he says he loves me and wnts me to have his babies but im unsure!!!!!!!!!
his nearly 20 and im nearly 16!!!!!!
wat do you thik i should do!!!
help plz!!!!!
2007-12-19 02:33:34 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! First of all, you need to listen to your intuition...the whole "I'm not sure," is an internal RED FLAG, that you, yourself is trying to give. Listen to it.
Let me break this down: you're 16, lets face it, it's not that old at all. You have the rest of your life to be an adult, a mom, a bill worrying, job holding woman. You don't need to start EARLY. You can only be young once. This is the age when you should be out with friends, having a boyfriend that you enjoy spending time with...not worrying about babies and things that will come in good time.
He's technically 19! You both are sitting at the threshold of adventure and excitement towards young adulthood, where you're old enough to have freedoms but don't have to be boggled down with too many responsibilities! Why ruin that?!
The lack of info. causes me to wonder why you want to runaway in the first place. The only thing I can say is: Don't runaway with a guy just because you don't like the way your life is turning out. Having babies and running away will NOT fix your problems.
2007-12-19 02:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by StarGazer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't run away with him. Have you ever even met this guy? If not, he could be anyone. If he's saying he loves you and he's wanting you to have his babies after just a few texts, I'd stay well away. The fact that you're unsure should tell you what the right thing to do is.
2007-12-19 02:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by fixitpixie1387 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it would be very unwise to run away with him.
For all you know he could be a kidnapper or anything.
If you haven't already, make sure someone knows about the relationship e.g. parents, close friends. So if anything bad does happen at least someone is in on it.
Plus the age difference is a bit of a concern.
Think realistically about the situation - what would happen if you ran away with him?
I hope you make a safe decision
2007-12-19 02:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Josiah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so NO!!! I mean have you met him? Do you know anything about him. And HELLO your 16. Do you know how many changes your body hasn't even gone through. How much life you could miss out on? And can you support yourself? NO well then why would you want to settle down and have babies? Live your life first do things you want to do. Go out and ENJOY yourself. Being a parent is totally awesome yes don't think it isn't but, you have to experience things for yourself. Plan on having babies when you can do more than provide for yourself and the new addition. A man doesn't say I want you to have his babies he marries you and wants a family. Please give yourself time.
2007-12-19 02:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl, I think you should try finishing your education. Your parents love you and I shore they want the best for you. Being a teenage mom and not having a proper atmosphere for a baby can be harmfully both fiscally and mentally for the child. Enjoy your youth and take life one step at a time. Remember we only can see what is in front us now, only God knows the future. If you are attending a church seek counseling by the elders if you believe that your mom and dad don't want to listen to you. If not talk your your aunt, uncle, grandmother. Its good to speak to someone who cares and who have been in life before you.
2007-12-19 02:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Monica S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are far too young for him. You are also insane to be thinking that at an age when you have only just stopped being a child yourself that this is a good time to have a child of your own, especially with someone who is clearly as immature as this boy is.
I think you need to get away from him, and concentrate on making something of your life.
2007-12-19 02:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! PLEASE DON'T!!! You are too young and you still "do not know" each other.
Imagine yourself living with this person and fast forward your life for 5 years....
Imagine you and him paying the house rent, providing for the children, paying the electric bills, the water bills, telephone bill, paying for the kids' tuition... all that! Can he provide? You don't live on "love" alone.
Enjoy your maidenhood! Time is what we cannot waste as we can never go back again in time.
Study and earn a diploma. You will meet more of the "good ones" in a better 'world'... real persons, not 'virtual' ones.
2007-12-19 02:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by MoreOfMe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The age difference at this stage in your life matters(when you are 21, it won't).Talk with your parents. A 20 year old finds you sexually attractive, wants to get you pregnant, then leaves you.In reality, get birth control if you stay with him.I am not sure you have actually met or know him other than texting him. This is even more UNSAFE-break off contact with him immediately and talk with your parents, if you haven't already.
2007-12-19 02:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU CRAZY?!?! dont you watch those 'to catch a predator' shows? you have no idea what this man is like. there is no telling what could happen to you. you are only 16. you have your whole life ahead of you im sure you will meet a real guy who you can actually see and talk to face to face before you run away with him. and i dont know you rfamily situation, but im sure someone would be heartbroken if u ran away with some man you dont know and they may never hear from you again. if u wanna talk more u can IM me!
2007-12-19 02:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by reppin4memphis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no longer something guy, in the experience that your going to ask somebody out, confirm its no longer in front of her lol... perhaps you may attempt asking her out returned by announcing this... Dammit woman?! you took my date away , now your going with me on at present time someplace and thats very final!! She ought to love your self belief and physique of techniques and she or he'll giggle to that's a plus! If she didnt agree properly, she's basically an evil little female then lol
2016-11-23 14:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by erke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋