How would you feel if you overheard your father talking about you to your mother saying the phrase, "Where did

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we go wrong with him?"

Answer 1

Your parents are questioning there parenting skills.They see something in you they where hoping they would never have to face.If your not sure and are wishing to please them.Then ask them what is so wrong with your life, that you should try and change it for them.If you know what it is and don't want to change.Then let them know it was not their parenting that made you behave this way,but the chooses you made.

Answer 2

I would feel bad but not for my parents, but for myself. That must have hurt you. You didn't give much detail to this question, so I am going to assume you have had some problems where your parents feel it is out of their control. But nothing, absolutely nothing should be out of their control. You are their responsibility and they should be there to guide you, help you, assist you and teach you from where you have strayed. Parents do the self pity thing alot and when instead of feeling sorry for themselves they should be looking at the big picture.
Like I said, I don't know much here and as a parent I allow my son to make some mistakes, so he can learn from them. Other times, I pre-empt them, but hey he is 14 and he is going to explore his how challenges and experience. However, no matter what, I will be there to pick up the pieces with him or applaud him when he has done well. So evaluate your life and your choices.and see where you may have gone wrong and talk to your parents about them. Hopefully they will hear you out and either offer advice or a punishment for your actions. Hey, they are your parents and that is their job and remember, everything you do in life comes with a consequence.

Answer 3

I would feel really bad. But for a parent to say that, most of the time, it's because their child is behaving in a way that isn't good and they are blaming themselves for the way they raised him.
What are you doing to make them feel like that? If you don't know, ask them and I'm sure they will tell you what the problem is.
If it has something to do with sexual preference (You don't really give enough info for your question) Then they are just upset because their dreams for you has just been shattered for them. They probably pictured you life before you were even born, and now it's all going to be different, and they don't really understand how it all happened. They will come around in time.

Answer 4

I would feel bad, and I like to know exactly what they were referring to so I would depending on the relationship I have with my parents ask them exactly what they meant by it. If you get on better with your mum then the next time that you are alone with her. Tell her that you overheard what your dad said and say that you were very hurt by this but what in what way are you a disappointment to them and why do they believe that they have gone wrong.

The thing is you are going to have to confront them, otherwise it will build up in you and you will stay to feel resentful towards your parents, and you will feel as if you are not wanted. Therefore you need to either sit one of both of them down and have it out with them. It might be hard but for your own piece of mind, you need to do it

Answer 5

I would first think about my brother, if I werent the only male in the family. Then I would look at my life and see if I am on the right track. If not, try and fix myself. But if you feel that you are on the right track, meaning working a well job, or in school, actually having goals and reaching them. then I would confront my parents on that issue to see what they were talking about.

Answer 6

It would feel icky. Parents are always concerned about their kids and hope that they haven't messed them up too much.
As for whatever prompted him to say those words. Do you feel that your actions justified those words from him? Or do you feel that he is over reacting? If you feel you were out of line somehow, you can always apologize. However, if you feel his words were not justified, that you weren't doing anything wrong, why don't you consider talking to him about it. You may open up communication in the relationship that is needed.
Hope this helps.

Answer 7

Are you parents still married?
I've notice that with parents they don't have anythign else to talk about but there kids but some times words can cut. Just let them know if they have a problem with something to come talk to you not behind your back

Answer 8

I would feel as if I needed to take a good look at my life and see what the problem is. Then I'd ask my parents what they thought the problem is. Then, I'd work on myself to become the best "me" I could be.

Answer 9

I would be devasted but then I would think to myself....'what have I done to make my parents feel so ashamed of me?' If there was a reason for it I would try to make my parents proud, if there was no reason for it I would be so hurt and not want to speak to them for a while untill they apologised.

Answer 10

I would feel rel ashamed if i had done something that bad to make my parents think that bad about me. I would also feel challenged to try and improve to prove my parents wrong!