I am not a bad person. Everyone has always depended on me for everything- Everyone trusted me. Then i screwed up. I cant handle that kind of pressure. I never meant to let this go so far; but i have. And now a little, fixable problem has turned into a mistake that i cannot ever take back. What do i do? What can i say? No one wants to forgive me. I am a different person in their eyes now, and i cannot be trusted. I had the best of intentions; but i made a mistake. I cannot move on unless i do something about this. I cannot continue to feel this way... Can i earn back trust? Or once it is destroyed- is it gone forever? Can i fix this?
2006-12-06 02:55:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to understand that everyone makes mistakes, hurts their loved ones, make bad decisions with good intentions. That's why there is forgiveness. If you are not receiving you have to forgive yourself and work on bettering your life. You can't let the unforgiven of others control the happiness you deserve. Believe me we all have felt the way you are feeling. I thought my life was over after my personal biggest mistake. I hurt everyone I love and over time forgiveness was given. But you cannot force and it cannot be on your time. Every ones healing process is different and that is why you are struggling because you feel like you need forgiveness to move on with your life. You don't. But be sure to remember you are not horrible and you have learned a lesson. In their eyes you are different but you know your heart and you are the same good person you were before.
2006-12-06 04:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU CAN FIX THIS
all you need is the right approach... let whomever is not liking you get some breathing room and some time alone after that try calling them when you know it is alright to do so... E-mail tends to be not such a good idea for the purpose of no voice is heard.
2006-12-06 14:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At depends on what the mistake was. It can probably be forgiveable. First you must forgive yourself and believe in yourself that you're worthy. Sometimes we're too hard on ourselves. Rather than dwelling on your mistake. Concentrate on learning something from your mistake. There may be some who will never forgive. That's their problem, NOT yours. The most important is to forgive yourself!
2006-12-06 11:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure what you have done, but everyone makes mistakes right? It may take awhile for others to come around but they will. If not, then they did'nt love you in the first place. Always remember though God made you and you are worth loving, so just love yourself until everyone pulls there head out of their butts. We all still love ya!
2006-12-06 11:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you have the same name as me, i'll try to help you. =)
first of, time heals. always remember that. and yes, you can earn back trust, and that takes time too. now you gotta take things slow and you should cool down a lil'. take a piece of paper, sit down and write all your problems there. try to figure out solutions to those problems and see if they'd work. start by apologising to them, then pray. soon, things will start to be better and eventually it'll all b fine. =) good luck!
2006-12-06 13:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jojo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try couples' counseling or at least individual counseling and try church or spiritual support. We are all God's children. No one is THAT BAD.
2006-12-06 11:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by Stacye S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋