i will marry with this amazing boy, he is like a blue prince, always open the door, take me to restaurants, buy me jewerly, but he is family betrays him. he lent his father a big amount of money and now dont want to pay it. his mother dont care about he, his brother always says something to hurt him and reproaches everything, his aunts,...well, worse and cousinst too. now he is living with his only sister, that he loved much, but she get worse than all the people above togheter! nobody in his family appreciate him. he feels very depresed. what should i do? i'm the only one that gives him support. i dont know what more to do? should i go and live with him alone? should i take him to other city and start a new life without the people that damage his life? he needs help/
2006-12-05 13:21:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I forgot to say that he havent finished his college (he is 25) bcz of his family, and he has nothing of value , altought he worked very hard since 15 years old. Now all he has gave it to me to store it in the bank, and his mother is very angry bcz before me she maneged his money...sad history, isnt it?
2006-12-05 13:44:42 · update #1
Tell your man that he doesn't need a family like that. He can consider your family his and go from there. Take him away and start a new life where he doesn't have to be around them and his stress level will even out.
2006-12-05 13:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kari W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mayb he could live 4 a while in ur house. But help him as much as u can n try 2 keep him happy n show him more love then bfore.
2006-12-05 23:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by wanna b me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart,
Blood is almost always thicker than water! Your man needs to maintain his family contact even though he is often ridiculed. (It IS his family after all). But he also needs learn to speak to his family members assertivly and stand up for himself. Your support and love are the only things you can help him with. He has to be a man and deal with his family for himself and you! Good luck!
2006-12-05 21:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get away from his family, and you need to still be friends with him, but don't marry him until he is way from them. He will have problems dealing with this and that is no way to start a marriage.
2006-12-05 21:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sry to heere that!!!! The only thing you can do is give him love, he needs it and give him encouraging words lotz...instead of being with his family why dont yall spend time with your family...so it WILL be his family too...does that make since?
2006-12-05 21:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know.....i would move in with him. It would make him feel less depressed because he will know you care about him so much. Also you could also talk to him about it if he lets you. It might makes him feel less angry and sad.
2006-12-05 21:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Emily C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about talking to a counsler. i had that problem and i talked to a counsler and i'm fine now. i do feel sad sometimes but the counsler really helped.
2006-12-05 21:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by dancer 4evera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋