Yesterday I posted that I had found out that my BF had bought and was wearing some size 10 long Mudd jeans (girl's obviously). Most of the respondents thought this was fine as long as they fit and looked ok on him. Now last night he came to bed and he had on VS satin PJ's - he said he likes the way they feel. This is getting a bit wierd isn't it? Do any guys out there wear satin PJ's or does you BF?
2007-12-19 03:17:20 · 26 answers · asked by courtneyrhodeisland 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please find yourself a real man.
He's trying you. First, it's the jeans, then it's the PJs. Next, he'll bring home another guy and see what you'll say.
Isn't it obvious to you that he's trying to tell you something?
He's gay.
Real men don't like wearing women's clothing, no matter how good they feel on them.
Move on with your life. You deserve so much better.
2007-12-19 03:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not terribly into PJs in general (I know, TMI), but I do really like the feel of satin. That's probably why I'm partial to my wife wearing satin. But I'd say the only satin I own is a couple of satin lined hats.
You have some red flags here, but not enough to write him off yet. I'd keep the dialog open; he may be (or become) interested in cross dressing. He is not going to be honest with you and will hide if from you if you are judgmental about it. From what I hear, most transvestites are not gay, if that is your concern.
You know, it is interesting that we have a word for a man who dresses like a woman, yet a woman dressing like a man is so common, we don't even have a word for it.
2007-12-19 03:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Damocles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you. I mean everybody has different likes. There's no problem if he likes to wear girl's clothes, that's fine. Here the point is what you think of it. If this is not the kind of man you need next to you. Say bye now before you get into worse problems. A person never changes his way of being. So, enjoy it or leave it.
2007-12-19 03:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wonder about the PJs if they are women's because men's PJs come in satin also, so no reason for him to wear women's unless he's got a fetish for chicks attire.
2007-12-19 03:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, why should you girls get to be the only ones who get to feel pretty?
If you don't like it then try to find satin PJ's made for men and buy him a pair or three.
2007-12-19 03:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok... sounds like he may be telling you at some point in the future that he is a cross dresser.
they make mens satin pjs - but not at victorias secret
2007-12-19 03:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he would have just wore the pants u could just forget about it,but since he is wearing the pajamas 2 then i would definatly wonder about if he is gay or not.......just see if keeps wearing the girl clothes...then if he does tell him that u think he is gay and u r gonna move on!!!!
2007-12-19 03:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say flamer!!! Get rid of him and find a real man. What next, is going to start wearing womens underwear?? Check his drawers, I bet there is already some in there, seriously!!!
2007-12-19 03:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is weird.. but guys these days are just getting TOO comfortable..
I would start worrying when he starts wearing make-up and bra's .. [and perhaps even girl shirt & underwear]
other then that its fine...
lots of guys wear girl jeans..
look up "EMO" or "Scene guys" on google.
2007-12-19 03:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋