when they wish yau where weren't born the way you were
2006-12-03 17:41:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dont know what bomb you dropped on them that you think they all feel this way about you, but I can honestly say as a mother, there is NOTHING and I mean NOTHING my daughters can do that can make me stop loving them. Yes, I can react horribly at first- it is the shock doing the talking, but once I would have time to ingest whatever is wrong, my love would soften my reactions and I would still be a loving mother---as will your mom and your family. Our society makes us believe that there is this Perfect picture of what a family is supposed to be like but guess what- it doesn't exist, not even in hollywood. Give your family time to let whatever news you gave them sink in and they will come around. Family doesn't love you for what you are or who you are, they love you because you are YOU!! God bless you and keep the faith- things will change- and if you can lessen the blow to them in anyway by improving whatever it is, do so because you love them and need them as they need you.
2006-12-03 17:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being a mother I recognize that there are certain expectations and wants that you have for your child. You want your child to grow up happy, achieve some level of financial and emotional success and have their own family someday. Sometimes we don't turn out exactly the way our parents desired but we are still their children and im sure they love you. Just give it time
2006-12-03 17:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Nickie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a typical question, and Im guessing you have a specific problem you are referring to with your question. Unfortunately, it isnt clear to me. How can your family not be happy with 'the way you are'?
2006-12-03 17:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remind them you can only be as good as your genes and you guess you had poor breeding. Then go be the best you can be and forget their sorry sick A-sses
Unfortunately not all parents are qualified to be parents.
2006-12-03 17:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would leave with no intention of returning until they apologize and ask me to be in their lives.
2006-12-03 17:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself.
2006-12-03 17:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by unruly_1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋