Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

It has been a year and a half since my now ex cheated, left and we divorced. Our families were very close. I have just found out that my ex's parents have arrived for Xmas and tonight is our son's Xmas concert. I have not spoken to my ex about the concert so I do not even know if he is going. My fear is that he will go and bring his parents and his girlfriend along. I do not know how I will handle that if he does. We usually attend these events by ourselves and sit together so that our son will see that we do get along. What do I do? Do I save him a seat? Do I try and sit somewhere alone? I am hoping he will have the decency to warn me if he plans to bring his parents and/or the girlfriend alond. I would if the situation was reversed. Seeing them all together will hurt even though we are divorced. What do I do?

2007-12-19 03:18:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday I posted that I had found out that my BF had bought and was wearing some size 10 long Mudd jeans (girl's obviously). Most of the respondents thought this was fine as long as they fit and looked ok on him. Now last night he came to bed and he had on VS satin PJ's - he said he likes the way they feel. This is getting a bit wierd isn't it? Do any guys out there wear satin PJ's or does you BF?

2007-12-19 03:17:20 · 26 answers · asked by courtneyrhodeisland 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 03:16:23 · 11 answers · asked by Sakib 3 in Singles & Dating

My friends say im funny. I look like my avatar. I am quite a flirt. I am kind and loving. I love sport. Not that tall. I keep fit. I am fairly intelligent. I don't smoke.
What do you think?
I do not want to state my age at the moment but I'm not old.

2007-12-19 03:15:19 · 31 answers · asked by Squeak. 3 in Singles & Dating

im still stuk wiv my other question bwt weather to go all the way with my bf i am 14 and so is he i hav been wiv him jst over 7n half months n i feel ready and so does he i am on the pill for other reasons and we would use protection plss help me n tell me wat u think
thnkx xxxx

2007-12-19 03:15:15 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been caught having s e x? by your parents, kids, friends, strangers?

2007-12-19 03:13:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance doesn't have the best taste in jewelry...so I'm a little skeptical when it comes to him shopping for one on his own.

Do most guys nowadays go with their fiance?

If they do...wouldn't that blow the proposal?

Thanks!!

2007-12-19 03:12:32 · 27 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Weddings

ok, i cannot tink of wha 2 get 2 of mah friend for x-mas! she is super hard 2 buy 4!! ok, i'll describe her...

michelle- kinda half-way gothic, likes some books(ex. Cathy's book and scary books), hates pink and preppy pepole (bsides me), likes stuffed animals a LOT! (not enough time or money 2 get her a webkinz or i would)

can u help me think of something??

2007-12-19 03:12:10 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Friends

A friend of mine is going through a horrible time with his ex that he has two kids with. She just found out that he has been seeing another girl (even though she has a boyfriend & is pregnant by him as we speak) so she is trying to take the kids away from him. They are his kids & his name is on the birth certificates.. BOTH of them. Doesnt he have some kind of rights? Isn't she NOT allowed to do that, specially because of her reasons? Please help. What should he do in the mean time to see his kids before they go to court?

2007-12-19 03:12:06 · 18 answers · asked by seeingstars278 2 in Family

How old were you the first time you hit a boy in the balls? and how did it happen?

2007-12-19 03:11:56 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well its been 15 days that he told me he loves me in a sms..but he never called me he never asked me to go out.. he is wierd coz ha is a genious.. really i mean it leterally..i like him but i cant stand it .. i hate being ignored.. should i talk to him.. what should i do???? my english sucks. i know... i usually talk franch

2007-12-19 03:11:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and lived together for the last 1.5 years (we bought a house). We also have 3 dogs that we think of as our babies...lol.. We've survived hard times and have become closer from them, but we have never broken up and rarely do we fight. We are a very open couple. We talk about marriage very often, including the type of ring that I want. I told him that I want a CZ ring, but he would like to get me diamonds. He has been picking up many extra shifts lately, but I'm trying not to be presumptious. (he also has a lot of college loans that he wants to pay off) We just had our 1st vacation, 3 yr anniversary, and now xmas is coming up. He told me on our 3 year anniversaty that he won't propose on an obvious day because it wouldn't be a suprise....but do you think it will happen soon? NOTE - we have talked and I told him that if he doesn't propose by 4 years that I'm gone (not in a nasty way, but I wanted him to know what I was thinking)

2007-12-19 03:08:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 03:08:30 · 16 answers · asked by Glen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I heard that the diamonds at Costco are just as good as anywhere else. Is that true?

2007-12-19 03:07:32 · 18 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Weddings

did you see the other sex in the nude what did you think

2007-12-19 03:06:52 · 21 answers · asked by bbblovebug 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there any good dating sites and any other ideas for finding a girl friend?

2007-12-19 03:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I KNOW it was him but he wont admit it. He just laughed about it. He'll probably give it to me once he sees me but he finds these things funny! How can I make him admit? Is a friendship you cant trust worth having?

2007-12-19 03:05:54 · 3 answers · asked by CloudLife 1 in Friends

my husband of almost 3 years told me that he feels he married too young and didnt' get to discover life on his own. he had always gone from relationship to relationship, and although we have a great relationship, his feelings for me aren't what they should be, and he wants to end things before we have kids and to be on his own. As much as this hurts me, we are best friends and will stay in each other's lives, and i believe that he needs this time to grow and find out what he needs in his life. I am hoping that as we both grow and he realizes what our relationship really was, that he will reconsider.
There is no other woman, he is very very very focused on his career and being financially successful, and that is what he wants to concentrate on. Does anyone have experience with this? do you think it's possible for us to reunite once we've both grown? No negativity or hurtful answers please...

2007-12-19 03:04:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this guy made out after we acknowledged our intense attraction to each other but he didnt tell me he liked me or made a claim, infact from the way he acted most times, i doubted his feelings, anyway one drunken night i made out with a friend who turned out to be his best bud and he found out, so i just layed off him for a bit anyway a week later i tried to kiss him in apology but also lust and he pushed me away and said 'he wouldnt let me mess him up again ...called me crazy and walked away. when i tried to apologise the next day, he just told me it was and that obviously i had issues to deal with...then hugged me but i called him a jerk and told him i was upset cas he was calling me crazy...i saw him the next day while walking down the hall way & he was smiling at me even tho we had an argument, i ofcourse smiled back & flipped him off but he kept on smiling..i really like him & i want get back with him..analyse and relay please.i dont kno what to do.

2007-12-19 03:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by crazybonita24 1 in Singles & Dating

at my bf's myspace page.Im not on there but every few months i get curious and peek at his, i get so mad when i see someone(girl) of course talking to him.Today i looked and see that he still puts that he is single.Jan will be a year for us, it didnt bother me when we first started dating but now it kinda does.He has no idea that i look at his page and i feel guilty when i do, like im invading his privacy.Should i say something?

2007-12-19 03:01:33 · 44 answers · asked by kat 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i met this boy when i was 13 and he was 14 .we were boyfriend and girlfriend if you wanna call it that at that age.we were together for a little over a year then he moved .we are now 29 and 30 years old and .over the years he has came back to town several times and he always looks me up.he came back about 4 years ago and we got back together for about 8 months. but still to this day he is always so excited to see me or even talk to me on the phone and he will even talk to me when his girlfriend is in the room and is getting mad .knowing she dont like me at all . i guess what i wanna know is why would a guy look a girl up so many time over all of the years and still be so excited to see and talk to her even if it hurts the girl he is with?

2007-12-19 02:58:34 · 4 answers · asked by camolovingbitch 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you cheated on your spouse? Would you cheat on your spouse?

2007-12-19 02:56:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 02:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This woman I'm dating talks to me about how I need to straighten my life up and get into the church while we are having sex. I feel really uncomfortable when she does that because it doesn't seem like the appropriate time.
She only metions it during sex,not any other time
What should I do since the sex with her is really good?
I don't want to make her angry because I still want the sex. How should I handle it?

2007-12-19 02:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

girls with small breast and thinbody have large sex drive or with big breast like 36 34 36 have good sex

2007-12-19 02:51:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's been 3 years since we separated and he isn't in a hurry for the divorce. Legally then is it entirely my responsible financially since I'm the one that wants to get it over and done with. Property isn't an issue, he can have it all. I just want legally divorced.

2007-12-19 02:49:49 · 7 answers · asked by jtaylor1993 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how to be unshyy:(?

2007-12-19 02:44:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f owns his own business...he works his a$$ off...and lately he's gotten into a slump of sorts i guess....whe feels like everything he touches...turns to crap...he deals with so much stress and his family doesnt help, they hound him about everything and the stress is wearing him down...he called me today and sounded really really down and just hopeless..i tell him that i am here for hima nd that ANYTHING i can do to help him and take away some of his stress ill do it...i want to take it away for him and make him feel better but i feel like i cant....is there anything i can do to help him with his stress....?

2007-12-19 02:41:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is weird I was best friends with this boy and I always really sorta liked him then we started going out so its like 6 months later and i see him hugging this girl and I'm like what the hell?!?!And hes really sweet and I blow up hes like it was nothing but I'm sorry I kinda want to break up but not really you know ?I went to go break up with him but I couldn't because I really care about him and I just love him but more as a brother and I couldn't I looked into his eyes and I just knew there was no way I could break up with him I felt so bad after that I cryed and there is just no way out I mean I wouldn't mind if he payed a little atttention to me all my friends think I should end it but I can't and hes so sweet and thoughtful and for some reason I went to my mom and shes like well guys like that don't come around that often so I'm asking anyone who cares.

2007-12-19 02:41:06 · 5 answers · asked by Amy W 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think the sex was better before you got married or after?

2007-12-19 02:40:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce