My ex really, really hurt me which caused us to break up. I cant stand him and have to see him every day all day. To me, the ultimate revenge is to move on, SHOW him I've moved on, and for him.... well not to.
How do you make it impossible for that person to move on?
How do you get them to live in misery for as long as possible and always be hung up on you?
2007-12-19 03:21:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust me I'm going through the same thing. my friend told me to be myself. cause that's what made him like me in the first place. do all the little things he adored about u. hell start missing you eventually. i don't think u can make him impossible for him to move on. but hell feel the pain.
2007-12-19 03:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by brittney d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have any control over what he does, boo. All you can do is move on yourself. And the best thing that you can do is to a) show him that he means absolutely nothing to you by pretty much ignoring him, and b) showing that you've moved on yourself by having a good time hanging out with your friends and maybe even finding someone else to date. And don't forget to make a point of always looking fabulous and acting confident (not obnoxious or cocky) so that he knows that you don't miss him.
2007-12-19 11:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeking revenge is just a way to stay involved with that person. Its also a waste of time, emotion, and energy.
Move on, and be confident. He'll realize what he had when its gone. But if he hurt you, hes not worth all that effort. His punishment can be that you are gone for good.
Good luck
2007-12-19 11:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Fo Sho! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have revenge in your idea and that is really, really bad.
You have NOT moved on with that attitude. You need to forget about what is going on with him, he will get paid back for whatever he did to you, believe me.
But, you need to not set yourself up for punishment yourself by doing something stupid.
Be classy and wise...act as if he does not exist and move on with your life in the most positive sense of the word. You learned something from this experience with him and think of it that way. Anger, revenge and bitterness only hurts you, not him.
2007-12-19 11:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you dont want your ex to move on shows that you still care about him. If you didnt care, and if you truely have moved on then your wouldnt care what he did with his life. Trust me, my ex cheated on me the entire time we were dating. Now im am happily married with a son of my own and I only with my ex the best in life. Why? because Im not the type of person that would want to see people in pain anyway and I am 100000% over him
2007-12-19 11:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by ashx0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your longing to keep him trapped will only cause you pain and to be in Jail a personal hell created by your unwillingness to Forgive and seek revenge
Trust me it's not worth it
Your life is better than that
we have all been Hurt and life is not about hurt it is about
Healing
Soo...
Get on with the healing and Don't waste your Life Hating
2007-12-19 11:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can TOTALLY relate! you can dwell on it all you want, but if he's over it, he's over it, and there's probably not a lot you can do. the best thing for you is to move on as well and forget about him! you getting a new bf and moving on could be the best way to remind him of what he messed up, just don't look back. concerning yourself with him is just giving him the satisfaction of you still caring. try to truly just let it go and you will feel a lot better inside =)
2007-12-19 11:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he cares about you at all seeing you with someone else will hurt him more than anything seeing you able to be happy w/o him is what will hurt if he cares but hunny he sounds like a jerk so i woulld just say you need to move on bc you wanting him to be miserable you are just feeding him.... he know you are unhappy bc of him you are just letting him know that he still gets to you. you should just move on show him you dont need him to be happy find a guy that wants to be with you and make you happy and if you and this guy are truly ment to be it will happen no matter what or how many relationships are in between
2007-12-19 11:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot hurt others without hurting yourself.
Hatred only destroys the hater.
You get him by YOU moving on.
Become as successful as you can. Because the sweetest revenge is success.
2007-12-19 11:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never going to happen the best revenge is just for you to move on quickly and be happy doing it if you keep worring about him not being happy you wont be
2007-12-19 11:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋