weeks.
How do I deal with her ? she controls everything on how much we are eating to where we go who we talk to on the phone ,I'd like to think it was the drinking that makes her act this way.There are no bounderies and my kids and I feel like we are walking on eggshells.We do not have any other housing options until our house is ready

2006-12-03 16:27:04 · 4 answers · asked by silvertouch2 2

I am a mothr of 3 great girls, they are 10, 5 and 4. I am not saying I am the best mother but my kids are my world and I really want to make their chilhoods special for them.The girls and I have had bit of a rough year..It started last July when my now ex husband decided to leave me. It was hard to explain to the kids.Then in Nov I had a car accident I was not badly injured I rolled my car and totalled it, so the kids had to spend sometime with just dad(that almost killed me). Then on Dec 6th while my girls were visiting with their father I was home alone and a fire started in the kitchen behind the stove and burned the place down the kids and I lost everything including my 2 cats that was the hardest part This Oct. I had another car accident in which I was injured I am unable to work to buy the things they want and need .I have been forced to live with my mom I sleep on the floor in the living room and the kids share a small room.Plz give me the name of any places that might help me.

2006-12-03 16:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by jen1172_99 1

I was with MIke for 11 years. When we started to date i quit my job to work for him. Over the 11 years he did very well for himself and us but last year the day after Christmas he told me he couldnt do the Family thing anymore( he was seeing someone else) and he moved out. I still live in the house he bought for us 7 years ago he pays all the bills and i still work for him.
Problem is we have three children 8, 3 and 8 mos. He owns 2 bars and his new girlfriend has a bar also. They drink heavly and it scares me when my kids go there.
How do i move on with my life with 3 kids, No money and somewhat of a job? Im 33 and he is 41 do they ever GROW UP?

2006-12-03 16:11:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a father of twin girls...there mother lives in texas. Is there any books to help me learn to be a better single dad?

2006-12-03 15:58:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

They came forth on their own and spilled the beans,an attack of conscience I guess.But they have been sneaking around and lying for a month....

2006-12-03 15:54:05 · 30 answers · asked by Mary Who? 3

He never really like to dress neatly or take fashion seriously, but now he wears expensive designer jeans, buttoned shirt or solid color sweater with a sport or leather jacket. He now smokes cigars and wear expensive cologne. He basically look like a model now. He also seems to not being able to keep tracks of any girls he is talking to and doesn't know if he's in relationship or not.

He never dress up or smoke when he moved out to attend college. He has been gone since last summer, now he come back like this. Is something going on with him? I find this odd, should I be suspicous?

2006-12-03 15:46:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My significant other became critically ill and was in the hospital in SICU for over a month in a coma. We dated for 3 yrs. when he was hospitalized, I stacked his mail on the table from his box outside, watered his plants, fed his dogs and went to see him 3-4 times weekly. I locked his paycheck up in his safe. His adult kids went crazy and locked me out of his house, let his plants die, went thru all of his belongings and went crazy trying to find his paycheck which was locked up in his house. They treated me like crap. When it was time to come home, I picked him up, broke into his house from a back door so we could get in and took care of him. I helped him with his newly diagnosed diabetes. Now he treats me like I deserved it. Im a RN and work in a hospital. I am not stupid. He blames me for going thru his belongings which I did not do. His kids are sly. They have nothing to do with him unless it involves $$$$. How should I handle this? I am ashamed of his behavior.

2006-12-03 15:28:49 · 12 answers · asked by happydawg 6

i feel like i want to be with him..and i don't feel the same..i feel depress and cry every night..what should i do...

2006-12-03 15:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley Connor 1

I am going through hard times right now I just want for people to pray for me,and my family. My step grandfather had died, and my uncle is also dieing. He is on life support, and they say its going to come to a time that my family going to decide to tell the doctor to unplug it. And another thing is that my girlfriend is pregnant and shse treats, and cuss at me like I am a nobody. I do so much for her and she don't appreciate it. I told her I love her,and that the baby her and I going to be a happy family, she is not trying to here it. I love everybody and there is no hate in my bones, and I love you. Please pray for me? Thank you.

2006-12-03 15:20:47 · 6 answers · asked by Troy T 1

Well to start off, my son is 15 and a half years old, he goes out almost every weekend and is maintaining a 3.5 GPA as a sophomore in High School. He is maintaining a steady job and works during the weekends. About 2 months ago he has asked me to let him start learning about driving. I said “No, your too young”. Now he constantly nags me about driving and I tell him the same answer every time. I don’t think he is responsible enough because he goes out every weekend until 12 or 1 am and I have no clue where he goes. He has never gotten in trouble at school or anything. Sometimes at home he is defiant to me and doesn’t want to do his homework. I caught him sneaking my car out twice. Now he seems very depressed and never talks me or his mother. Should I allow him to drive or not?

2006-12-03 14:56:43 · 6 answers · asked by Joseph T 1

When I couldn't have a cd for the entire afternoon and instead of having it for just half an hour, I gave it back to my parents. I got grounded for being so negative. Up in my room, I could hear my parents starting to fight. Than I got called down again about five minutes later. My mom screamed at me that it was all my fault that my mom and dad were fighting. Then my dad said I had ruined the entire dinner (we had ordered chinese food in) and that because of it, I was going to pay for it. He made me take out my wallet, give him the $40 that I had earned babysitting for six hours the day before, and said that I also owed him $50 more. I climbed the stairs up to my room only to be called down again to clean the kitchen because my mom didn't want to have to clean up the dinner that I had ruined. Right now, I am terribly guilty and very, VERY scared. I know what what I did was wrong, but do I deserve the punishments for such a stupid thing, or am I just feeling sorry for myself?

2006-12-03 14:42:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 14:31:48 · 2 answers · asked by tlargent391 1

SHE WORKS IN A DAYCARE AND IS 44 YEARS OLD ANY IDEAS??

2006-12-03 14:19:13 · 6 answers · asked by angie068345 1

My ex has custody of our daughter and I have visitation. There had been a support agreement which is not being enforced by the State of Indiana.

My daughter has lived with me (and my wife) for the majority of her life (she is 5). My wife and I enrolled her into school this past year.

This past week, my ex got upset with me and my wife again. She has pulled my daughter out of my house and is planning to take her out of the school she was in. My ex is planning to move my daughter out of the county to live with her mother (my ex's mother).

At my house, my daugher has her own room, while at my ex's house, she sleeps on the couch and at my ex's mother house, my daughter sleeps with my ex's mother.

I do not feel that living arrangements at their houses are adequate and that she is better off with my wife and I. I also have no idea where to start or what to do at this point.

Any one have any suggestions?

2006-12-03 13:55:26 · 6 answers · asked by BP 1