This woman I'm dating talks to me about how I need to straighten my life up and get into the church while we are having sex. I feel really uncomfortable when she does that because it doesn't seem like the appropriate time.
She only metions it during sex,not any other time
What should I do since the sex with her is really good?
I don't want to make her angry because I still want the sex. How should I handle it?
2007-12-19 02:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she's having some guilt issues. Maybe she'd feel better if you two were married, but she doesn't want to become the villain by bringing it up. It would be a good idea to discuss this with her (not during sex, of course).
2007-12-19 02:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see yourself with this woman in the long term? Marriage? If not, then tell her (nicely) how her talking about that during sex makes you feel. If you are not that serious about her and are in it mainly for the sex, I would just tell her once it gets on your nerves once too many times. Or start talking to her at other times about something that will make her uncomfortable. See how she likes it. Seriously, if you are not in it for the long run, ask her to stop preaching to you about church while you are having pre-marital sex! Or go to a meeting with her pastor and tell him that your girlfriend told you about his church while you were doing her. That will set her straight (you might not be getting any after that though).
2007-12-19 10:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by yogurt777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she must feel really insecure about something. If she starts talking about church during sex then stop. and ask her whats going on and why she didn't say anything before. Like i said she either feels guilty or something.
2007-12-19 10:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy_brown_eyes08 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she is thinking about church when you guys have sex. Tell her if she wants to talk to you about it you can talk when your mind is in the right place. If she keeps doing it punch her in the back of the head.
2007-12-19 10:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by TG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, she has no right to preach about church to you when she's having sex with you! I wouldn't like someone telling me how to run my life anyway but remind her that if she's that bothered, then shouldn't she be married before having sex?!
2007-12-19 11:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her shes an idiot for thinking that going to church will straighten your life. after that, ive got a few simple ideas for getting her to stop talking during sex.
A. get a gag
B. do it doggystyle and bury her face in a pillow
C. ask another guy to join. (she cant talk with a penis in her mouth)
D. give her a roofy and do it while she sleeps.
2007-12-19 11:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Adam Ding Dong 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to church then she will stop......DUH!
is sacraficing an hour a week for our lord maybe its a message from god that u should be a priest???
n e way an hour a week in return for good sex???
2007-12-19 11:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel. and sugguest another time to chat bout the subject like over dinner or in a quite night in.
2007-12-19 11:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell here that it makes you uncomfortable. If she can't deal with it, then let her go and find someone that does not make you uncomfortable.
2007-12-19 10:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by astralpen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some earplugs
2007-12-19 10:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋