My step brother ran away and is never coming back. i miss him alot he was the only big brother i had. i feel like i'm geting torn in a million pieces cuz my paronts are devorced and there is to much drama in my nayberhood.
2006-12-06 00:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by chickie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hang in there, I know these are rough years even when family life is good, keep talking things out with friends or a school counselor. Things WILL get better as you get older.
2006-12-06 00:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are much to young to be having such a rough time. But I know from experinece that it does happen.
I also know that you just have to hang in there and be strong. Sometimes a divorce is the best thing, though you may not see it like that right now.
Chances are your stepbrother will eventually come back or get in contact with you.
As for your neighborhood, just try to ingore it.
Focus on school and yourself, and in a few years you will be graduating geto ut of the situation. Keep yourself busy. And hang on, no matter how dark the night is morning always comes
2006-12-06 10:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by his wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that too and i'm only 13. I don't have any problems like you but i feel so tired of pretending too. I come to school and act like nothings wrong but i have so musch problems a nd issues that all i can do is put them on hold. Hang in there and if you want to be something better then luck will come and trust.
2006-12-06 10:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by BIG RED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be ok , just hang in there and it will blow over, just remember your strong and you will see your step brother again, he will nebr leave you permanatly, your parents need to grow up and realise that you are the important 1, and you can show them that!
You will soon be 16 going to collage or work and you can live your own life with your own money and your friends and stuff all the worries.
You will be fine
2006-12-06 08:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on.Your step-brother might see what he is missing and get in contact with you.As for the divorce,some people just don't know how to work things out and even worst don't wish to talk to the other person to try and work it out.The thing here to remember is your the person that has to pull your life together.Things are changing and you have to make decissions for yourself.Mom and Dad may think they know what's best, but remember thier relationship did not work because they could not talk to one and another to work things out.Somewhere they gave up,and just let them know that your not a quitter that your going to make your relationships work for you.
Best of luck to you kid
2006-12-06 09:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, your too young to have that kind of stress. everything happens for a reason and you'll get through it a better person. if you don't have anyone in your family to talk to, i suggest you go to your guidance counselor at school. they are there to help with all your problems, not just school related stuff. you can e-mail me if you want. take care.
2006-12-06 08:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by sheh8shim4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice: wait five years. I promise that your stepbrother and the various complexities of your dramatic neighborhood will give way to more immediate and practical concerns.
2006-12-06 08:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by The Lobe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-11 17:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youll be ok chicky just hang in on their youll get through it ignore the saddos on here that have a go your better than all of them put together i bet GOOD LUCK chick
2006-12-06 08:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by laura j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me you dont spell neighborhood like you just did. And your 15 you life cant suck that much.()
2006-12-06 08:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by Saint 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋