i live with my dad right now. my mother wants me to move in with her and i want to but i dont want to leave my dad. there is a lot of fight at my dads and i sick and tried of it. when i go to my mothers there is lke no fighting at all. she move back to where i lived to get me. i donno if she is going to do it. then we would move back out to missouri and then my boyfreind is down there. so i would be happyer out there. i love it in missouri to. she kinda let me do more stuff then my dad dose to. i wish my dad could just move down to missouri so we can all be happy. i dont know if he would be happy thoght . i dont know what to do please help.. thanks!
2006-12-05 15:32:50 · 6 answers · asked by katie h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, you said it yourself......lots of fights at your dads' but not at your moms. Then your b/f is in Missouri. Girl - you answered your own question. I know you love both your parents but you can't have them both at the same time. Go where you'll be most happy at. By you chosing to go live with your mom, doesn't mean you don't love your dad. You can still visit your dad. But seems like there are more advantages being with your mom than with your dad. So really, you answered your own question. You didn't need answers - you probably just need opinions. You don't need approval for anything you decide. If you think you'll be more happier with mom --- go be with mom. Your dad will be okay I'm sure. Good luck.
2006-12-05 15:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really want to live with your mom, but don't want to hurt you dad's feelings. Don't count on your parents moving to the same city just so you can see both of them. They have to have personal motivation, like a job or something that will make them relocate for their own lives to be better. Of course they both love you, but they don't want to be tied together. Sorry you are in this delimma. Try talking to your dad about how stressful the fighting is making you feel. Maybe he will have a solution. Good luck.
2006-12-05 15:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go not where a parent lets you do more, not where your boyfriend is, but where it is best for you. If there is much fighting at your fathers home you need to speak with him and express to him that it upsets you. If you rather be with your mother you need to be honest with your father. Never shut the door on either parent, as they both love you very much.
2006-12-05 15:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and go where you will be happiest. Just make sure you let your father know that you still love him but you want what's best for you and he should want that too. Good luck.
2006-12-05 15:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by redcoat7121 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't as shallow as it seems but pick the one with the better job. Trust me.
2006-12-05 15:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by scar_strangled_banter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question already.
2006-12-05 15:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kalia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋