Family - December 2006

2006-12-06 04:19:10 · 3 answers · asked by 777r 1

2006-12-06 04:15:58 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6

I have not seen my parents in over 4 yrs. There was a huge falling out long time ago over my previous divorce. They have never met my children from this marriage. My husband is upset with them for ex-communicating me...but now my parents want to be a part of my/our lives and my husband says he will not allow them into his home when he is here. I am not to give them my physical address, he says. If they do come here he will leave and the list goes on. I have shed many tears and I know life is too short over silliness. I forgive my parents. I want to move on. How should I handle this ex-marine, stubborn, hard-headed man I have? What would you do?

2006-12-06 04:13:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 8 mnth olds father's family and I (mom and sister) were getting along just fine. I had just met them when I was about 5 mnths pregnant with the baby. And they recieved me very well. I talked with the mom at least once a week, the sister almost every other day, if not everyday. Even his other children's mom and I had a very positive rapport with one another. So we all got along really well.
Well about 4 months ago, he and I got into an argument and he decided to go his mom and sister and other baby's mom and tell them that I spoke negatively about them, which is absolutely not true. They took his word for it and as of now no one in his family speaks to me, at all, not even to ask about the baby.

At this point, 4 months later, he and I still speak but his family only sees the baby when he has him.

Well yesterday, in anger, he admitted to me that he purposely destroyed my relationship with his family becuz he felt that we were getting too close.

2006-12-06 04:13:18 · 4 answers · asked by Perfect 78 2

still tuck you in bed and give you a kiss goodnight
mine don`t

2006-12-06 04:05:30 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2

Who would be the hardest person to tell??? Me min ewould be my oldest bro man hill kill me after he kills the guy who got me pregnant??? He is like my dad because i could care less what my dad would have to say hes no good anyways. Who would be the hardest person for you to tell???

2006-12-06 04:01:25 · 13 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3

Alright so my boyfriend and I have been planning to go out to his parents house for the week prior to christmas for a long time.We have been planning the things we are going to see and do for at least 3 months now, and I have been really excited about it. Yesterday, he was talking to his mother and said he was going to be there for christmas. This was puzzling because we have been planing to spend christmas with my family, and my mom needs me home for christmas. So I asked him about it, and he said well I guess you cant go then. I also wanted to go with him because his family is close to his ex and they have christmas with them at their house each year. So not only am I let down because I was excited to see all these things and take a trip together, but also when we were supposed to have christmas together, he is now going to his parents house for christmas, and spending it with his ex. Advice? What should I say to him?

2006-12-06 04:01:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright so my boyfriend and I have been planning to go out to his parents house for the week prior to christmas for a long time.We have been planning the things we are going to see and do for at least 3 months now, and I have been really excited about it. Yesterday, he was talking to his mother and said he was going to be there for christmas. This was puzzling because we have been planing to spend christmas with my family, and my mom needs me home for christmas. So I asked him about it, and he said well I guess you cant go then. I also wanted to go with him because his family is close to his ex and they have christmas with them at their house each year. So when we were supposed to have christmas together, he is now going to his parents house for christmas, and spending it with his ex. Advice? What should I say to hime?

2006-12-06 03:58:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since my mum left ive lost all discipline and its just me and my dad. He thinks everything is ok but i left school with crap gcse's and i went from top of the class to nothing. Now im unmotivated and allthough im at college i hardly ever go and im about to be kicked off. I would have been so scared to do this when my mum was around when i was younger. I need some self control. Any ideas how i could go back to the disciplined days?

2006-12-06 03:44:42 · 8 answers · asked by Kenneth J 2

Or get a job or drive (not even a permit)....

2006-12-06 03:42:02 · 8 answers · asked by Choconilla 2

2006-12-06 03:37:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is having a troubled , very bitter relationship with his own uncle (mother's brother) and 3 Masis (Mother's sisters).
uncle and hubby are in India and all 3 Masis are in USA.
This started 2 years back.
My husband happened to stay at uncle's home for couple of weeks when he moved to uncle's city for job.
In Indian context it's absoulutely alright for a nephew to stay at uncle's place for couple of weeks.
But I do not know why things went wrong, my husband's Masis started calling and e-mailing from US , asking him why he is still at uncle's home , when is he moving out of uncle's home and searching his own apartment.
The manner this message was conveyed was very rude.
It has hurt my husband so much that he couldn't get over with it in last 2 years.He is very emotional person . He is really hurt the way the people whom he has grown up loving say things so rudely.
Now he talks about breaking the umbilical cord !
I need to know if I can help him in any regard.

2006-12-06 03:37:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last xmas morning my Mom passed away at home. When she didn't answer her phone xmas morning I drove over to her place. I knew something was wrong so I asked her neighbor to please come into the apartment with me to check on my mother. According to the paramedics she had passed away sometime between 3 & 5 AM.
How can I ever celebrate Xmas again. All I can think of now when I think of xmas is losing my Mother.
The closer it gets the more I'm dreading Xmas day.

2006-12-06 03:35:35 · 33 answers · asked by susie_41553 1

well my grandmother raised me and i think she did a good job. i like 2 believe i'm a good person i have a great job and good friends a na a great boyfriend, but i do wish she hadnt spoiled me as much some times i wish she had been a little tougher on me i think it would have prepared me better 4 life.

2006-12-06 03:32:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is in a nursing home. I am the only child and I live in Arkansas (she is in California) and the only granddaughter lives in Virginia. She needs 24 hour care but I feel so guilty for not being there to take care of her. I am a property manager so I can not move. My daughter is in the military. Any suggestions on how to cope with this?

2006-12-06 03:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by Sim 2

When something bad happens, all you need is one person. It doesn't matter what the rest of the world thinks; all you need is one good friend who understands you and will love you no matter what mistakes you make. But i have no one. There is not a soul that i can talk to. I have made a mistake, and i don't have the guts to talk about it. I physically cant talk. I would come out and tell the truth- but there isn't one. There's no big secret, i just messed up. But that makes me look like a horrible person. Who would be that irresponsible on purpose? I used to be the one that everyone trusted. I was always the responsible one and everyone depended on me. Now i am nothing but a failure and a burden to all those around me. I would need an excuse to gain trust- but i don't want to gain trust by telling a lie. I cannot live my life that way anymore. So i have decided that i am better off alone. I dont want anyome to get hurt because of me.Redemption is too far away for me now. I must start ove

2006-12-06 03:22:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sister moved into town (and in with my parents) last week....she is a drug addict/alcoholic and is manic depressive....the day she came into town i went to visit her and she got wierd and left without saying goodbye to me (after she called me 4 times to tell me how excited she was to see me)....then she called me twice that day and hung up on me both times....then the next morning she called and told me that she confronted one of our parents about being molested by the other parent (we were both molested as children)......i suffer from anxiety and depression and just recently got out of the hospital......i've already stopped talking to my sister cuz it's too stressful for me right now....and now she has confronted both of our parents about being molested and i'm afraid that it will cause an irrepairable rift in our family....i haven't spoken to my parents since they were confronted.....how would you handle this situation???

2006-12-06 03:19:16 · 16 answers · asked by SNAP! 4

Um, About 8 months ago, I got out of foster care.so,i now live with my real mom.for these 8 months its been hell. my brother hates me and my mom treats me very differently, i feel so depressed and upset inside. i thought, maybe i could call my caseworker and ask her to talk with me about it, but i'm afraid that my mom will find out and get upset. i don't know what to do.I feel like i'm about to burst !!!

2006-12-06 03:19:04 · 16 answers · asked by one_gifted_genius 1

I just got a great job offer in Tucker, GA and I am thinking about taking the offer and buying a home in Lithonia area. I've checked Money mag, Sterling's, Black Enterprise and some other resources. I really want to know what the people who live or have lived there think. I am African American, married, and have three kids. Thanks, in advance.

2006-12-06 03:16:49 · 5 answers · asked by aboogie72 1

I was abused emotionally by mom and sexually by dad. I feel in horrible pain right now. Is it ever going to end?

2006-12-06 03:10:32 · 13 answers · asked by Alejandra 1

Dose mother should be be like strict and shoul behave like a good judge As GOD. Can she treat the her children much better then the other. or every small kid should be equal to her. i had experience my mother Lovable Also and stricet to us. i had experience one moteher only hitting to the kids for chintu mistakes in the name of diceiplene. on the other hand she is dependable on the son/ daughter. Also there are blind belives in childrens at homes.

2006-12-06 03:02:33 · 4 answers · asked by anciantindia 1

I don't know if it truly is depression. Her health is a problem almost to the point of I wonder if she is imagining it but what makes me mad is most of it would go away if she lost weight. Her house which used to be nice has over the last 7 years turned into a pig sty she never puts things away. She no longer will allow anyone into her house b/c she is ashamed of it. My bother and myself have tried to help organize it but she just doesn't do anything. On her days off she is either sleeping or consumed with doctors appts. My brother moved several hours away from us and is no longer to involved with her. I feel like I am carring this burden myself and I have my own life and family to take care of. She askes me to do a lot for her to the point of she now expects it, ie she told someone I would go by there place (very out of the way) to pick something up because she did not want them to come to her house, before she even asked me. I can't take it anymore and don't know what to do.

2006-12-06 02:56:26 · 5 answers · asked by kat 2

I am not a bad person. Everyone has always depended on me for everything- Everyone trusted me. Then i screwed up. I cant handle that kind of pressure. I never meant to let this go so far; but i have. And now a little, fixable problem has turned into a mistake that i cannot ever take back. What do i do? What can i say? No one wants to forgive me. I am a different person in their eyes now, and i cannot be trusted. I had the best of intentions; but i made a mistake. I cannot move on unless i do something about this. I cannot continue to feel this way... Can i earn back trust? Or once it is destroyed- is it gone forever? Can i fix this?

2006-12-06 02:55:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have three older brothers. Two are great, I love them. But the other one? Yeah, he is REALLY not great. All he does is laugh at me, make fun of me, hit me, shout at me. He's so smart that I can't say anything witty to his mean remarks, because he'll always say something better. I can't sit down with him and tell him he's upsetting me because he'll laugh at me and won't ever drop it. And if I'm winning the argument, he'll just mimick me and then laugh some more. It's so frustrating!

I've tried telling my parents but they sigh and tell me to ignore him. It's so hard. I think I'm actually scared of him. He makes me want to run away. I can't cope with him anymore. It doesn't sound so bad, you may think it's just a simple teasing. But it's much more. I can't stand him and I don't know what to do about it :'(

2006-12-06 02:43:36 · 22 answers · asked by BassGirl 1

2006-12-06 02:41:45 · 17 answers · asked by laci 2

My mom and I have been having an argument since July... I have tried 'sending out the olive branch' by e-mail and give her an opportunity to appoligize but she won't.... My sons 1st birthday was on Sept. 29th, and she didn't even send him a card, or call... she sent a response of an e-mail I sent saying that I 'deprived' her from seeing him on his birthday..... I am discusted and confused.... Please help me!!!

2006-12-06 02:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter met a guy moved 1/2 way across the us to be with him decided to give her 3 boys to there dad i guess this guy didn`t like kids she also had a baby by another guy when she met this guy she moved to be with she called and said her baby boy 11 months old has been abused and was in neonatal intensive care me and my other 2 daughters begged borrowed and went in debt to fly to another state to be with her supposedly this boyfriend had beat my grandson he had a 7"skull fracture his brain was swollen he had damage to his esphoygus and at the time had no sight we stayed a few days with her then we returned home when he was out of the woods the dss took custody of the baby and placed him in a foster home we moved my daughter back to kansas to start classes and requirements to regain custody of her baby she started talking with this guy and moved back right before they sent him to prison she married him he told her it was an accident i can not find a way to get over this what do i do

2006-12-06 02:32:56 · 8 answers · asked by maxine101 1

my new partner doesnt like the way my teenage daughter treats me sometimes, but he,s afraid too say anything, but does too me and i get a bit defensive! they do on a whole get along great

2006-12-06 02:07:24 · 21 answers · asked by apple 2

2006-12-06 02:04:12 · 9 answers · asked by icnoghost 1

2006-12-06 01:59:48 · 19 answers · asked by apple 2