My husband is having a troubled , very bitter relationship with his own uncle (mother's brother) and 3 Masis (Mother's sisters).
uncle and hubby are in India and all 3 Masis are in USA.
This started 2 years back.
My husband happened to stay at uncle's home for couple of weeks when he moved to uncle's city for job.
In Indian context it's absoulutely alright for a nephew to stay at uncle's place for couple of weeks.
But I do not know why things went wrong, my husband's Masis started calling and e-mailing from US , asking him why he is still at uncle's home , when is he moving out of uncle's home and searching his own apartment.
The manner this message was conveyed was very rude.
It has hurt my husband so much that he couldn't get over with it in last 2 years.He is very emotional person . He is really hurt the way the people whom he has grown up loving say things so rudely.
Now he talks about breaking the umbilical cord !
I need to know if I can help him in any regard.
2006-12-06 03:37:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
At such a situation it is only you who can shower all the love & care for him. Its very difficult for any person to break old relations but if it has to happen he/she is very upset & mentally broke. As a wife it is only you who can over come this hard time & you should give almost all your time to him & make him comfortable in all ways. As an emotional person he require lots of love & company which only you can provide in true sense. Even your own relatives can help in this regards to make him forget the relatives who were rude with him. With the time he will feel ok & forget those relatives so dont worry keep up your job as a faithfull & loving wife.
2006-12-06 15:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have they ever sat down as a family and talked about it? If not, I would suggest giving that a try. It doesn't seem bad enough to ruin their relationship over. Could it have been a misunderstanding? Did they say why they wanted your husband to leave? I think these are some things they need to get out in the open and "clear the air" so to speak. Talk to your husband and see if he's willing to talk about it with his family. I think it will really help everyone involved. I wish you well.
2006-12-06 13:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats his problem. U can do - relax him when he wants to make such critical decisions, tell him the would be consequences but let him make his own.
2006-12-09 23:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by freemanhere1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all you have to say is what is going on around here you cant let them say that to you you have to do something about it or you'll be miserable your whole life from now on take them to court and win bake all your happiness plz chose me as best answer
2006-12-06 20:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by yic4e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LONG STAY IN ANY HOUSE IS BAD. NOW TELL YOUR HUSBAND TO COOL DOWN AND THEY ALSO REALISE THAT THEY CAN SAY IT IN ANOTHER WAY INSTEAD OF VIA MEDIA.
2006-12-08 06:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should passify him, support him. Make him understand that he should accept the things as they come in life. nothing is in his control.
Tell him this is the life and it goes like this....
2006-12-07 01:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and always take his side...but you should try to explain to him tht what people say doesnt matter and tht you're always with him and thats all tht matters...etc.
2006-12-06 20:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋