My kids were allowed to go visit their father on Thanksgiving Day of 2005. He came and picked them up from my house under false pretenses. He claimed he just wanted to visit with them because he just got out of jail shortly before that. I have been trying to be a "good" parentby letting stay with him for a little while. I went to get them in May and he begged me to let them stay with him until I moved into my new apartment. So I moved into my apartment on August 1, 2006. I called him and he told me I was not getting sh**! My kids are crying for me his alleged wife says but she and him are seperated, because he a heroine addic. I dont know where he is staying because she dont want to give him up. I explained to her that I just wanted my kids, but she probably think I will do something crazy to her.Which these are my babies we are talking about and if I get a little crazy, DUH! I am on welfare and been to legal aid, and the cops and theuy told me there is nothing they can do about it.
2006-12-06 09:03:02 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Momma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is nothing the cops can do if there was never any custody papers drawn up. The only way the cops can do anything about the drugs is if they find them on him. There has to be actual proof of that. You can call CPS on him and get them to start inspectin the situation, and if they found reason to take the kids then you could get them back that way. Other wise you need to get papers entered into the court for custody of your kids and the judge will most likely grant you custody and get your kids back to you. Wish you the best of luck. Been there and I know it's hard. If you chose to go thru Child protection services you dont even have to give them your name if you don't want too. Just tell them about the drugs and that you've seen it done around them and your worried about their safety.
2006-12-06 09:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 23:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by kinjorski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you mean there is nothing they can do....they can issue an amber alert.....that's one thing they can do. I guess by now you know you made a mistake by giving him anything longer than weekend. I know you thought he was sincere. Of course he doesn't want to give the kids, because you being on welfare he will have to cooperate with child support. If I was you I would do some investigating on the net. You can file a missing persons report than the cops will have to do something. I would check with every relative and friend til I find my children. But once you start the search there are people out there that will help you. I would try going on the website of America's Most Wanted hosted by John Walsh......it's a start.
2006-12-06 09:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for diamond answer it is not illegal. there are no court orders saying who has custody of these kids. she could walk up to them right now and take them and there would be nothing he could do about it either. i remember a while back this group that hunted down people that took off with their kids. do some research on the web about this group.I'm not sure what they are called but if you look hard enough I'm sure you can find them.also no the cops cant do any thing again because there is no court order. you really need to keep talking the girlfriend.
2006-12-06 09:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been in a similar situation. #1 Cops can't get involved with a domestic situation as that. Now if they were "kidnapped" by an unknown person that's different. You need to get a lawyer.. or figure out where they are at. Search your a** off. I had to become my own private detective for my son.. took 7 years but he is safe in my home and care now. Call.. google.. call schools. School records are transferred with the children and they can tell you where they are. And then pick a day and go to the school and wait for them. Good luck. it is very hard emotionally..
2006-12-06 09:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by jen2697 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im am unsure of this as well because I thought the cops would intervene. They probably think it is a civil matter, but drugs are involved. I would suggest going to the Office of the Attorney General. Im not sure if they can help but maybe that can point you in the direction. If not, call CPS ASAP, your children could be in danger!
2006-12-06 09:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by headstr8 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hello? are you serious? if hes an excon, hes a heroin addict and he took your kids shouldnt you be asking the cops instead of the people on yahoo answers. by the way not to be rude, but a good mom wouldnt have left the child unsupervised with someone like that. also thankgiving of 2005 was over a year ago - stop wasting your time asking questions and get help from the authorities
2006-12-06 09:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he just got out jail he needs to see his probation officer, find out what date and time, and you can cathc him, or go hang out where he usually gets his drugs from, and get him arrested, or you can wait till he misses his parole and get a warrant out for him,
or if it was me Id Lie and say he stole something of mine just so i could get my kids back,
baby this is scarey as hell but it's ganna be ok, how old are your kids, i am worried he might try to sell them for drugs, or bring a crackhead home and - there are so many things.
if you have his social security and a credit card you can search the internet , and find out where he is that way,
and you can find the girlfriend if you have a idea of where she lives and he first and last name, use the webpages for that,
remember if you find him follow him if you can don't attack him till you find your kids,
and after you get them back, go through the legal process,
OH AND try to get him served with custody papers, the courts should have his address on file and will have to send a messenger, if he fails to show up, they put a warrant out on him, and if he does, you can ask a couple of friends to follow him.
Good luck I will pray for you and your kids
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2006-12-06 09:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the laws are clear, unless you have sole custody of your kids (by the courts) a parent can NOT kidnap their own kids. Put pressure on the wife...she knows and I am sure he contacts her. I wish you luck.
2006-12-06 09:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a court order so you can get your children back! He's placing them in a dangerous and hazardous environment and who would be interested in raising children that way? The police should do something about it because your children are in danger!
2006-12-06 09:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋