Family - December 2006

I've been wondering this for a long time. I would love to see my grandparents and my great-grandparents again and get to talk to them like they were here on earth.

2006-12-05 20:33:14 · 11 answers · asked by Frank 3

2006-12-05 20:17:30 · 6 answers · asked by CROSS 3

With her ex-husband being very difficult and unreasonable when it comes to their child. He can not compromise and wants everything his own way even if it is not in the best interests of the child. He disregards what the child actually wants to do!
Is this Hostile Aggressive Parenting??
Does he have the signs?
How do you prove that it is happening??Apart from keeping a log of events?
How to deal with it best?
Has anybody else encountered this??

2006-12-05 19:29:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i did not do well in my 1st exam bout 2mnths back & i get angry at him cause he won't let me be out after 8pm and have 2 back by 8pm and if i go in the morning have to be back in the afternoon and if any time after that have 2 be back at 8pm and i don't me and my friend get insulted even after living in a city am 17yrs (not allowed to use bikes even after owning 1 and have a legal age t ride it) the thing that hurts me the most is my dad never understands me and my girlfriend gets more time to be outside than me....what should i do

2006-12-05 19:25:35 · 7 answers · asked by kill a rat 1

me(17) and dad(41) were sitting in the comp room just after i came from gym, he told me 2 come and withdraw cash and buy some ice cream. i told him dad my body's hurting cause i went 2 gym after a week, he got angry and closed my allowance and shouted at me. he has citika(shooting pain in d back of your thighs) i came 2 know dis after he came back after buying the ice cream and i knew he has back ache cause he's overweight. further he's more angry cause we are a rich Zoroastrian family and i don't wear my religious clothing or follow the customs, but believe in god and i don't study cause my next IB(international baccalaureate) exams are in may 2007. my next question is coming in 2 minutes please read and answer in the next question. the question is "more pain". cause both did fit in 1 question

2006-12-05 19:20:04 · 2 answers · asked by kill a rat 1

2006-12-05 19:19:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what name/names would you give him/her?...
& why?.....

:)

2006-12-05 19:18:56 · 10 answers · asked by lucky me 3

My daughter is only 2 yrs old but Im so surprised at her vocabulary. My other daughters are 5 and 7 and always mumbled until they were about 3 is when you could really understand them. I think its cause she is around the older girls so she has learned big girl words. Well anyways she saw my sister in law breast feading her newborn and said " ooh that Nasty. Take that out her mouth and put it back in your shirt." There was nothing exposed but she was sitting close enough to see and give her opinion

2006-12-05 19:00:44 · 12 answers · asked by amihavasu6 1

My step-sister is 29 and living at home with parents. I am 20 and we were sitting at the table and she pissed me off big time. I could have smashed her face into the back of her skull and wanted to badly. What should I do to get this anger out?

2006-12-05 18:47:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to see my fiance in 4 weeks with our daughter who is only 14 days old as of today...The problem is that I DO NOT get along with anyone in his family AT ALL!!! They don't like me and I don't like them, and I've tried to make amends with them several times and it has only backfired evry single time I've tried. Now my Fiance wants to go out on a date or two with me when I go up to see him with our daughter, but he doesnt want to take her along because he said that he is going to take me to places where we could possibly get kicked out because of a screaming baby, and he wants me to leave my daughter with his family while we go out!! I feel like since they don't like or respect me, they're going to do the same to my daughter and I feel really unsafe about leaving her with them yet my Fiance told me that its okay...I just want to know how I should deal woth this situation and how I can reasonablly comprimise with my Fiance about this issue. Anyone with suggestions, write back.

2006-12-05 18:29:51 · 15 answers · asked by Winni 1

My uncle has been living with his girlfriend/commonlaw partner for 5 years now, and I was wondering if I should be calling her "Auntie" or not. So far I haven't been calling her auntie and the reason is because they aren't married yet........

2006-12-05 18:15:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to make it special.

2006-12-05 18:06:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

his girlfriend is really awesome and is such agood person, but this is a weird situation, ok, she has a daughter from a former relationship and we all grew up together in california so know each other very well. Well, he became very abusive so somtimes she would come stay w/ us and we all been there for her. Well my brother was there for her obviously a little more than I was and they became more then friends she became pregnant and I moved to Arizona and moth later they followed , well they have been her for the whole part of her pregnancy and I KNOW she has been loyal to him and they treat each other well. I know this because I am her best friend and Im always or on the phone w/ her. Well Im draggin this out , but this is my question. There new baby has a dimple on her cheek and one near her mouth just like her older sister and her x- boyfriend. I dont think its my brothers baby and Im not the only one that has noticed this. I know she didnt cheat but they did become involved too so

2006-12-05 18:02:57 · 8 answers · asked by amihavasu6 1

I watch their baby (my niece) a few days a week and she is almost 1 year old. Today a friend of mine brought her little dog over for a visit and my niece heard us talking about the dog. Then she pointed right at the dog and said, "Da Da...dog." My friend and I were both awestruck. It was intense at the time. Later this evening when my sister in law came to pick up my neice and I told her that she said "dog," she didn't believe me. She said "Right, there is no way I'm believing that, she can't say dog - she doesn't even understand what a dog is." "I don't believe you for one minute."
Well for starters I don't lie, especially about my baby niece who is learning to talk. This attitute is typical of my sister in law though. She is a very disbelieving person and if she didn't see it with her own eyes, it didn't happen and you must be lying. What do you call people like that...is there a word for it? It's frustrating.

2006-12-05 18:00:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always see that my brother kkeps his hands in his pocket everytime.

2006-12-05 17:59:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I also heard some aweful voices when she bathe.

2006-12-05 17:58:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

She buys loads of candles every week.

2006-12-05 17:56:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 3 brother all elder but i want all money of my father.

2006-12-05 17:50:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She wants to come over tomarrow and drop off something important. I am pretty sure its a lare sum of money. The thing is , my husband and I appriciate the thought but dont want it ! it makes us feel very small and our pride shut down. They already help pay half our rent. Thats a different story. Anyway, I plan on saying it very nicely and appriciative to turn it down. We can manage like we have been by struggling by. We have a roof over our head, food in our stomachs, bills our late but do get paid, what else? We are fine and I really dont want the money. Can anyone out there relate to what we are going through? Times are hard now, but will get better in the future. we are 31 and have a 2 year old.

2006-12-05 17:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 17:00:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

She wants to know where I am and who I'm with. Sometimes I tell her but most of the time I just want to be left alone and am sick of all the questioning. She thinks if I don't tell her it means I'm doing something bad. And that's not true and she shouldn't think that because she knows in no way am I a bad kid or have ever done anything bad in my life etc. I feel like I have no freedom. When I was away at college I could do what I wanted and had to answer to no one but myself. I've talked to her many times and tried to explain to her how frustrated she is making me. And she says she'll try harder and won't butt into my business, but the very next day it happens again. I'm almost 21 years old and she won't let me live my life. I don't know what to do anymore, it's become so stressful. All of my friends don't know how my sister, who's 18 and I can stand it. So any advice would be really helpful. I feel like I've tried everything but nothing gets thru to her.

2006-12-05 16:49:03 · 16 answers · asked by Sydney 1

I'm so sad. I don't know what to do.
My mom is a caregiver, so she takes care of crazy old people. She has to lift them, and most of them are so heavy. Everyday come home and her back hurts so bad. My father is most of the time drunk when she gets home. They argue all the time. We moved here 2 years ago from my country, for a better life, but my father had like 9 months when he didn't work at all, and all he did was to drink. My mom didn't tell him anything, because she said he is in a depression, but everything got on her nerves ,and on mine too, because i can't stand him when he is drunk, he says so much ********. He always tell us , that one day he will leave back in our country because we treat him bad. But i can't stand him anymore. I also have a little brother , and he never teach my brother anything. I'm a senior in highschool and i take care of my brother. He is 5. But instead enjoying my teenage time i have to do stuff that my father is suppose to. He doesn't even know how..

2006-12-05 16:46:36 · 14 answers · asked by cuttiegirl 1

2006-12-05 16:41:38 · 16 answers · asked by Guten Tag! 2

NEED TO LIVE ON THE NORTHWEST SIDE OF INDIANAPOLIS,INDIANA. AT LEAST 3 BEDROOMS. I CAN ONLY AFFORD 500 A MONTH.

2006-12-05 16:37:48 · 6 answers · asked by black butterfly 1

where did your family originate from and where do you call home now.

2006-12-05 16:15:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think of a mother who leaves her small children with a man who she doesn't trust because he has substance abuse problems but who is also the father of the children? Before you answer, this same mother leaves these kids with this father while she goes out and has sex with other people?

2006-12-05 16:14:21 · 21 answers · asked by newcovenant0 5

The reason we broke up was my mum she pertended 2 not have any prblems with my relationship but she realy stabbed me in the back. she alwys made these crapy excuses. lik onc wen we wer moving ouse she told me u cant go and c her coz we hv got alot work 2 do and we will not be able to evn hav 1 second brake. next day she sits down and she watches 4 ours of indian film. this wasnt the 1st time she made a girl run away from me. the thing is she isnt like this with my broders or sis. my sis boyfriend came and she took them to a restaurant, my 12 years old brder has got a girl friend.
basicly she dosent want me to go out with any girl. my x saied the only reason we r brakin up is ur mother and the suner we brake up the less pain it will hav she told me she still likes me but we havent got any future she saied tell me one other reason besides the fact u lik me and will get bk. after 5 monts i stil think of her evry day she called me 2day and saied she thinks of me 24 7 what should i do?

2006-12-05 16:09:02 · 5 answers · asked by k 1

I live in BC, I am a low income single mother. Her father refuses to have anything to do with her and denies paternity. How do I go about suing him for child support, especially when he denies being the father and did not sign the birth certificate? How do I get him to take a paternity test? He wants absolutely no contact with me and nothing to do with us. I can not afford a lawyer and I just have no clue how to get my little girl what she deserves. There has to be low income lawyers or something out there for people in my situation, Does anyone know anything that can help me on my way? Please....Any information is greatly appreicated.

2006-12-05 16:01:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 15:54:33 · 34 answers · asked by mark balfour 1

My step sister was raped, yes raped, by MY older brother.She is 14 right now and it happed about two years ago.Because of this, my dad basically gives her anything she wants, and leaves me to stand here by myself.I can't relate to anyone in my family..I'm sure I am jealous at my dad's behaviour because he says he is proud of me, yet never shows it in anyway.He constanly yells at me, and I wish I could just tell him what is on my mind, but I know he won't understand. I did tell him he is showing favoritism, but he says she deserves it.What really made me mad was when he bought her a kitten after a fight they had, and I had been asking for a kitten for over 7 years.I just don't understand what it takes for them to notice me.Stacy has done bad things(she TOUCHED his......yea..) (willingly this time ) with a guy she liked that lives near us and I have been a good girl..And still, I get no real praise. I am older than her,so does that make it that I should accept his favoritism for her?

2006-12-05 15:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by Kumi 2