The reason we broke up was my mum she pertended 2 not have any prblems with my relationship but she realy stabbed me in the back. she alwys made these crapy excuses. lik onc wen we wer moving ouse she told me u cant go and c her coz we hv got alot work 2 do and we will not be able to evn hav 1 second brake. next day she sits down and she watches 4 ours of indian film. this wasnt the 1st time she made a girl run away from me. the thing is she isnt like this with my broders or sis. my sis boyfriend came and she took them to a restaurant, my 12 years old brder has got a girl friend.
basicly she dosent want me to go out with any girl. my x saied the only reason we r brakin up is ur mother and the suner we brake up the less pain it will hav she told me she still likes me but we havent got any future she saied tell me one other reason besides the fact u lik me and will get bk. after 5 monts i stil think of her evry day she called me 2day and saied she thinks of me 24 7 what should i do?
2006-12-05 16:09:02 · 5 answers · asked by k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im 19 and the reason i wrote like that was because i didnt know u can add more details. anyway is there anyway that i can get her back anything persuasive. i mean i like her and she likes me im going to move out next year to go to uni there would be chance that she would be in the same city.
2006-12-05 23:37:35 · update #1
I am not trying to be mean, but you have a lot more to worry about then a girl. How can you plan to support a girl if you do not focus right now on a better education. Love will find you when the time is right, and your mother will no longer be around to "stop it". Realize that your childhood is only 18 years, while your adult life is somewhere around 50 years (after turning 18). So, slow down, you don't have to move fast.
2006-12-05 17:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first that if you trule love someone you will stand up for what you believe in and won't let me get hurt. Sometime it takes standing up to the person you yourself are scared of. Sit you mom down and tell her in a serious conversation what this girl really means to you. Relate to her and how she first felt about your father. But do something quick for love can only hold on for so long, so take up the opertunity before it passes. Maybe you should invite the girl back over to have both of you sit down (as hard as this can be) you'd be impressed. Things always work out for the best and have reason, but don't let things stand in the way.
2006-12-06 01:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by jessbthegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You write like a young child and if you are a child then listen to your mom. She does not need to like your friends or who you want to be with but, you are still her child until you are 18, and be on your own. Your 12 year brother girlfriend is just that a girl friend and that is how your mom most likely see it.
2006-12-05 16:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to stand up to your mom. Don't be disrespectful, but tell her you are growing up and she can't keep you as her little boy forever.
2006-12-05 16:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like each other so much, then there are lots of reasons to be together..
better talk to your mother and ask her problem..
okey
2006-12-05 16:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋