Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

2007-12-19 04:00:37 · 26 answers · asked by Grandma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you been engaged for too long that you weren't excited anymore to start planning a wedding and/or it didn't matter to you anymore? If so, how long were you engaged and how did you feel about the whole thing?

2007-12-19 03:59:30 · 11 answers · asked by BABYLOVE369 2 in Weddings

It is winter and I am cold! My husband has made comments that my layers of clothing when lounging around the house are not exactly sexy and discourage initiation of sex. Any suggestions for how I can maintain sex appeal in lounge clothes while staying warm?

2007-12-19 03:57:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-19 03:56:38 · 5 answers · asked by Serena A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Although I am uncomfortable to admit this but... ever since I met my husband, I have never been able to "go off" or "orgasm". I'm getting to that point where I feel like us making love is pointless because I don't get an enjoyment out of it. I think we went 2 weeks without having sex and my husband would try to influence me but before I could, I think of what will happen once we're done > nothing. During that time he brought up the idea of cheating, due to my lack of wanting some. He enjoys himself and I can't. Do I think too much or am I just plain out weird? With my ex, I used to enjoy myself. I've only had 2 men in my life, my ex and my husband. I ask because last week, for the 1st time I went off and I thought that feeling would continue so when we did it again, nothing. Is he not touching the right spots or is it my fault?

2007-12-19 03:53:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there ever a time in relationships where cheating is "allowed" even in severe measures. and if so, can sexual relationships stay sexual? or do emotions eventually get involved

2007-12-19 03:47:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In January my husband and I decided that after being pushed and pushed we would agree to buying a house with his mother. She had always been super sweet and all my hubby said when he was young they didn't get along but he thought it could of just been his immaturity, he hadn't lived with her since he was 13 and went to live with his dad. Anyway to make a long story short she has transformed into a complete witch! Always nagging and complaining about everything I mean everything! Like she'll come downstairs at 9:00 pm & demand all lights and TV off. She is a total control freak and is rude and is 98% of the time in a bad horrible mood. It has came to a point that as soon as I hear her coming i will lock myself in my room i avoid seeing her or crossing her way as much as possible to avoid any comfrontations, she is impossible to live with and I want to move, my husband says let's do it, but I know she can't afford the place by herself, should we move anyway?

2007-12-19 03:47:06 · 19 answers · asked by Curious One 2 in Marriage & Divorce

best friend who recently got engaged to my best friend.Before he got engaged i used to send him txt messages only a couple,he did not knw it was me, i did this bcoz it was hard to cope with i needed to let someone know and i thought if i txt him maybe i'll feel better.my husband is a great guy he treats me good and he does everything for me but i feel no passion for him.
A month ago me and him got chatting on facebook and then on msn, it felt so good to talk to him without my husband or my best friend, he confessed that he had feeling's for me and that he wishes that he was married to me etc. my husband went away for haj over 2 weeks ago and me and him have met up 3 times since and we've had sex and it was great i haven't felt this happy for a long time,he tell's me that he love's me and he wishes he could spend his life with me but me and him know that it will never happen because we don't want to hurt the people close 2 us, how can i foget him and make things right with my husband

2007-12-19 03:45:09 · 24 answers · asked by secret83dec 2 in Marriage & Divorce

yes ? and y? nop and why?

2007-12-19 03:43:36 · 1 answers · asked by Surayah 1 in Singles & Dating

every time im in the living room with my dad and we see like a cell phone comercial my dads like oh thats a nice phone then he said when he was at the mall getting last minute christmas shopping he ran into this lady selling choclates,razrs ,and all of these other phones she goes let me ask you a question how old is your daughter my dad answerd oh yeah she needs a cell phone for safty reasons . but when i was about10 he said no cell phone til i learn how to drive does this mean hes getting me a cell phone for Christmas cause i really dunno!

2007-12-19 03:43:20 · 3 answers · asked by Morgan 3 in Family

I told my husband of my future plans to move another city which is 2 hours from where we live. I'm going there to attend the university. He doesn't agree and he says it wouldn't be good for his boys and our daughter. Our daughter is only 1 and she wouldn't know the difference, his sons are 8 and 13. He can take his sons with me whether they like it or not. I'm trying to make myself clear to him that an education is something that will benefit us greatly and it is our security. I want him to go to school with me, just part time at least because he says IF he does go he will need a job. Where we live, all the jobs are taken and it's not where I want to spend the rest of my life. A small, one-WalMart town. Last night I was filling out my forms for school and my husband was so upset that he wouldn't talk to me or even sleep with me on our bed. I think he needs to realize that I'm doing this for us-family, and that this will be all worth it in the long run. Any suggestions?

2007-12-19 03:43:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do u think if u like a boy and the boy always says him and his gf broke up and he ask's u out everytime u talk to him (which is EVERYDAY!!!!) but u r not sure if he is being serious??? AHA..... What should i do???

2007-12-19 03:41:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex and I dated for a year and 1/2. we have been broken up for almost 6 months. but have been seeing each other during then. He said a month ago he wanted to see what happens when I graduate. He came over after thanksgiving to see me. He says he misses me. I recently stayed at his house for a few days. We slept in the same bed.he would pull me close and just lay there with me. He was holding my hand and kissing me. we would go out , have fun. we have talked and he says he doesnt like who he is since hes moved. I told him id be there when he figures it out. the other day he asked me what I wanted for xmas! I got excited because i hope it means he wants me over on xmas but yet he doesnt do little things like call me! I know hes really busy and our schedules are opposite. does he want us to work eventually when i graduate? but just enjoying his time and not letting it get to him like i am?

2007-12-19 03:41:18 · 8 answers · asked by Vanessa S 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is a dumb question... but, I just went on Birth Control Pills and up until this, we have been using "pull out" method. Does he still need to pull out since I'm on the pill? and if not, how do I convince him of that since he's been doing it for so long!! He might feel scared not to.

2007-12-19 03:39:54 · 2 answers · asked by DearXDiary 1 in Singles & Dating

The reason I ask is because me and my fiance wan't to get married!! :) We wan't a church wedding but not necessarily a big one. A simple one will do. I don't have alot of friends and neither does he.

2007-12-19 03:37:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he is a nature loving very simple guy

2007-12-19 03:36:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 03:36:03 · 5 answers · asked by Whisperer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have decided to get officially engaged on NYE. He really likes the idea of bein proposed to, so i am going to ask him...only problem... i dont know what to say/do. i dont want to get down on one knee and say "will u marrry me". i'd like something a little more thoughtful and original.

any ideas will be greatly appreciated! thank you!

2007-12-19 03:36:03 · 16 answers · asked by Mrs B to be 3 in Weddings

well we been linked togather for about 9yrs and he seem to think that i'm having an affair but I work full time,go to school full time in the evenings and to top it all off I am a full time mother of 10 yes I did say 10 any ideas anyone

2007-12-19 03:35:48 · 10 answers · asked by Gods Child 1 in Marriage & Divorce

? you must be honest - forget personality (if you are one of the few that consider this anyway) what would your dreams girl look like - i dont want names of people i want descriptions......

2007-12-19 03:35:27 · 8 answers · asked by classybeautiful_lady 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 03:35:22 · 11 answers · asked by sam sutton 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 03:31:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah, I can't get over it. The other night he told me he appreciated the straight answer for why I was mad the other day. I still wanted to ask him why I have no straight answers about why he led me to believe he time with the guys, "guy time" when there were his buddies girlfriends and their friends there. He'd get drunk there everytime. He had let it slip one day that his buddy was living with a girl, (she manages the bar at a resturant). Then said "maybe" she lived there a year. Still no straight answers as to how long she'd lived there, how often she had her friends over. He told me she wasn't the first girlfriend to live there after his bud's divorce. I used to think we had something special. I used to think he was honest and trustworthy. He blah blah about geeky weather, and comic stuff and I find out when is having "man time" away from wife and child, he was getting drunk with single women?? And didn't bother to mention it. Do I demand a straight answer for Christmas?

2007-12-19 03:29:53 · 25 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 03:29:48 · 14 answers · asked by eyeseeyou 1 in Singles & Dating

I just don't get it my fiancee and I are very much in love but ever since he proposed to me he changed. He doesn't open up the door for me well sometimes and the flowers stopped, he used to send them to me at work just because.Why is that men do things to impress you then when they have you they stop it? Its driving me nuts and I hate it I'm so used to him doing these things and now nothing. :-(

2007-12-19 03:29:37 · 16 answers · asked by HOPEFUL 2 in Weddings

I have a boyfriend now, and I have been with him for 3 months. I'm at his house a lot, not more than at my own house.. but my family pokes fun at me and tells me they are my inlaws and I dont spend enough time with my own family. What should I do?

2007-12-19 03:29:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi
if you married how many do you do sex in the weak

2007-12-19 03:28:39 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So um, my boyfriend just came out of the closet last week. Not completely though because only like 10 people at my school know. Considering there's about 700 in it, that's not alot f people. Anyway, when I'm at his house, he'll be all over me and such, not so much like sex,we have but,yeah. Anyway, he's not shy about kissing me at his house or holding my hand but he could walk right past me at school and not say a word, or when I sit by him at lunch he'll act like i'm not there. What do I do?

2007-12-19 03:25:47 · 21 answers · asked by Michael. 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex really, really hurt me which caused us to break up. I cant stand him and have to see him every day all day. To me, the ultimate revenge is to move on, SHOW him I've moved on, and for him.... well not to.

How do you make it impossible for that person to move on?

How do you get them to live in misery for as long as possible and always be hung up on you?

2007-12-19 03:21:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell what would you do??

2007-12-19 03:19:29 · 16 answers · asked by Shawty 1 in Singles & Dating