I was abused emotionally by mom and sexually by dad. I feel in horrible pain right now. Is it ever going to end?
2006-12-06 03:10:32 · 13 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to speak to a couselor. I've never been in your situation so I can't say how long it takes to cope, but I can tell just from your short question that it's painful for you.
My gut feeling is that you can over come the pain and turn your misfortune into good. I've heard that if you take your bad experiences and help people who are going through the same thing get through it that it will help your recovery too.
2006-12-06 03:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel...Growing up as a little girl I used to get abused mentally and physically by my older brother and my grandmother. Until now when I think about it, it hurts because I ask myself what could I had done wrong to make them abuse of me so much if I was just a little girl. I could tell you that it will go away but I would only be lying to you and I don't want to do that. Your nightmare is always going to be their and will never go away. The thing that helped for me was Praying to God alot and writing. I would write all of my anger on paper and that really helped me from doing something stupid because many times I wanted to commit suicide and not live anymore but I didn't. Someday I would want to have my stuff published and have the world read it because I know that like you and I their are so many others going through the same thing every day. I hope that things get better for you...God Bless and if you need someone to talk to E-mail me and I will be more than happy to help you with what ever you might be going through.
2006-12-06 03:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by mysteryousmtz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Polyn, I am sure that your grandkids are not going to be abused. I'm pretty sure that racism will not disappear or even get less - the more some advance, the more others will be left behind and feel the need to look down on SOMEONE - but we all learn to swim to the most friendly waves and have a great time there. Too bad for the racist people - they will miss out on the nice life of your grandkids.
2016-05-23 00:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it dose get better but you need a professional in this Field to speak with to help you work through all of your emotions.I to was abused when I was younger. I didn't have anyone to speak with until I got older and now I'm doing wonderful. Just remember you were a victim of a crime and it was not your fault. I'm sure you have close friends and other family members that love you very much. They do not think any less of you. Don't let the people that did this to you win. Be strong hold your head up and let them see your power, don't let them control you for the rest of your life.
2006-12-06 03:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by buffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unfortunately when you have been abused, you carry that with you throughout your life. You may finally become numb to it emotionally, but it is always there affecting your decisions in life, making you not trust people, and even possibly causing you to partake in unhealthy romantic relationships. The more you talk about it with someone that you trust, the better you will feel. I suggest maybe even some therapy.
2006-12-06 03:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by The Raven † 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never! Talking about it helps, but it never stops. It will forever be in your mind, and different things will remind you of what happened to you. Just keep reminding yourself that it wasn't anything you could control, it wasn't your fault, and it's over now. You can now move forward with your life, and live it as it should have been before. Make the most of it, it's yours!
2006-12-06 03:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by smommeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, for those of us who were abused, these pains remain for life. As you get older they become eaiser to deal with, but you never forget it. Have you considered therapy? I highly reccomend it. Hugs to you.
2006-12-06 03:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to an adult you can trust.
such as a Relative, Teacher, Clergy
They will know how to get you the help you need and also make certain you are safe.
You cant share this alone, you need to tell someone asap.
2006-12-06 03:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to therapy. seriously, i've gone through the exact same thing. it'll still hurt for a while but over time everything will get better and those nightmares and fears will soon lessen, i promise
2006-12-06 03:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try to find someone to talk to. You will never forget but finding a safe place to talk will certainly ease the pain in time. Good Luck.
2006-12-06 03:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Scooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋