Alright so my boyfriend and I have been planning to go out to his parents house for the week prior to christmas for a long time.We have been planning the things we are going to see and do for at least 3 months now, and I have been really excited about it. Yesterday, he was talking to his mother and said he was going to be there for christmas. This was puzzling because we have been planing to spend christmas with my family, and my mom needs me home for christmas. So I asked him about it, and he said well I guess you cant go then. I also wanted to go with him because his family is close to his ex and they have christmas with them at their house each year. So when we were supposed to have christmas together, he is now going to his parents house for christmas, and spending it with his ex. Advice? What should I say to hime?
2006-12-06 03:58:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like he set you up on purpose. Go home, be with your family, and let him and his ex have a very Merry Christmas. What a jerk!!!!
2006-12-06 04:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by sierraskyesmom 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did he give you a reason for the change in plans? If you feel that he changed because he didnt want you there at his parents or because he wanted to see his ex....then you should go to your Mom's and have a great time. Forget the Loser! Seriously who wants to be with someone you cant trust or who doesnt want to be with you. There are so many quality people out there, find a better fit for you!
2006-12-06 04:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by conf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to reevaluate your relationship...he doesn't seem to care about you or your feelings very much. If you felt the need to go because his ex is close by then you must not trust him and if you cant trust him....move on to someone you can. Life is to short to deal with this kind of drama. Make yourself happy, and find someone who wants you by his side. Make your decision but follow through with it or he will never take you seriously...show him you will not be treated this way!!
2006-12-06 05:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to trust your own boyfriend.
Just go home and spend time with your family for once.
You can't be with your boyfriend 24/7...
2006-12-06 04:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him I wouldn't worry about his ex. Just tell him that you were really looking forward to your previous plans. Be honest he'll listen to you.
2006-12-06 04:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be like that bullshit that you were supposed to spend it with my family and you just change your mind.... let him know that you are really upset that he doesnt wantto spend christmas with your family
2006-12-06 04:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him exactly how you feel and see what happens from there.
Don't keep your feelings to yourself....make sure he knows how you feel!
2006-12-06 04:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a bad feeling about it then i guess something might happen but you cant do anything about it unless you go. so try to talk to your mom about it and see if you can go
2006-12-06 04:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go help put the fun back in dysfuntional families.
2006-12-06 04:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋