OK so like My Ex called me and with my boyfriends consent i went to talk to him (i told him that he needed to really trust me so he let me go) OK so we started talking and long story short he was basically groveling to get me back, thing is that i am seriously still in love with him i mean i love my boyfriend soo much just that hes a asshole, and when we have sex i cant ever seem to reach climax, and friends keep saying its because i still have (m) on my mind, which is true i really miss him, we had sucj a great time together, but he already cheated on me when we were together. i really miss him and i want him back to but i cnat trust him. SO MY QUESTION IS SHOULD I GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE OR SHOULD I STAY WITH MY CURRENT BF THAT I LOVE BUT ITS JUST NOW THE SAME FOR ME.?
2007-12-19 02:38:46 · 5 answers · asked by EmTmAr + Baby Megan IS HERE! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LET ME CLARIFY FOR SOME PEOPLE THAT CANT READ...LOL...NO I DIDNT CHEAT ON MY BOYFRIEND HE KNEW WHERE I WAS GOING, HE KNEW I WAS GOIN THERE TO TALK CUZ HE SAID HE HAD SOMETHING TO TELL ME I DIDNT KNOW IT WAS THAT...
2007-12-19 02:54:01 · update #1
yep, you're confuse! what you should do is get yourself together and know what you want in your life....period. once you got that straight then engrave it in stone!!!
For your ex boyfrined whom have cheated on you which you're still in love with. You don't make any dang sense at all, how can you love someone who is always cheating on you. that I would like for you to explain? it doesn't make any sense to go back to someone who will and you know that he will sneak out and mess around on you again. What happen if he get a girl pregnant, will you still want him? where is your self respect?
Its best to stay with your current boyfriend.
2007-12-19 02:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touch choice. Go with the cheater or stay with the guy who doesn't satisfy you!
I say - don't go with the cheater. He's done it before. If you don't learn from that experience, you are just ASKING for it again!
In terms of your current bf, girl, you have a problem! I guess what you do about it now comes down to whether he's the sort of boyfriend you can talk through this stuff with and work on it with him ...
Or at least guide him a little in the sex ...
Or try something new and exciting and different!
Or if you should break up with him and find someone TOTALLY DIFFERENT (not the cheater) who will give you what you need!
2007-12-19 02:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, tough choice, but what did your older BF do to make you break up? ponder on that then ponder onwhat your current BF is doing to mess with you, and if you decide either one, tell the one you didnt choose the reason behind your choice and say you are deeply sorry.
me personally? stay away from both of the scumbags.
2007-12-19 02:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay away from them both. If your current bf is a jerk then leave. If your prior cheat on you then why would you give him a second chance? If they do it once they will do it again.
2007-12-19 02:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by calendargirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great way to pay your boyfriend back for trusting you.
2007-12-19 02:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋