Family - December 2006

2006-12-06 01:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by MJ 6

I'm 13, my mom makes me wear a bra. I know she's right but I dont like it. Saturday I went to a mall to have lunch with some friends and their parents, we would hang out after lunch. It was hot and I came to the mall braless. I didn't know, but mom would join us after her classes, she's a teacher. Well, she noticed I was braless. She told the guys she'd have to leave with me for some moments, took me to a store, baought me a bra and made me put it on. I got embarassed, the attendant at the shop laughed a lot. Mom was not mad at me and was nice, but said See hun? You can't deceive your mom. My friends and their parents didn't notice what happened but some of my friends noticed I was braless before mom came and was wearing one after we came back, and later they laughed too. Nothing bad, but I got embarrassed. After lunch I complained to mom she had embarrassed me. She just laughed, kissed,said I had no reason to get embarrassed and made me promise I wouldn't do that again.

2006-12-06 01:39:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-06 01:32:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

no matter how much I clean and prepare our home for this occasion, she will always find something wrong. Should I take this personal? My husband tells me that she dose'nt mean anything by it. PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2006-12-06 01:26:41 · 14 answers · asked by Shannon B 2

we go wrong with him?"

2006-12-06 01:06:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been praying for a family for over half my life now. I cannot find the woman I'm looking or destined for. I am great with kids and people always tell me I would be a great dad.
I grew believing in God and having faith in him. I see people all around me having so many kids, no boyfriend or husband around. I cannot bash them but still, I so want to be a dad.
So following the Bible all my life, I'm tempted to go out and sleep with someone but I know that would be stupid. Maybe, I'm afraid my kid may have something wrong with it because I went out and sinned.
Maybe I should just go out and do what I want and suffer the consequences later. I keep praying and praying but after so many years, so many people have started their family and God hasn't blessed me with a family yet. It's frustrating.
I know God can do all things. I say silly prayers like I wish He would send angels down and bring me an infant(s) to raise and a way to raise them. Crazy, I know.

2006-12-06 01:03:44 · 18 answers · asked by coronji 2

she's 9 on New Years Day any good sites or ideas are gratefully recieved

2006-12-06 00:57:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am planning to go to Ireland in July next year and i am not sure how to tell my parents. The problem is that is where my bf lives. I am from Brazil!!! He has ben here in Brazil for 3 months now and will go home soon and we have planned for me to go to Ireland next year. My parents are kind of old fashioned. I am only going for one month. I am going no matter what they say but i want them to be happy i am going not angry. PLEASE HELP

2006-12-06 00:54:04 · 19 answers · asked by raquel290686 1

Ok my son is 11 now and still believes in Santa. The problem is that he was arguing with other children his age on the school bus and they kept making fun of him because he believes in Santa. He asked me, mom is Santa real or not? I said yes. I don't know how to tell him that we've been lying to him his whole life. What do I do? His little sister is 4 and of course she believes, I know he wouldn't ruin it for her but I hate to have his feelings hurt and have him made fun of by his peers. He wants a 4 wheeler for Christmas and money is tight, how do I tell him that if he gets one, he probably won't get much else? He will wake up Christmas morning and feel like his sister got alot and he just got one thing.(not realizing that his cost $1200 and hers cost 400 or so). Please give me your opinion on what to tell him and how to do it gently. I remember when I found out that Santa didn't exist and was heartbroken, by my own grandma (I was also 11 and she thought I knew) Why do we lie ????????

2006-12-06 00:51:44 · 36 answers · asked by justwondering 2

What are the cheapest places to live or safest?
There is a job in Irvine that I would like to work at.
How do you get on Section 8 or low income housing?
Also, how much money would I probably need to take with me, just to get situated? I don't want to drive, maybe take the train. Maybe I can get my car shipped later or rent a car out there. Would that be a good idea?

2006-12-06 00:46:38 · 3 answers · asked by coronji 2

I love my nieces, but their mom is a big tomboy, she looks like rosie o'donell, not as fat though. My brother isn't a girl so I'm concerned that my nieces will not know how to dress like a lady. They are 8 and 10, I bought them some cute thongs and miniskirts, I told them not to let their daddy know because he doesn't like them dressing like ladies. I really don't want them growing up thinking that they can't dress pretty, they aren't allowed.

2006-12-06 00:43:52 · 23 answers · asked by Wendy Love Muffin 1

hi...ppl pls help me..ma frnd got concieved after 3yrs of married life. it waz a good news.... but after 8 months in labour, due to some sickness she lost her baby before the delivery. i'm extremely sad about this news i've heard she's been crying always & moreover she's sensitive i dunno how to approach her & console her.....pls temme a way......

2006-12-06 00:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by ajax456 1

My step brother ran away and is never coming back. i miss him alot he was the only big brother i had. i feel like i'm geting torn in a million pieces cuz my paronts are devorced and there is to much drama in my nayberhood.

2006-12-06 00:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by chickie 2

Six years ago. Oldest sister Kim tells me that when she left her children with next oldest sister Erin, Erin punished Kim's kid in a way that was not acceptable. I told Kim that I didn't want to talk about Erin and Kim assured me that she wasn't saying anything that she already hadn't said to Kim. Erin got abusive and angry that I didn't take her side. The punishment was a time out for Kim's kid biting Erin's kid. I though it was pretty reasonable.
A couple of weeks later, I am visiting Erin and we have a few glasses of wine. She starts off on Kim and I stop her and say that I don't want to get into anything between them but for the record, I agreed that the time out was fair. Apparently when Kim told me that she had discussed it with Erin, was was lying. Erin was furious that Kim had talked about her (ironically because she herself was attempting to talk about Kim to me.) And then things got ugly. Erin told Kim I told her about what Kim had assured ne was already discussed.

2006-12-05 23:58:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've recently found out I have a brother, who'd be 21 now. He was adopted at birth in the district of Glasgow in Scotland. I'd really like to find out more about him but my parents aren't really being forward with information.

If anyone on here has information etc on tracing adopted siblings, please let me know!

2006-12-05 23:45:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 23:44:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, how to motivate a man to get up and going, to get some interesting activities to do in life, apart from just TV?

Nagging is dangerous, what are some innovative ways?

2006-12-05 23:41:10 · 15 answers · asked by just me.. 3

Well last night I caught my son looking at porn. I was shocked but he understood not to do it again. I deleted all the records of him doing it so his mother wouldnt find out. Now she did a spybot search and destroy a while later and noted something she saw on it labeled 'adult porn'. She was questioning me about it and I told her she was seeing things. I was lucky she believed me. Now Im stuck having to worry about her doing a spybot again and seeing that. She would go wild if she saw what our son had done. If anyone could please just tell me where exactly spybot searches on the hard disc and registry I would be so thankful. So would my son too, I just dont want my wife finding out what he did. So again, where exactly does spybot search in the registry and hard disc and how do I remove it? I know the basics like going into regedit but dont have a clue where to look. Please help someone.

2006-12-05 23:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by John M 1

i just found out that theres a possibility that my dad is not my real dad.. and i feel so hurt and confused and my life has suddenly halted for a while.. i have a lot in mind and i couldnt bear losing my dad.

2006-12-05 23:31:06 · 10 answers · asked by Michelle M 1

My Grandmother is a little.. educationally challenged. She has a grade 5 education and had never had a chance to get anything better than that being an old fashioned woman.. No one in my family can stand her, except for me. I'm the only one that calls her, talks to her, invites her over ( her husband died in 96 and she's all alone). She has 5 kids that don't call or talk to her, my mother being one of them.

My sisters are all very rude to her, she's deaf in one ear and like I said, she's challenged and doesn't understand many things. Christmas time is coming and the only time my grandmother is ever invited to anything is the family christmas dinner that everyone in the family attends. This year is going to be another Grandma bashing event like it always is.. and I can't stand it anymore. How do I tell people to leave the poor woman alone without freaking out and ruining the whole party?

2006-12-05 23:13:04 · 6 answers · asked by Imani 5

2006-12-05 23:09:33 · 11 answers · asked by denise_evert17 2

2006-12-05 23:08:00 · 11 answers · asked by shark 2

for 20 years but didnt make a nice career. He was good in paying the fee but always says only studies can do and didnt allow me to take part in sports. He is very arrogant and wants to follow him things which are stupid. He is not matured. I regret for my mother for marrying a loser. She doesnt say to me anything bad abt him. If I do she subdues me harshly or coolly. He cant understand certain things in life. I have stopped talking to him. But that cant make it to what he has done I wud not perform the funeral rites - let someone do it. I sound silly but I made up my mind. He is a real stupid.

2006-12-05 23:04:26 · 15 answers · asked by freemanhere1 2

He has been looking for a job for a long time now and has had a few interviews but with no success. It's really getting him down and he has lost all confidence in himself. Now he seems to have given up looking for a job at all, just believing that he would never get it anyway. I'm very worried about him but just don't know what to do to help him. I've suggested he go to a confidence building class but he says 'what's the point?'. I'd really appreciate some advice as it's driving our whole family to an early grave...

2006-12-05 22:57:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to go swimming in this girls parents pool. On a few occasion her mother caught me changing into my bathing suit. & told her daughter that she like the looks of my penis

2006-12-05 22:25:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family hardly ever gets me anything useful on x-mas. But the thing is. I want to Get my Neice that is about 16 mths old a V.Smile from Wal Mart. But i know i wont get anything back from the family. I dont mind that. But the thing is. That if i give to this site powerpets.com (name spooky_lestat) to help a kid thing. I will save about 15-20 dollars. Still help out some one else. That really needs it.

So my q is which should i give to Powerpets.com or my neice. That wont know me any ways when she goes up.

2006-12-05 22:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by Spooky 2

I am a 15 year old male and have some personal guy questions, I have talked with my mom about some of them, but feel more comfortable asking some more private ones over the computer? If you know about guy stuff please answer so i can message you.

2006-12-05 21:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by paul t 1

and i knew my dad would share my sorrow but then 2 months after the furrnel my dad married again. now how am i supposed to feel about my step mom and all her realtives, and how would y mom fell if she heard me calling my stepmom "mom" plz help

2006-12-05 21:39:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is in his 40's. dont suggest anything expensive

2006-12-05 21:14:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 21:01:15 · 6 answers · asked by anu 1