Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

OK so like My Ex called me and with my boyfriends consent i went to talk to him (i told him that he needed to really trust me so he let me go) OK so we started talking and long story short he was basically groveling to get me back, thing is that i am seriously still in love with him i mean i love my boyfriend soo much just that hes a asshole, and when we have sex i cant ever seem to reach climax, and friends keep saying its because i still have (m) on my mind, which is true i really miss him, we had sucj a great time together, but he already cheated on me when we were together. i really miss him and i want him back to but i cnat trust him. SO MY QUESTION IS SHOULD I GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE OR SHOULD I STAY WITH MY CURRENT BF THAT I LOVE BUT ITS JUST NOW THE SAME FOR ME.?

2007-12-19 02:38:46 · 5 answers · asked by EmTmAr + Baby Megan IS HERE! 3 in Singles & Dating

Women listen until they feel insulted, then cry and tell their friends EVERYTHING. But, nothing ever changes, does it?

2007-12-19 02:34:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 02:34:42 · 16 answers · asked by Rob.1. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he says he loves me and wnts me to have his babies but im unsure!!!!!!!!!

his nearly 20 and im nearly 16!!!!!!

wat do you thik i should do!!!

help plz!!!!!

2007-12-19 02:33:34 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so tell me if u think im dateable:
im earth-friendly, helpful, loyal, trying to be a vegitarian, and also sadly im indian but i dont act like it.
thanx for ur help and no mean awnsers please

2007-12-19 02:30:19 · 9 answers · asked by flipper_maurin 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a situation where a friend caught her husband cheating with a girl from his work. When he got caught he decided that he wanted a divorce. They have been married for 17 years with 3 kids, 2 grown up. The woman believes that god will bring them back together, but he has made it clear that it is over and he continue to talks to this girl from work, who is now pregnant with twins and not by him. She lives with her boyfriend and has a 1 year old already. It has been months and they are still not even at a friend level for the sake of the kids. He has not filed for the divorce although he wants one and she will not file for divorce. I tell her to file for the divorce but she thinks that god will bring them back together? What do you think about that? How should I give her anymore advise when she calls asking for it?

2007-12-19 02:26:33 · 59 answers · asked by jenny c 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT I HATE MY IN LAWS THEY HAVE DONE EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER TO MAKE TROUBLE FOR US BUT I FEEL BAD THAT IF HE TALKS TO ME ABOUT ONE OF THEM I JUST GO NUMB I DO DEAL WITH HIS MOM AND DAD BUT THAT IS AS FAR AS IT GOES I HAVE A VERY BIG PROBLEM FORGIVING WELL SHOULD I SAY FORGETTING WHAT THESE PEOPLE HAVE PUT US THROUGHT EVEN OUR CHILD

2007-12-19 02:25:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hubby and I just did. It was my hope this was something we could do together, but he'll most likely be going at different hours. I'm not the most outgoing person, and I know if I don't have someone to go with I'll lose interest. From what I've seen of fitness centers over the years, many people just stick to themselves. How would you go about making new friends if you're pretty much a shy person until people get to know you?

2007-12-19 02:20:20 · 7 answers · asked by Lady G 6 in Marriage & Divorce

a guy help out with???

2007-12-19 02:14:54 · 15 answers · asked by GOLDENFAIRY 7 in Singles & Dating

When you and your partner is in love with eachother but both know it wont work.. Should you just wait around and see what happens stick by there side or just let it go? hmm any advice lovely people out there?

2007-12-19 02:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by *ღвєѕт yα єνα нα∂ღ* 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 02:11:13 · 29 answers · asked by ADITIMES T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok..

You're the kind of the girl who has high aims, and will work hard to get a bright future - good pay.

Your boyfriend, however, argues, it's cool to be earning a minimum income as long as you have money to eat.

I mean it is very frustrating for me to have a boyfriend with that kind of mentality, and all of his friends are school drop outs who see no need in progressing with their studies. And he doesn't mind that at all.

Is it just me or do you think I do need to find a guy on my level or am I just being unreasonable?

2007-12-19 02:04:43 · 7 answers · asked by IamherewhenIhavenothingtodo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 02:04:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 02:01:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a spouse is on marijuana, and the other spouse does not feel comfortable with that, should they divorce? He promised her he would stop, but went back to it years later. She is concerned that it is ruining his health and he's becoming psychologically depend on the substance. She's also concerned that one day the cops may surprise him and bust him at the house. If it was legalized she wouldn't feel so much anxiety about the whole thing. what's your thoughts?

2007-12-19 01:57:06 · 17 answers · asked by PJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

First, sorry this is so long but I really need help. I had been with my guy for over a year but over the summer we ran into some major problems. He had a myspace for a while but never told me, I found it but never said anything because it was still early in the relationship. Eventually he did tell me and said he had been working on it and wanted to share it, so he gives me the link and I go, and his friends’ list and all comments are hidden. Now he didn’t know I saw it before that but I knew for a fact they weren’t before. Obviously, I found this a little troublesome and asked why he would want to hide everything, and he said because his crazy ex might try to find the page and he doesn’t want her bothering me because according to him, she’s a real piece of work and he can’t stand her. Now the thing is, the page was private so she wouldn’t be able to see his page anyway, right? Or so I thought.

2007-12-19 01:56:19 · 7 answers · asked by Truth 2 in Singles & Dating

(romantically involved, but not intimately..) and any of them didn't know the existence of each other..
and she thinks that she will choose one as her soulmate later ( after knowing him for quite some time..)?

What do you think?
Have you ever get involved into these situation?

2007-12-19 01:55:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The scumbag that done it is due out in the end of august 2008,My question is what sentances/punishments should be given for.

A, carrying a knife
B, using a knife (killing or not)
C, carrying a gun
D, using a gun (killing or not)

I'm in the U.K where our laws are a joke btw.

2007-12-19 01:55:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i saw both of them in the pic...so close and in friendster there is one tat say"who u wan to meet"he said baby and onli her..
and the photo name is "baby her"i did nt cry but my heart internal hurts like hell...is like falling off from the 50 floor....but i still lyk him...but i wan to know should i still lyk him...he is cute handsome plays vollyball.as a CCA..his studies is nt so gd he is a little ganster..

2007-12-19 01:52:04 · 10 answers · asked by rocknroll1313 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 01:50:59 · 11 answers · asked by GHETTO_CHICK 1 in Singles & Dating

reason i am asking is because (yes i am a pervert but only for my girlfriend) seriously though what is the attraction, why do we go weak at the knees for them and why the overwhelming need to squeeze them?

2007-12-19 01:49:51 · 5 answers · asked by eduardo c 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 01:48:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some women say the library usually gets you a good husband and the husband is a better choice than a live in boyfriend because marriage means he the woman enough to commit to her for a lifetime.

2007-12-19 01:47:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You had a girlfriend who was pretty and everything looks wise, a model but wasnt all that in personality (and you had lots of arguments with and didnt get on very well with) but also liked another girl who you know likes you which has a great personality and not all that in body and looks, what would you do?? Before and after.....

2007-12-19 01:44:11 · 27 answers · asked by Katie P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 01:44:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He may or may not still live in the Phoenix area? We were in the navy together aboard the USS Mount Hood in the 70s.

2007-12-19 01:43:48 · 2 answers · asked by wazoocasey 1 in Friends

v got married before a year.n i don know what i can gift to my husband on his bday.plz help.his age is 27 year old.

2007-12-19 01:42:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have found the love of my life..the most caring and all around most wonderful person i have ever met..I just want to know if you have found that special person and how does it make you feel. Thanks for taking the time to answer:)

2007-12-19 01:37:34 · 12 answers · asked by quality 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been heartbroken for 5 months now and it just does not seem to be getting better. help me i feel like just ending my life (although i know i will not)

2007-12-19 01:36:39 · 5 answers · asked by Blake E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years. We have a daughter together. But within the last few months, I have felt myself growing further and further away from him.
At this point, I could care less if we stayed together or not, and I'm not sure why exactly I feel this way. He does things to get on my nerves (still sucks his thumb-and he's almost 23) he is harder on my son, then our daughter (but he is older-3 and she is 1) He doesnt work, but he does stay at home with the kids, so we dont have to pay for childcare. Among other things.

I just dont feel that electrifying attraction to him that I once did, and I dont know what to do. If he leaves, the kids will be put in daycare, and he will have no place to live. Part of me feels like I keep him around for the convenience. But I also feel sorry for him, because I know that he wouldnt have a place to go, a car to get him there, and a possibility of no child support.

2007-12-19 01:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by MayMay 4 in Marriage & Divorce