my ex and I dated for a year and 1/2. we have been broken up for almost 6 months. but have been seeing each other during then. He said a month ago he wanted to see what happens when I graduate. He came over after thanksgiving to see me. He says he misses me. I recently stayed at his house for a few days. We slept in the same bed.he would pull me close and just lay there with me. He was holding my hand and kissing me. we would go out , have fun. we have talked and he says he doesnt like who he is since hes moved. I told him id be there when he figures it out. the other day he asked me what I wanted for xmas! I got excited because i hope it means he wants me over on xmas but yet he doesnt do little things like call me! I know hes really busy and our schedules are opposite. does he want us to work eventually when i graduate? but just enjoying his time and not letting it get to him like i am?
2007-12-19 03:41:18 · 8 answers · asked by Vanessa S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know hes not dating anyone else...and i said i didnt want to be just another girl to him and he said i cant believe you would even think that!...when we are together its like we never broke up..we have so much fun...we only broke up because we couldnt spend time together...he wanted to start dating again and i said no it wasnt fair to us...but now I want him...
2007-12-19 03:45:21 · update #1
he hates you.
2007-12-19 03:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't believe it. He says "he doesn't like who he is since he's moved"...wow, that's telling. What has he been doing that he doesn't like himself is my big question.
This situation is not good, other things are going on in the background here you don't know about and I suggest you tell him either he is in a relationship (fully, none of this "busy" garbage). BTW, what is he so "busy" doing honey...take a guess. If a guy likes you and wants a relationship, he will put everything aside for you. So what, he works, so do millions of other people. If he's a single guy, he has loads of time of his hands because they usually only do things with themselves in mind. You rarely see a single guy volunteering and helping others (unlike single women).
Get a clue and protect yourself here, wise up, he is not being honest with you.
2007-12-19 11:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based solely on the information you give here, I am going to say yes. Maybe he just wants to take it slow, sometimes the journey is just as much fun as the destination...
2007-12-19 11:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe. I say enjoy things right now, but keep your eyes open for other relationships just in case he disappoints you in the end. Don't be 100% quite yet until he tells you for sure
2007-12-19 11:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could mean many things. You have to decide if you want to wait around for him to decide if he wants to be with you. If you two are met to be with each other it will always happen...Just give it time.
2007-12-19 11:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mudchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's just taking it slow a bit. he may be confused on what your future would be and taking it slow would be a good idea. i can't tell you how he feels and asking may also seem like you're pushing it. wait for it. the best things come for people who wait.
2007-12-19 11:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me you never really broke up
2007-12-19 11:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time...some people just like to go slowly
2007-12-19 11:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by gunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋