Family - December 2006

i live with my dad right now. my mother wants me to move in with her and i want to but i dont want to leave my dad. there is a lot of fight at my dads and i sick and tried of it. when i go to my mothers there is lke no fighting at all. she move back to where i lived to get me. i donno if she is going to do it. then we would move back out to missouri and then my boyfreind is down there. so i would be happyer out there. i love it in missouri to. she kinda let me do more stuff then my dad dose to. i wish my dad could just move down to missouri so we can all be happy. i dont know if he would be happy thoght . i dont know what to do please help.. thanks!

2006-12-05 15:32:50 · 6 answers · asked by katie h 1

What should I buy for a 56 year old man, whom I just knew a year ago, for Xmas? He is my uncle by marriage. He likes wood work, very particular about his car, loves to read wood work magazines and also interior design magazine. Loves California. Likes Frank Sinatra (but my aunt said she bought a cd for him already). I have no idea.

2006-12-05 15:27:03 · 10 answers · asked by Dee 1

My husband's uncle has terminal cancer, and 2 years ago he was given 6 months to live. He's beaten life to a pulp, but today he has gone into the hospital for the last time. He lives in Texas (we live in Kansas), and my mother-in-law has flown out to spend time with him. No one knows if he will actually make it out of the hospital or if he's going to die tomorrow.

Obviously we have to prepare for a funeral. It's strange how you can spend a lifetime preparing but it's still not enough.

The main issue:The only place we could stay in Texas would be with the family of my husband's uncle; from my standpoint that seems intrusive to demand that the grieving family house us as well. There is no place for our son to sleep (14 months), and we don't have the funds to stay in a hotel.

I've discussed this with my husband and while we have time, we're stuck. We just don't know what to do.

Any opinions?

2006-12-05 15:25:23 · 6 answers · asked by FaZizzle 7

wut do u do when u are one of the only people in your family who is in honors/ap classes let alone still in highschool and all you get from your parents is nagging and them telling you every little bad thing they can come up with about you when they are almost hte farthest thing from a good role model. you havent touched ne drug and you turned your whole attitude around opposed to last year when u were the biggest brat ever but for some reason they were nicer, respected you more, and let you do what you wanted to more last year. you never get a im proud of you or that was nice of you or thank you. especially when you clean everyone elses mess. and you never tell them how much what they say gets to you?

2006-12-05 15:04:11 · 7 answers · asked by b.lynn 2

Ok so I have been married 7 years and I have known my husband and his family for 20 year (we went to school together). Ok so here is the problem.....My brother in law just told me that he is in therapy due to a divorce and he told the theripist that he has very strong feelings for me and the theripist felt that he should confront me and tell me how he feels, he did....I havent told my husband and I dont what I should do. We live close to eachother (less then 5 minutes) so we get together often, my husband and his brother are very close and I just dont know what I should do....any advise

2006-12-05 15:00:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 22 I married my husband who is 22 four years ago this may. We have two children. I took on his name when we married. since then We have cut ties with his mother. I have never been excepted by her. His mother has since remarried and no longer carries her maiden name wich my husband has. His father he has spoke with ince since he was born. For the sake of my children I would like to change our last name to my maiden/ My husband is very excepted by my family and has been since day 1. I want my children to know where their last name came from not that families are ripped apart such as my in laws. And last of all I want to belong to a family that can except me not one that I am shunned from . Does it sound right to you???

2006-12-05 14:58:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

After seeing some people stories of horrific Christmas', maybe if you get it off your chestand type it out and hit enter, it will help you heal.

Get it off your chest.
Sit there and cry... begin to get past it all.

Please... share it here..

Maybe you can move on and realize there is nothing you can do to change the past but, maybe you can create new, happier Christmas memories for yourself and your loved ones.

2006-12-05 14:56:18 · 11 answers · asked by Chris C 5

i have a 6 year old sister who just wants to bugg me i need to know how to get her to stop. she does not under stand that i want to be left alone. so could you people help me plz . any ideas would be highly appriciated

2006-12-05 14:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My childs father left me when I was 9 weeks pregnant. Now my child is 3 and she has never seen him. I got shot and is now paralyzed. He calls but won't tell me his address. It's hard making it with no child support, and the atorney general is no help. any suggestions

2006-12-05 14:53:57 · 4 answers · asked by renewed23 1

I have very little moeny and my g/f said she wanted M&Ms for chrisams and i was going to give her a stuffed animal along with that ( a large stuffed animal) do you think she'll like it? i mean im EXTREMLY low on cash and she knows it, i gave her jewlery last month and that pretty much made me broke ( they were 14 karot gold with her birth stone in the middle ) but do u think she'll like the stuffed animal?

2006-12-05 14:46:09 · 11 answers · asked by Big C 1

I love her to much to do it

2006-12-05 14:43:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wish people had to have a bakround check and take a mental stability test before they could even be fertile. then all the andrea yates's in the world wouldnt get off for killing their kids becasue they are "insane" anyone agree?

2006-12-05 14:43:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Generally speaking, how much money do you think one should have saved upon moving out of their parents home? (A young person, about 21 y/o)

Excluding the cost of funiture and first/last.

I'm thinking $10, 000 (canadian) would be suficient. Providing one is employed. What do you think? I'm just looking for some opinions.

(Yes, I have re-posted. I'm just trying to maximize my answer results. lol thanks)

2006-12-05 14:43:09 · 3 answers · asked by ebonii_cuteee 5

trouble is i cannot complaint of anything.If i do then i will hurt them,if i don't i am hurting myself.i want to know how can i handle my emotionally much demanding hushband and my always instructing sasuma in a way not to hurt them or hurt myself?
help !!

2006-12-05 14:33:07 · 11 answers · asked by lik_on_edge 1

because we always fight with each other and she just wont stop butting in on my conversations and telling my friends what my personal life is like and what i do at home that only she knows its very imberrising to see her saying that stuff to my friends about my personal life im SICK OF IT!!!GOSH!!!

2006-12-05 14:22:16 · 8 answers · asked by lala bye baby 1

omg my parents r soo gay i think my mum actuly set up a miror in the door so she cud ssee what im doin in my room on the computer or otherwiseomg FREAK

2006-12-05 14:15:24 · 13 answers · asked by cutegrl g 1

I wanted to make a gift for my grandparents for chrismas but i wasn't sure what i should make them. Last year me and my cousins made them a calender with our own pictures on each month. and this year we have no ideas. Can someone help.

2006-12-05 14:14:23 · 8 answers · asked by swoop 2

My 18 year old daughter is a freshman in college. She met a boy and 6 weeks later tells me that she will be becoming sexually active. She asked if I would go with her to the doctor and discuss options.
I took her to my doctor and we discussed EVERYTHING, opting for the pill. She was given a four month supply.
I went out with her later that night only to discover that her stepfather--my husband had indivudually popped each one of those pills into the toilet and flushed them because she is not responsible enough to have sex. (Her father and I discussed it...but since she is on his health plan he claimed he could do that.)
He also told me that I am a horrible parent for aiding her in aquiring the pills. She is back at school, but he has stated that if she ever comes home he will tell her how irresponsible she is every time he sees her.
She is coming home for Christmas, and it looks like I am going to be forced to spend it in a hotel with her.
Am I nuts???

2006-12-05 14:13:26 · 37 answers · asked by jen 1

my sister said we had to wait 40 days until we could split the money? now the 40 days are up and she wont call back ! i called the bank and the account is closed. she filled out a form with the bank with out telling me, and the money is gone. does anyone know where i stand, do i have any rights, is this legal???

2006-12-05 14:09:52 · 6 answers · asked by THOMAS T 1

so my dad is basically one of the biggest assholes you will ever meet in ur life and trust me on this one..
he is the most selfish person u will ever meet and i have never told him how i really felt about him. im not exactly nice but i never tell him wen he is being an *** or that he really hurt me with all the crap he did/does..u kno how it goes drugs, streets, babe kids, ***** attitude, cheats on ppl
NOT ONE THING EVER, and its driving me crazy, the worst part is that he always thinks he is right and it is EVERYONE else who is wrong. most my other brothers and sisters have told him how much of an *** he is but that is what effect he had on them not me and theres a difference because im the ONE who hasnt dropped outta highschool lol. its a long story but long story short i say what i want to say to him over and over again in my head but it never seems to come out and im sick of letting him walk all over me so what should i do just let it go and keep it inside STILL??

2006-12-05 14:00:22 · 10 answers · asked by b.lynn 2

My mother is a very sweet woman, but I can't think of what to get her. She is so picky about presents and she doesn't have a wish-list. I know she loves penguins, but she has too many statues of them. And as for jewlry, she doesn't want any. No candles, either. Or random pretty boxes. I take this very seriously every year because I love my mom a LOT. So I would appreciate it if someone would give me ideas. Craft ideas would be nice as well. Please help.

2006-12-05 13:54:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 22 yrs old, a 4th year univeristy student, I work a full time job, there is no doubt that I am not responsible. Im not a complete nerd like I must sound, I have friends and a boyfriend its not like I have socialization problems but my parents still treat me like Im 13 yrs old.
I want to go away for New Years with my friends for 3 nights. I am terrified to even let my parents know because they will lose it and just make me upset and then in the end as usual my friend will go away and have the time of their lives while I stay at home. Im really tired not being able to do things that a normal 22 yr should do. Like have fun!
I really deseve this mini-vacation, between school stress and applying for law school I had has alot of hardship this yr including both my grandmothers passing away within 20days from each other and a lot of other things. I just really want to start the year off good. PLEAsE Help me figure how to convince them.This means alot to me.

2006-12-05 13:50:23 · 12 answers · asked by jdamion1985 1

I MADE IT!!!!!! In two more weeks I'll be graduating college with my bachelors degree in Economics!!!!!!!

I couldnt be any more excited!!!! But at the same time really scared to be actually entering the "real world"

2006-12-05 13:41:23 · 7 answers · asked by cutecherelle006 1

how do i live with my father who has never been there and has just arrived from belize and has not tried to get in contact with me not one time. When i see him should i forgive hime or forever hold a grudge

2006-12-05 13:38:49 · 5 answers · asked by Lady_A 2

Well my brother is 14. He is'nt perfect. He brakes the rules and gets in alot of trouble if he gets caught, and if its really bad! He is supposed to be home at 9:30 on weekends. Sometimes he comes home at 10:00.
But one time he came home at 12:30.
I dont know how my mom didnt figure out he wasnt home! But when she found out he got is ALOT of trouble! I dont really care if my brother gets in trouble. I actually enjoy watching. But i love getting my mom mad. Well my brother skipped one of his classes....a couple of times..
Well i dont know if i should tell my parents because if i do, he will get into trouble because of me, and i will get into trouble because i have been keeping this a secret for a while. But if i dont tell my parents, they might find out and my brother gets in trouble and so do i because i never told them. Sould i tell them? Either way hes going to get in alot of trouble!!! haha!

2006-12-05 13:35:09 · 5 answers · asked by Sage H 1

OK, this is a long story, so be prepared. My name is Jacob and I have a pretty ****** up life. We have lots of money, but like people say,"Money can't make people happy."This is extremely TRUE.Take a look at this chart... Pay CLOSE ATTENTION (start at "Tension Building") TO IT because this is a KEY part to my problem. Go here: http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h225/jkwilson93/DV-cycle.gif Seen it? Good. In my situation, I do not like my dad. He's 64. I'm 13. My mom is 54. He's qalways grunting and talking to himself which annoys the hell outta me. I cant look at porn but he used to.(Im going to run out of text so go here to read the rest: (Page 1:http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h225/jkwilson93/familyproblems.jpg

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Thanks.

2006-12-05 13:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an Aunt (my mom's sister) who's in my age group. She's about 36 yrs old & I am 31. Anyway, I don't understand her. Sometimes she's nice to me, sometimes she's just plain mean & disrespectful. She talks bad & tells lies about me behind my back to other relatives in our family. She over exaggerates on her stories so they'll hate me & be against me. Her boyfriend and i had a fight last summer. He hit me & called me a b*tch. I can't go into details but this fight had nothing to do w/her. I tried to tell her, please stay out of it & not judge me. Instead, she sided against me. I e-mailed her & told her how I felt, how she's been treating me over the years. She responded back harshly & said she wishes I was'nt part of the family. She then deleted my profile & pictures from our family website on MSN. Her e-mail was cruel. She forwarded it to everyone in our family so they would all hate me. She teaches my younger cousins to hate me, but they don't. My cousins still love me.

2006-12-05 13:30:47 · 3 answers · asked by sugarBear 6

He doesn't work or support her much. What should my next step be?

2006-12-05 13:26:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i will marry with this amazing boy, he is like a blue prince, always open the door, take me to restaurants, buy me jewerly, but he is family betrays him. he lent his father a big amount of money and now dont want to pay it. his mother dont care about he, his brother always says something to hurt him and reproaches everything, his aunts,...well, worse and cousinst too. now he is living with his only sister, that he loved much, but she get worse than all the people above togheter! nobody in his family appreciate him. he feels very depresed. what should i do? i'm the only one that gives him support. i dont know what more to do? should i go and live with him alone? should i take him to other city and start a new life without the people that damage his life? he needs help/

2006-12-05 13:21:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we gonna call him Florida

2006-12-05 13:08:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous