I don't know if it truly is depression. Her health is a problem almost to the point of I wonder if she is imagining it but what makes me mad is most of it would go away if she lost weight. Her house which used to be nice has over the last 7 years turned into a pig sty she never puts things away. She no longer will allow anyone into her house b/c she is ashamed of it. My bother and myself have tried to help organize it but she just doesn't do anything. On her days off she is either sleeping or consumed with doctors appts. My brother moved several hours away from us and is no longer to involved with her. I feel like I am carring this burden myself and I have my own life and family to take care of. She askes me to do a lot for her to the point of she now expects it, ie she told someone I would go by there place (very out of the way) to pick something up because she did not want them to come to her house, before she even asked me. I can't take it anymore and don't know what to do.
2006-12-06
02:56:26
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