Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

My daughter has had this boyfriend for 2 years now. He treats her TERRIBLE!! I see it, her friends see it, other family members see it. He even threatened to kill her one time and also has ask her to have a 3-some. My daughter has told me all of this.

She met another man at college who to my husband and I seems perfect for her. I forced her to dump her current boyfriend to be with this other guy.

He drove all the way (4 hours away) to come visit her over Christmas break already IN THE SNOW....he brought her donuts took her out for ice cream last night and treated her like a queen. He even got her a Christmas gift.

I allowed him to stay the night here since the roads were awful. This morning my daughter couldn't get rid of him fast enough. She made up an excuse stating she had to go to work and then made up a second excuse stating that she had to go with friend's to lunch!!!

Then she went over to the ex boyfriend's house to talk to him and now he's coming over tonight!!

2007-12-16 06:00:41 · 51 answers · asked by Nnay 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy that I've known almost 2 months now(we're friends w/benefits)has been looking all over for a ps3. Everywhere he's looked they're sold out....even sold out while he was in the store..lol. So last night I was out shopping & he asked me if I would just look & see if I could find 1 since I was shopping...but he said don't buy it. Well the store I went to said they were out all day but they just got 2 in & that they wouldn't last thru the night. So I told him I would get it for him & he said I didn't have to but if I did he would bring me the $. Well I told them I would take 1 & by the time they went to get 1 for me they were gone. They told me another store that was close that might still have some. I checked & they did so I got it! He said he's going to pay me(of course...I wasn't buying it as a gift) But was that stupid of me? I felt like I was just doing him a favor...but will he think more? Btw...I am not handing the game over w/out the cash...LOL!

2007-12-16 05:57:58 · 12 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a stay at home mom who just stated a side business making custom cards for invitations, holiday cards, etc....

I usually do my friends cards for free and on the back of the card, I put my sticker on them that shows my company name, e-mail address and phone number. It's my way of advertising.

Anyway, my girlfriend asked me to do her cards when she found out I wasn't charging for friends. She gave me a hard time and had me change the card 4 or 5 times. I did it graciously.She knows that I put the stickers on the backs of the cards as well.

I e-mailed her the other day and asked if she got the cards yet because I wanted to put the stickers on the back. She says, I got the cards two days ago, I already sealed the envelopes....sorry.
I got SO pissed and just wrote back....oh. She ordered 100 cards...that would have been great for me, considering most of these people have kids.
The more I think about it, the more I'm bothered by what happened.
Should I say something?

2007-12-16 05:56:06 · 11 answers · asked by qtpie 2 in Friends

2007-12-16 05:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by Julie B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So the other day I was messing around on my boyfriends computer while he was at work and decided to upload a picture of me to be his wallpaper! I put in a picture c.d. from a long time ago because there was a certain pic i wanted on there! I then deleted all the pics after i was finished( or so I thought) my boyfriend got on a couple days later and found a naked pic of my ex !!!!ooops, I had forgotten that was even on that c.d. now hes pissed! would you guys be pissed? what to do?????

2007-12-16 05:53:03 · 8 answers · asked by Mychele h 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you get a pen pal? The thing where u write to someone u dont know

2007-12-16 05:52:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Friend Marks Girlfriend Was doing dirty Stuff On Cam To Another Boy 2 Minutes After She Got Back With Mark. So I told Him What She Had Done And He Was Devestated And He Dont Know What To Do he Keeps Askin Me For Advice But i Dont Know What To say;; So What Can He Do ??

2007-12-16 05:51:19 · 42 answers · asked by CeeCee--xo 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy told me that he didn't want relationship. We were hanging out for 3 months...He said he did like me but don't want a gf. And would like to stay friends, but prob he wud like to take my clothes off all the time, so he doesn't think that would work..I feel used. But why he doesn't want to b with me if he likes me..Was it just sex? He said he liked bein with me...I don't understand...

2007-12-16 05:51:16 · 10 answers · asked by Luiza D 1 in Singles & Dating

I am curvy and chubby but I can't find any guy that I like that likes me as more than a friend. Why is this? do i have to lose weight to find a boyfriend or what. I am confused???

2007-12-16 05:48:15 · 14 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

I just need to get this off my chest. I sit here yet again wondering who my real friends are. All my life I have been used and just thrown away when people were done with me. I dont get close to people because I end up getting hurt. I dont like to be hurt so when im sad I smile, but it gets harder and harder each day to smile. I feel like ive been used yet again and now im being thrown away because they're just bored with me. I learn a new thing wrong with me each day. I am at the doctor 3 times a week. No one knows this about me. No one sees because I smile. but now I guess things are just getting hard ,and the people I thought would be there for me aren't, because they're bored with me. they know the smile isn't real, but they just pretend like they dont know. I guess im just sad. Its hard for me to admit that because I cant hide it anymore. I've been hiding it for so long. Amanda: you were my best friend. I trusted you with everything. Gosh why did you have to do that to me. Why did you leave me like that. You could have called me.. i would have been there for you just like you always were for me. I always want to wake up from a bad dream and see your smiling face again. Your smile was contagious. I miss you SO much. Today is your birthday. Its been one year but it seems like just yesterday we were at the mall together laughing about anything. Wow I wish I could talk to you right now, I have so much to tell you. You were amazing. you will always be my best friend. I love you amanda

2007-12-16 05:46:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but don't buy you things?

2007-12-16 05:46:07 · 13 answers · asked by =lost soul= 2 in Singles & Dating

I think men lives are just as tough as women however in society men are programmed to be strong and not complain. for example in our society a woman does not have to have a good job or be well educated to attract a beautiful mate but a man must. Men are expected to ask women out on dates which can lead to rejection or sexual harassment but women are not expected to go to date. Men must also pay for the date. Also men tend to be more likely to go to prison or be victims of violent crime (assault, kidnapping, armed robbery, or murder) if their poor as compared to woman. A woman who is poor can marry a rich man or sleep around for money. A man who is poor usually engages in criminal behavior such as selling drugs, robbing, which can result in a gang or vigilante type of killing.

2007-12-16 05:46:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 05:44:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 05:44:40 · 21 answers · asked by surayanaik 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well. I have a few best friends (groups) but it was me mell and bri.
Me and Mell are insanly close and bri's just fun to hang with.
And when bri started to realize this she went crazy.
and started playing the jealousy game. Until we all wanted to kill ourselfs.
Now... me and Mell have decided to drop her. (she wasnt just trying to spilt us apart. but was rude in general)
But our plan was to stop emails to her to confront her.. but if she confronts us.. just to calmy answer.. without suggesting enthusiasim. But now i feel like a big piece is missing. And i almost want her back. But i dont want to do that to mell when she doesnt. haha. to make things worse bri doesnt get that me and mell are through with her..

i dont know what to do about this girl!?!?!

2007-12-16 05:42:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

women always moaning to me about "finding a nice guy"... blaa blaa bla... and its like, when they have one, they moan about him being too nice and dump him. god pleasee whats going on? i dont get it.

theres soo many nice guys about, and yet they go with all the pricks the world can offer, then moan more that they havent got a nice man.

anyone been in that situation or been a so called "victim" of it?

women please, make up your mind.

2007-12-16 05:42:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Things are tight this time of year with 5 kids(my partner and l both work!) so l really had to scrape to find the money for two winter coats for my 13 and12 year old. I got two great coats on e-bay. Friday the first day of wearing it my eldest comes come without his coat,lsay "where is it?" he says "The teacher wouldn't let me get it she says l will have to wait till monday". I was furious not only cos he'd just got it but because he had walked a mile home in minus 3 with no coat on.I rang the school straight away and said l wanted to know what the hell is going on and sent them a stinking e-mail saying it was no better than child abuse no one has answered either. Tomorrow is monday and l am getting ready to go into battle with the school am l overreacting or should l let them have it. He has been all weekend without a coat so couldn't go out with us.

2007-12-16 05:41:54 · 28 answers · asked by Sarah C 3 in Family

I consider myself an independent woman. I am a pretty handy person, good at interior decorating, has good fashion sense. I've been described more as smart, nice and sweet. I've been called ugly, but I still manage to get guys and girls to look at me when I walk pass them. I've never had any problems with getting guys to like me. And no I am not a whore nor do I dress like one.

I am a pretty ambitious person and I haven't met another man who is as ambitious as I am. Someone told me that I thought I was too good for anyone even though I've been described as a modest person. Is it just because I come off as too independent that someone would think this of me? I'm not the type of gal who needs to go to the bathroom with another girl or one who pretends to have a flat tire to get a man's attention.

2007-12-16 05:38:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 05:37:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so its a nor-easter here in Boston and im going stir crazy in my house...im stuck in the house and my street hasnt been plowed so im stuck here for the day...i need some ideas of things to do before i go totally nuts...i wrapped all my xmass presents, i watched some movies and im watchin the pats game..what else is there to do on a snowy messy day? what are YOU doin during this winter wonderland?

2007-12-16 05:37:05 · 7 answers · asked by jennybean7985 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

k so i have this x of mine. we dated for 8 months. we were in love but there we difficulties. eventually we split up now i have a new lover. but i cant stop my self from thinking or wanting to call my x i also cant help missing him or loveing him. its been 7 months since we last saw each other. but i still have the same feelings for him. how do i get over him..?

please help me! thanx!

2007-12-16 05:36:12 · 12 answers · asked by michelle aksaya 2 in Singles & Dating

Does my friend like me? (kinda like him!)?
lately it seems everyone is trying to get me and one of my best friends together because "we're such a good couple." and "it's obvious we like each other." but it could be true cause one time he slipped out "i like you and you always make me laugh" but he said it kinda like a joke but also like it slipped out. (It kinda sounded like he ment it.) and sometimes when we laugh he puts his hed down on me but it seems like he does it on purpose. and sometimes it feels like he finds ways to touch me ,like hug me (not in the wrong sense). One time (actually this happend twice) i would go somewhere and i'd look behind me and i'd see him following me. and also he always wants me to do something with him during after school activities.

2007-12-16 05:35:57 · 8 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Friends

2007-12-16 05:35:39 · 33 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

i sent her a message on yahoo messenger sayin whose this, becuz i forgot who it waz becuz i changed her name, then she gets all idk, sayin how could u forget me and idc seems like u want me out ur life, and never again and ****, but it really doesnt bother me becuz she hurt me alot in the past and i know she thinks im gonna call and see whats up but i aint, but shes krazy. What is she tryn to prove?

She broke up with me and has a new bf?

2007-12-16 05:34:08 · 3 answers · asked by Metal-head 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 05:33:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how to tell the difference between a guy who is genuinely being nice when talking to you, or feeding you a bunch of sweet lines for ulterior motives?

ive been hooking up with a guy and ive been having no problem staying unattached (we get along GREAT but neither wants anything serious right now). BUT he sweet talks me and makes it HARD for me to not fall for it.

He'll say things like...
I just love talking to you, call me anytime..
I have so much when I'm around you.
Hopefully I get to see you again soon...I would love it.
If we went to the same school, I could definitely see us chillin together...

Whats the deal? It's been kind of clear to me that it's purely a chemistry thing. we'll go out together, dance, drink, and hook up. and then talk on the phone later. haha. we have soo much fun, but that's all.

so why does he feel the need to say sweet things and make me interested in perhaps having something more???

2007-12-16 05:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my partner and my friend hate each other, they have never got on, i don't know why they just never seemed to take with one another, but its has got progressively worse over time and now they refuse to even be in the same room. at my birthday party my friend refused to come because my partner was there and in the end i had to have two celebrations just so i could spend time with them both. and since i moved in with my other half my friend hasn't been round to mu house she wont even come round when he isn't here, she refuses to come near the place. the thing is tho that she never says a bad thing about him, she doesn't want to split us up or cause trouble she just cant stand him.
its got so bad that i cant carry on this way its ruining both relationships. i know sometime soon i am going to have to chose between them but i have no idea how to do this.

2007-12-16 05:31:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi! This guy i really like told me to listen to this song... Well, it perfectly described our situation (we live a little far apart, we've kissed and then things got complicated... it all fits!) well, in the song, the guys also says he loves the girl... Is this a hint, or do guys don't think that far? He just said "i think you'll love this song"... help? I'd be SO happy...

2007-12-16 05:30:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanted to hang out with this kid,
we hung out last weekend and i really like him.

so i texted him last night, and he never texted back.
i keep thinking maybe he didn't get it, but i know he did.

so is he tryin to avoid me or what?
we talk in school and stuff and he called me at the begingin of the week a couple times.

i don't want to seem stockerish by calling him, so should i just let it go and see what he saids monday at school?

2007-12-16 05:29:54 · 30 answers · asked by CYDVICIOUS 2 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing someone, he provoked the sh-it out me to the point where I went into a rage and punched him in the eye.

He is stating that it is all my fault that im violent and can't control my emotions. Do you think it was my fault b/c I'm the one who raised my hand? He pushed me till i litterally snapped.

2007-12-16 05:29:16 · 2 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Singles & Dating