It is winter and I am cold! My husband has made comments that my layers of clothing when lounging around the house are not exactly sexy and discourage initiation of sex. Any suggestions for how I can maintain sex appeal in lounge clothes while staying warm?
2007-12-19 03:57:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try some yoga pants with a fitted sweater
2007-12-19 04:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some tighter clothing and wear a couple of tight layers.
wear a scarf with a low-cut sweater.
knee-high socks or thigh-highs with short shorts.
buy some silk clothing. silk is actually a very warm fabric.
or just initiate sex. the real problem might not be the clothing, but your "cool" attitude. maybe winter has made you a little more tired. take a hot shower and lead him into the bedroom a couple of times throughout the week before he has the chance to bring up the subject.
also, ask him to turn up the heat!
2007-12-19 04:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Driver's_Seat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try wearing tight shirts or low-cut shirts that show you off. You could even wear the low-rise jogging pants and then a shirt that shows a little belly. I know how you feel. I worry about that too, but when I ask my partner if he'd like me to wear anything specific, he picks the kinds of things I try to wear anyway (those I noted above).
If it's just him and me, sometimes, I throw on a really low cut shirt that barely covers my breasts and walk around in that. Sometimes, even if it's for a short time, I might walk around in a long-sleeve long-tailed men's shirt with nothing underneath. Then, if I get cool, I cover up with a blanket - at least he gets to see my legs and knows I'm naked when I'm walking around. It at least gets him thinking even during those times I'm covered up with a blanket.
Also, sometimes, I wear his favorite nighties for a while before bed. Again, still cover up when I need to but when I walk around, he has a chance to see and think. Works wonders.
Good luck...
2007-12-19 04:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW- he's rude. My husband wants me no matter what I have on. Why don't u tell him to wear those little banana mens underwear and see how he likes it. He sounds selfish. Is he all about looks or what? If you want to give in to this superficial jerk then go to Victoria Secret and get some of their pajama pants w a cute tee to wear. they have warm cute stuff. Your husband sounds like a jerk and doensn't deserve romance.
2007-12-19 04:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't have any panties on under your many layers!
and i have the same problem. maybe have him draw you a really hot bath as well!
2007-12-19 04:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
turn the heat up and wear socks
2007-12-19 07:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear warm boots. and only the boots.
2007-12-19 04:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try flannel pj's! They work for me!
2007-12-19 16:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by james h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋