at my bf's myspace page.Im not on there but every few months i get curious and peek at his, i get so mad when i see someone(girl) of course talking to him.Today i looked and see that he still puts that he is single.Jan will be a year for us, it didnt bother me when we first started dating but now it kinda does.He has no idea that i look at his page and i feel guilty when i do, like im invading his privacy.Should i say something?
2007-12-19 03:01:33 · 44 answers · asked by kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is a big thing, Do you trust him? If not kick him to the curb.
2007-12-19 03:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by GREGOR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldn't be spying on your bf's myspace page. I'm sure you would get mad at him for spying on you and this is the reason you should tell him your been a peeking tom and don't trust him. The internet site's like myspace is still a new think and your bf is just curious about what goes on, like for the business, friends, music. Stop beening a peeking tom and take your bf some where special as he could be just on myspace because he's bored. If you thing he's emailing a lot of girl's well ask him what doe he do online all day, but don't invade his space and yes you should feel guilty for invading his privacy. At the end of the day your really there and these girls are not in fact they are maybe on the other side of the world. So just show him your there for him and do more stuff go out, do something cheap, walk down the park, get some friends over for some broad games, Live...... and if he's doing this at work then he's for sure just BORED..I'm just guessing you feel now he's meet you he shouldn't be looking online even if these girls could be just friends
2007-12-19 03:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not invading his privacy. HE put that on the internet, and everyone from you to Jessica Simpson can see it if they wish, he can't do anything about. IT's his fault if he puts up something potentially embarrassing or damaging.
Maybe just bring it up during a conversation. Like "hey, I saw your myspace yesterday when I was hanging around on the web, and it said that you're single. What's up with that?" then maybe add something joking at the end like "You know half those girls on myspace are ugly 40 year old men"
2007-12-19 03:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by ________ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not an invasion of privacy ... it is on the internet my dear!!
The thing to remember is that myspace is just a social network and honestly ... unless he is out there meeting the girls he talks to ... there is nothing to worry about!!
Why don't you create a myspace and add him as a friend. That way you can say hey why are you single??? And if it makes you feel better you can post I love you comments or whatever on his page!
2007-12-19 03:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is only a site. I am sure it means nothing that it says "single" . . he might not even notice it still says that. HOw did you get his password in the first place?
And you should trust him. If he's talking to a girl and the conversation is not about sexual contents or anything pointing he is cheating on you or into them, Then they are clearly friends. Don't worry. Don't be jealous.
If it would make you argue, than definitly don't tell him. But if you feel guilty just stop.
If it really bothers you that he talks to girls, tell him. or ask him. not to speak to them anymore
if it is a year-than clearly he likes you.
If he is doing something bad on myspace with girls.
leave him.
point blank . .
2007-12-19 03:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him why hes still single on there? Hes your boyfriend, you are allowed to look at his page. Now if he was an ex.. it might be considered MySpace Stalking. I know when I first got with my husband, we each had a myspace and when I was over there and he was on it. I got on and changed his relationship status for him, infront of him. So it wasnt behind his back. But if you have a good relationship and trust one another, it shouldnt matter what his MySpace says about his status.
2007-12-19 03:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. N™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not really sure what options My Space has for status. If the choice is "Single or Married/Divorced" Single is correct. If there is a choice for something else, then perhaps surf the net with him sometime and just check out his page together. I would joke and say "Single? I know we are not married, but I don't consider myself single, don't you think you should change that? If he resists, then you have something to worry about. If you have a MySpace page, what does yours say?
2007-12-19 03:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by yogurt777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invading his privacy...No! Curious...Yes!
If you're not married...He's really is "still single".
If you are jealous,say something to him & tell him how you feel,it very well just be that this girl is only a friend & you are jumping to conclusions.Don't feel guilty though,if he doesn't have his "myspace" on privacy then it's not private!Talk to him & let him know how you feel!
2007-12-19 03:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You Should! If he is constantly logging in to myspace he is showing the world who he is and what his latest updates are. If you BOTH aggree that you are in an exclusive relationship then he should state on his page that he is in a relationship or find a compromise and design his page so that it doesnt show a relationship status at all.
2007-12-19 03:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by James S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just invite him as a friend to your myspace account that way you can legally spy and he will know your doing it.... Also make sure you have some guy friends on your page so he might get a little jealous that will keep him in line a bit on his page.... Just play his game back.....
2007-12-19 03:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by jossieray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - the page is there for anyone to look at.
Though I don't know why you're getting mad if some girl talks with him.
Do you get mad if some girl talks with him on the street?
Is it what they say (or is it that they post sexy pictures of themselves ... cos many of the myspace girls will have pretty pictures up)
2007-12-19 03:04:52 · answer #11 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋