First off my younger sister lives with me (17) and are 4 older brothers (19.21.23) my dad is out of the question and when my mom moved away with her new husband she decided to live with my brothers and I. One night she came home around 3am completely drunk and smeelt like drugs. The next morning when i went to talk to her about it she just keept telling me to f*** off and shyt like that so i took her over the knee and spanked her(clothes on of course) now she's not talking to me but i don't feel bad about it was i wrong?
2006-12-03 00:29:18 · 11 answers · asked by jt_soccer11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hands are for loving,not hitting...
2006-12-04 08:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by hunterman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you were not wrong. She is npw living under your roof. Now i know she probably thinks that hey Mom's gone I can do w/e I want. You had to put her in her place and show her that their are rules. I would however go into her room and speak to her. Calmly rationally and explain your situation. I was scared thatyou were doing bad things, what u said was unacceptable, it wont be tyolerated, but I didn't do this to "hurt" you just to teach you a lesson. Discuss how she felt getting a spanking from you and what she thinks the acceptable punishmet would have been. Ask her what future punishments sound acceptable and lay out some rules. But remeber you arent mom so make sure she remebers that you are still that cool oldeer sister(or brother) Also tell her you were sorry you upset her but are not sorry you spanked her she needed it. See what she has to say after you lay all that out on the table. Im sure shell start talkign to you again.
2006-12-05 14:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Amira M 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First off- spanking or otherwise punishing some one who is drunk or whatever is ineffective- they a) don't remember b) don't care
Secondly- you could be charge with the assault of a minor who being drunk could get you in trouble in some places for failing to care for her properly(neglect,contributing to the delinquency of a minor,etc)
Thirdly- sounds like a lot of stress in the household- a family meeting is in order to clear the air
2006-12-03 00:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but you probably will feel bad but you have to do what you have to do she came home at 3pm. so the is what you have to do. I hope you feel better soon do not wfeel bad she will talk to you again you'll feel better.
2006-12-03 00:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really i wouldnt of really SPANKED her i would gave her a right good old clip round the earoles if she told me where to go i mean your ment to be sisters.... your bound to be cncerned for your sister dont worry to much everything WILL fix ... good luck
2006-12-03 00:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Abbey 2006 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You was tryin to be a good big sister. Later you chill with her. Not to eplain yourself but to tell her you care.
2006-12-03 00:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jay B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She deserved that spanking. She should've been more responsible and I think you did the right thing to her. Did it turn you on spanking her?
2006-12-03 00:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by Cuddly Lez 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you were wrong. You're her brother, not a parent, so you had no right to do that. Consider yourself lucky she didn't smack you in the gob with a frying pan.
2006-12-03 00:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think violence is not good , if you really care for her first apo;ogize to her , then try to communicate with her slowly.
if you go hard on her you will lose her , i do not think that this what you want
2006-12-03 00:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by stranger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that u care for yer sis but i wouldnt spank her
2006-12-03 00:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by goomnaga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋