Family - December 2006

why all of this heartbreak,
seemingly every where,
why do you forget me,
why don't you care?
i know very well,
that i'm never good enough for you,
but why do you tell me,
how little i mean, how my life should be through.
i know this already,
theres no need to say,
it only causes me pain,
that doesnt ever go away.

2006-12-06 10:23:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-06 10:11:52 · 12 answers · asked by Redtrack703 1

i cant stop fighting with my mum and i dont know why. i get mad at her and then she gets super mad at me and we both end up screaming and slamming doors. this is not tipical teenage stuff and im 13. at night right over are mother/daughter battle i feel so guilty that i cry myself to sleep. when i try to tell her im sorry, she acts like im a lying brat and that i dont mean it altough i really do. im so mean i cant stand my self anymore. everything i do or say is disrespectful and i just keep messing up and ruining everyones day. i just feel so bad at what i do. please help me and only kind answers please.

2006-12-06 10:07:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-06 10:05:08 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

My dad has been an alcoholic for 13 years now and im 15 and well he got in trouble with the law and like i love him and he stopped drinking but he is hiding it from us that he is drinking being little a long time a go i remmeber him just sitting in silence then finally after 2 days crying he loved me with all his heart but that love keepsbreaking! WHY WHY ME? i am a girl standing in front oh her daddy asking him to stop drinking but wont it hurt hius feelings will he runaway will he understand what can i do i need so much help this is then first time i have ever told anyone about this so plz take it easy on me okay!!!

2006-12-06 09:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he just will not talk to us. i feel im a bad mother..ive tryed my best but it is never good enuff for him .

2006-12-06 09:48:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

While my parents were in the midst of their divorce they'd talk crap about each other to my sister and I. (She was 13, I was 11). Is this normal? Should parents do that? Furthermore, my dad was not court ordered to pay child support, so my mom would make my sister or I go demand the money from my dad. Why do parents act like children when they get divorced? I'm an adult now, and could not even imagine putting my kids through that crap. Anybody else experience these kinds of things?

2006-12-06 09:42:26 · 16 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4

My parents I should say aren't the nicest people. I'm 15 years old and my parents are constantly yelling at me. My parents argue with each other and say that their marital problems are my fault. I have severe depression and see a therapist once a week, but I don't talk to her much because I don't like talking about my past....My parents yell at me b/c of my music that i listen to and the kind of clothes i wear. They won't let me get my permit or even take my driving courses. They also won't let me get my work permit which I totally do not understand. Please someone help me I can't take this anymore.

2006-12-06 09:35:40 · 8 answers · asked by himnbamluvr 1

we are having a baby and the mother has decided to move without letting us know. prior to her moving we were going to be extremely involved with the baby (I have other children and play a big role). I don't want to just never see my child, and i believe I will provide a much better and stable environment.

2006-12-06 09:32:45 · 6 answers · asked by milah mae 2

I didn't think it was possible to dislike a person this much. I hear her voice and it annoys me. We move out of her house in 16 days and counting and I can't wait. She makes me so mad I wanna cry sometimes. Has anyone else ever been through this?

2006-12-06 09:31:54 · 11 answers · asked by Chrisy 2

What should I get my 13 year old brother? But I only have $20 dollars to spend on him can you tell me and tell me the website. And if you could make the stores that your idea is at be some where in Louisville KY.

2006-12-06 09:27:14 · 3 answers · asked by Tyler 2

I am 24 years old, and have tried as best as I could to better myself. I am close to graduating college and have been responsible with work, bills, and have a great relationship. My parents however made my childhood less than stellar. My dad was a drunken adulterer who was never around, and when he was he was angry and ridiculous. My mother was depressed and slept all the time and was often emotionally abusive. I have never said anything to my parents regarding their parenting or lack of parenting. I feel that my dad, at the very least, needs to know how horrible things were with him. I'm not close to him at all. Do I just keep my mouth shut and resent him forever, or tell him somehow what he did was wrong? He's still an alcoholic, but denies it.

2006-12-06 09:20:13 · 16 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4

i have known my husband for almost 15 years. we met when i was 14 and he was 19. We were friends for 8 years before we got together and it was something we both really wanted. The only problem is all of our friends (at the time we met) thought he was gay. I always thought that he was just a bit shy with girls i was the only girl that he ever spoke to properly. We became best friends within days of meeting and have been ever since.
The reasons that concern me are 1: He has admitted to me that he was curious about how it would feel. 2: We don't have sex as much as i would like and he dosn't seem to pay me attention in any sexual way unless i initiate. 3: I know this is steriotypical (and that is wrong) but he spends more time grooming himself and buys way more face creams etc.. than i even knew existed.
In his defence his mother had two boys and he is the youngest. She really wanted a girl and taught him to look after his skin etc. I love him to death, tell me im just paranoid.

2006-12-06 09:17:28 · 48 answers · asked by Mishka 1

someone just said in an answer that incest is not intentional, most people don't choose to have sex with a family member they are forced. How the f*ck could it happen by accident or being forced. If you choose to have sex with your brother or sister, its because you choose two. It doesn't happen by accident, and its certainly not forced. If its forced then its rape, not incest. Incest is willingly having sex with another family member. If the person is not of age, then its child molestion not incest. If two people willfully consent then how was it forced or how is it just an accident.

2006-12-06 09:14:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are alot of racist comments on me being white. I am a hottie - the only prob is im
white!
How in the world do i cope!

2006-12-06 09:10:27 · 13 answers · asked by Whitnie D 1

My kids were allowed to go visit their father on Thanksgiving Day of 2005. He came and picked them up from my house under false pretenses. He claimed he just wanted to visit with them because he just got out of jail shortly before that. I have been trying to be a "good" parentby letting stay with him for a little while. I went to get them in May and he begged me to let them stay with him until I moved into my new apartment. So I moved into my apartment on August 1, 2006. I called him and he told me I was not getting sh**! My kids are crying for me his alleged wife says but she and him are seperated, because he a heroine addic. I dont know where he is staying because she dont want to give him up. I explained to her that I just wanted my kids, but she probably think I will do something crazy to her.Which these are my babies we are talking about and if I get a little crazy, DUH! I am on welfare and been to legal aid, and the cops and theuy told me there is nothing they can do about it.

2006-12-06 09:03:02 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Momma 1

Situation: I stood up to a bully in my family this week. There are three. One-- I have no contact with, the second, I have very limited contact with and the third, well I FINALLY stood up to her. She went and TOLD the other two and now they are all ganging up on me. They are hateful, dishonest and cruel. I am honest and very sensitive. I've asked them all to stay away from me, my husband and my daughter. I know it will hurt my mother terribly but I just can't take it anymore. Can someone say something to me that will help me find my pride again? I have been so derailed and ganged up on and lied to and about. I am crying as I write this. Anything??

2006-12-06 08:53:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was about 7 years old I was taken away from my birth mother and put up for adoption and now I am about to be 17 years old and I got contact of her and like I want to live with her and see her would it be against the law to go and do that at the age of 17 years old? Just to move with my birth family (mom) I mean I though I was old enough to do whatever I wanted and what if I just run away? Would that be okay just to walk out?

2006-12-06 08:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by vickyg_892008 3

My father had promised me that he would co-sign for a 4-wheeler for my 10 year old son (his only grandchild) for Christmas. My dad is very well off financially and will live comfortably for the rest of his life. My credit report has "issues" and I needed a cosigner to be able to finance one. He had promised to do this for me back in September so I finally got around to going and picking one out. I had the salesman put it back for me, I filled out the applications (with the information that my dad given me on himself) and was ready to go pick up the 4-wheeler. We got a great deal with a very low interest rate. Then, out of the blue, my "lovely" father decides that he doesn't want to co-sign so the whole deal was off. Now I have to run around and get my son crappy, last minute, Christmas gifts. No 4-wheeler this christmas. I am very upset and cried for hours last night. I don't want to ever see him or speak to him (my father) again. Should I totally cut him out of my life?

2006-12-06 08:42:27 · 12 answers · asked by Angel W 3

he is 30, we just met for the first time this year and I do not know what to buy him for Christmas

2006-12-06 08:30:56 · 16 answers · asked by D.C 2

What would you do if you were anti-abortion & one of your close relatives owend numerous abortion clinics? What "should" your relationship be with him/her? Lets say you love him/her..but he/she is still a mass murderer ..isn't it a very awakened situation?
(sigh)..I know being mean to him/her isn't a very good thing to do..but what "should" you do? What would YOU do if you were/are in this situation?

2006-12-06 08:28:11 · 4 answers · asked by *~SoL~ * Pashaa del Ñuñcaa. 4

2006-12-06 08:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by babba b 1

my grandpa, beeing at my house for a visit, my parents not beeing home at the moment, had the right to disciplining me for something i did and he found out (phone call) with a belt spanking ?
The parents of a kid i picked on called home and my grandpa took the phone call and was informed.

2006-12-06 08:22:40 · 6 answers · asked by L R 1

....and which would you prefer and why? The answer to these two questions I believe is not necessarily the same

2006-12-06 08:15:07 · 7 answers · asked by Seeker 4

I like him and I have become friendlier with him while his ex an dhim were broken up. She cheated on him and he knows. But he took her back. I would like to stay friends with him but really I want to be more. I don't know if I should wait for him, tell him how I feel or just forget him.

2006-12-06 08:12:30 · 6 answers · asked by Bella 3

doesnt every first year student at university screw up financially? like they overspend ? i did. lik only a little bit. and my parents blew up at me. and i feel so ****. it's not my fault. i mean why cant they understand that its only my first 3 months in univ all alone in a city....

2006-12-06 08:06:43 · 4 answers · asked by Betty 2

I'm Daniel and I'm 18 years old.


One night I made what you would call a mistake, but I wouldn't now, at the time I would. My girlfriend of two years had gotten pregnant. Everything was working out fine until she died in childbirth. She gave me my amazing daughter who is 5 months old and I can't stop the criticisms.

I dropped out of school, not because I was dumb because I love my daughter. I do plan on heading back some day. I have a steady job at my fathers realty business and I make a good amount of money to live in a nice neighborhood with a beautiful home. I give my daughter everything, she is actually very very very spoiled. Every outfit... theres a headband and matching shoes. She has every toy known to mankind. I love her unconditionally and I only want the best for her. I need people to stop judging before they know me, but its harder than i thought.



A picture of my baby girl:
http://i14.tinypic.com/2rxf95k.png

2006-12-06 08:03:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I demand more Christmas presents from my mother this year?? I am 39 living at home and she has said I wasn't getting much this year. Whats a good way to demand or tell her I want more?

2006-12-06 08:01:13 · 10 answers · asked by aj lewis 1

but he will not stop he told me that if i dont that he will do somthing drastic PLEASE HELP ME I AM TIERED OF IT

2006-12-06 08:00:01 · 15 answers · asked by wild child 1

newborns conversation with God:

A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth
tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and
helpless?"

God said,
"Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."

The child further inquired,
"But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing
and smile to be happy."

God said,
"Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you.
And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."

Again the child asked,
"And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me
if I don't know the language?"

God said,
"Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you
will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will
teach you how to speak."

"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"

God said,
"Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how
to pray."

"Who will protect me?"

God said,
"Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life."

"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."

God said,
"Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the
way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."

At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from
Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to
leave now, please tell me my angel's name."

God said,
"You will simply call her, "Mom."

2006-12-06 07:55:54 · 4 answers · asked by eeyoree rocks2003 7