What should I do about me Boyfriend? Relationship advice.?

Question

Alright so my boyfriend and I have been planning to go out to his parents house for the week prior to christmas for a long time.We have been planning the things we are going to see and do for at least 3 months now, and I have been really excited about it. Yesterday, he was talking to his mother and said he was going to be there for christmas. This was puzzling because we have been planing to spend christmas with my family, and my mom needs me home for christmas. So I asked him about it, and he said well I guess you cant go then. I also wanted to go with him because his family is close to his ex and they have christmas with them at their house each year. So not only am I let down because I was excited to see all these things and take a trip together, but also when we were supposed to have christmas together, he is now going to his parents house for christmas, and spending it with his ex. Advice? What should I say to him?

Answer 1

I would be ticked! you have every right to be...not because he wants to be with his family for Christmas because that is understanding but because he ruined the plans that you two made together, he hurt your feelings and doesn't seems to care, and he was rude when he said "I guess you can't go then." And...I would not like that idea of him spending the holiday with his ex, i mean you should trust him (unless he's messed up before) but because he should be spending the holiday with you! You should just tell him how you feel and tell him you don't appriciate being treated like that!

Answer 2

TRUST him and if you cant trust him then ask him to stay with you just to come back before christmas so you can still got too

Answer 3

Where does your ex live? lol.... go there...
Seriously... I think you should talk things over with him and find out why he has changed his mind just so overnight. I am sure that if you beg enough and fake anger he will definitely come by yours.