Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

I have a cousin who lives in L.A., we seldom see each other except when SHE comes to visit ME (last time was about 4-5 years ago), and we rarely talk on the phone(maybe once every 2yrs.) and never chat, email or generally stay in touch. But, when she has come here for the summer, etc. she has a good time and -tiresome as attending relatives can be- so do I, I guess that's why she considers my city and home as a primo vacation spot (and no, I don't live in Vegas).
Thing is, she called me last week, extremely out of the blue (as I said before, after 4-5 yrs) and ANNOUNCES that she's coming down to spend the holidays with me since she got vacation from college so it's very convenient FOR HER.
Usually it would just be a "Oh crap!" moment for me and generally an annoyance, but apart from that it would be no biggie. But this Xmas and New Year's is different...(please read on)

2007-12-16 06:44:43 · 4 answers · asked by cleo715 4 in Family

If that happened?

2007-12-16 06:44:33 · 16 answers · asked by kekeke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So i am 5'4, 118 pounds and Double D breasts. They are huge! I'm still in highschool and i have never had a boyfriend because im always scared that he is only going out with me for the twins, not for me. Ive also been developing severe back problems. I've been asking for a breast reduction every year for christmas for the past 3 years. My parents will not give me a break. I need this surgery! I feel like i havent started my life yet..any tips on what i should do?

2007-12-16 06:44:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my husband and i have always had differant sex drives mine being the stronger one, but lately he will say we are going to do it after a tv show or after im done doing somthing liek dishes or what ever but then when the time comes and we are in bed he says hes to tired or lays there and talks to me(which i love that we talk, but he does it to just kill time) till its to late to make love we both have very early scheduals ive sugested some times in the after-noon but for that to happen the electric has to go out lol he is 3 years older than me im 20 and he 23 so is this differance supose to be happening after only 6 months i dont think he is cheating but do other guys out there around this age have this problem? is there any thing i can do to help him or should i just back off? im more worried that this maybe a med. problem.

2007-12-16 06:41:51 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs T. 2009 4 in Marriage & Divorce

They've always had little petty arguments, but it seems like as my brother and I have gotten older, its gotten worse. There has never been any physical abuse, because both of my parents really are good people. I am a very sensitive person, so I usually end up crying when they fight. I am 17 years old now, so this is a little embarrasing to admit. Most of the arguments start out small, like today they started arguing over who sually vaccuums up the needles from the Christmas tree. Then it turned into this huge yelling match.
I know that when they were younger they loved each other a lot. I think they still do, or maybe thats just me being too hopeful. After each argument my mother usually comes into my room and apologizes for fighting in front of my brother and I. But I've only seen my dad apologize a few times.
Also, my dad has a problem with contradicting himself. H will say something hurtful during an argument and the later deny that he ever said it.
What should I do?

2007-12-16 06:40:18 · 23 answers · asked by Amy S. 2 in Family

there is this guy that i sit next to in class that i absolutly HATE and he likes me.. it is SUPER DUPER annoying because hes always flirting with me and then everyone makes fun of me. Usually i just tell him to shut up but HE DOESNT. I need some comebacks or something that will make him go away but they cant be too bad because he is a known tattler and i refuse to get in trouble because of him

2007-12-16 06:39:16 · 7 answers · asked by jjmarie058 4 in Singles & Dating

lets start of by saying my past relashinship went horribly...abusive n best friend of my ex killed my brother..now here goes my question..i met this guy he is super sweet and i love him and he loves me very much..we have alot in common..we both have a kid..mines a girl n his is a boy. we've both been hurt badly..and he knows how much i've been thru with my ex,daughter,and brother..he truly cares for me more than any guy i noe. the only problem is he lives all the way in kansas :( i love it in mexico and living with all my brothers..there the only family i have no mom or dad all i have is my brothers..but i love this guy more than anything..should i go be with him in kansas??i guesse u could say i'm scared of wat is going to happen..i'm scared to let him love me like i let my ex..im scared he'll hurt me the same way..but i luv him so much and i woudl do anything for him..i no if i never try to be with him ill neva get over being scared..so should i just give him a chance? i noe i want 2

2007-12-16 06:39:03 · 8 answers · asked by Casandra 1 in Singles & Dating

it has been over a year since my last boyfriend. Im starting to get a tad lonely. Im have my eye on one guy but he is hard to read, and i dont know about my chances. any advice or tips would help!

2007-12-16 06:36:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 06:34:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad is a drunk and a chauvinist, my mom was an orphan that has become obsessed with money. She is a narcissistic who believes that she deserves it all. I have 11 brothers and sisters. My brothers are like my father and my sisters are mean and evil spirited. I decided to move to a new area away from them but then it seems that everyone everywhere is the same nowadays. Are we all messed up? Am I being a dreamer by thinking that things should be different? should I just become like them and not care?

2007-12-16 06:33:12 · 11 answers · asked by A_O 2 in Family

What is your favorite snowed in activity or game?

2007-12-16 06:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You may remember all my questions from last week. I was the girl that was at my bf's friend's house and we all got very drunk. The last thing I remember him doing is exposing my breasts while I was dancing buy according to another witness, he also pulled down my undies and showed everyone. I found out the next morning that I had a threesome with a friend of his and him and it was ALL my idea, right??? I know I can get kinda slutty but I am preety sure I was forced since I had bruises all over. It may have just been rough sex though. I think he lost all respect for me. It's like he took advantage of me 'cause he knows I can't control my liquor and it makes me act crazy. I'm only 130 lbs. 5'8 and drank (I guess) atleast 3 fifths and a 12 pack myself. I know I'm an alcoholic. Well, I went over there again this weekend. They sold me some XTC which I took even though I had been drinking hard core. We went bowling and I guess in the women's bathroom (Cont'd)

2007-12-16 06:30:22 · 5 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

my sister keeps stealing money from my dad and mom shes already stolen over 16k this year and we dont know if its just her or her boyfriend because he is a really big jerk and we think he could be putting her up to this. were trying to find a safer bank account because where ever bank we go she can get in because she knows all of my parents information including social security numbers and whenever she steals she always uses as it as an excuse for her little girl even tought we all know its a lie. please help

2007-12-16 06:27:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was talkin to my bf on the internet....and it was around 2:30 AM and we were talkin and he thought i was mad at him and we were talkin about it, but then i accidentally fell asleep. I woke up 2 hours later and saw the laptop still on and my bf wrote "welll im gunna go to hockey now.....bye......i guess you dont care enough to say bye" and other stuff and i feel really bad and i left him a email that said how sorry i was and that i accidentally fell asleep and i saw that he read it but never email me back or anything, i think he may be mad, what do i do

2007-12-16 06:26:04 · 11 answers · asked by peaches and cream 2 in Singles & Dating

Help me please.Im lost???
Ok. Im a sr. in high skool. hes a sophmore. I like him ALOT.. i think he likes me but im not sure. I try nd let him kno but i dnt wanna b to obvious..(so i drop hints)

(Ex's) ON my bday he said hapy bday. nd evrytim he saw me he said it nd gave me a hug...uhhhh so cute

Then the otha day my guy friend gave me a hug nd the kid i like came ova nd tried to pick me up nd my guy friend said dnt touch my grl nd the kid i like said oh srry.. well i got another one anyways so i was like oh how sweet how u think dat makes me feel .. den i rolled my eyes up and laughed

The otha day i was standing outside my grls locker and the kid i like was behind her he was lookin at me. .i seen him i smiled.. he smerked bac...

then the otha day i was walkin to class nd he seen me in the hallway he tickled my stomach as he walked by (basically lettin me kno he saw me.............=)

So idk.. do u think he knos i like him??

Do u think der is a possibility that he may like me?

2007-12-16 06:25:30 · 1 answers · asked by Corrine 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my mom throws parties all the time. She literally thinks she is 18. It ticks me off and I hate coming home to her being so S*it faced from the night before.

i honestly like don't know how to deal with it!

2007-12-16 06:22:43 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Lexi 3 in Family

i met this girl last thursday, we texted like mad over the weekend coz she went home,met on monday, had sex, i was a bit distant after that coz i was very tired, but she wanted to be very close after sex, texted her on tuesday, she replied.
texted her on wednesday to tell her i'd like to see her before she leaves for x'mas on friday, she didn't reply, then i texted her later that night to tell her that i hope she doesn't think i'm using her for s** n she still didn't reply
i didn't text her thursday, then friday i didn't text her again, but when i went out with my friends i saw her friends in the club n i spoke to them, although we never met before, i just saw photos of them
last night, saturday, i texted her 'i really like u, merry x'mas, x' n she replied asking if i spoke to her friend, n i just never gave her a direct answer, but we sounded cool last night, she just basically said, she met me once, n i don't know anything about her, n she knows nothing abt me, so how can i like her

2007-12-16 06:20:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 06:19:41 · 17 answers · asked by Meg H 1 in Singles & Dating

So there's this guy that goes to my school. We've known each other since freshman year, but only now (junior) have we actually finally started to clique. First we used to joke around all the time and not really talk outside of school. Then, all of a sudden, we became real good friends going places with each other and hanging out all the time. When we're not hanging out, we're usually on the phone-not really talking-just sitting there with the phone to our ears. lol. anyways, he invited me to the movies this friday--we've always went places with our other friends, not just us-- and for some reason I'm really nervous. Besides the fact that he's the only guy I've seemed to connect with since my abortion, I don't know why I am so nervous. Before my abortion, I was an outgoing girl who always made the first move. Since then, things have changed. I don't usually make the first move anymore. But I don't know, with him, should I make the first move like I used to, or just wait for him???

2007-12-16 06:17:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have asked for sex and been rejected by my husband twice within less than one month. I feel so hurt and I've been crying since then. Don't get me wrong, I'm not crying for the sex, I'm crying because I feel rejected and hurt so deep.

The timings were probably not the best (when I asked) and that's why he rejected. The first time we had just had lunch and the second time we were almost going to be both exhausted after a v. long day.

But isn't' sex supposed to be spontaneous and not always done in the "perfect" time?

And no, he's not cheating on me for sure.

Please help me, my heart is aching so bad.

2007-12-16 06:15:27 · 10 answers · asked by Grace 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Just has an orgasm with my husband and
a river of water came out of me what could this be?
by the way Im 35wks pregnant. Did my water break
this never happened before.

2007-12-16 06:15:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 06:14:17 · 20 answers · asked by Asia H 1 in Friends

Could you take just a moment to recall the things that you found so amazing about your partner spouse or whatever and then go tell them... despite whatever is going on at the moment just tell them.

2007-12-16 06:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 06:12:37 · 3 answers · asked by nandy 1 in Family

2007-12-16 06:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my crush sits in front of me in math and one day he turned to me and said 'u should straighten your hair'. (i have very thick, wavy, dark brown hair) i was like 'i've tried, it doesn't look good' and he said "well i haven't seen it so i wouldn't know".
what does all that mean?? what does that mean???
btw we talk/flirt with each other everyday, so it's not like that was the 1st time he talked to me...

2007-12-16 06:09:45 · 18 answers · asked by kmkween24217 2 in Singles & Dating

What goes through a men's skull when he views a female(general) for example crying during the movie"Titanic"when "Jack"lets go and drowns/she doesn't gets HER way/loses an arguement/didn't get what she wanted/on her period/ETC. What do men think of women who get emotional/cries easily over simple (sometimes stupid)things????

2007-12-16 06:09:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but what would you do? i'm 19 and shes like 21. Female friend by the way.

2007-12-16 06:09:12 · 25 answers · asked by Emm H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I tell him that miracles happen and wishes DO come true, but this particular one is not going to happen. His father and I have been divorced for four years. I'm remarried to a wonderful man (who my son adores truly) and his father is dating a great woman who loves him too. Still, all children wish they parents would get back together...so they will have EVERYONE they love in their lives daily. I know that. Some suggestions as to what to say to a little nine year old so he still believes in wishes, miracles and prayers...granted.

2007-12-16 06:06:01 · 6 answers · asked by Beach Girl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

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0K! I FEEL AWFUL& i KNOW i SH0ULD! bUT EVERyB0DY MAKES MISTAKES, BUT THIS I FEEL IS N0T 0NE, i T0LD BY BF AND HE HATES ME MY BEST FRiEND ISNT TALKKING T0 ME!
BUT iM IN L0VE! iM A CHEATER, I CHEATED 0N S0ME0NE I CARE AB0UT. but this is the love of my life, its wrong and i realize tht, but this is how it happened, i mean imagine urself in my shoes!
Am i a bitchh for following my heart? Would u have done the same thing? askk urself tht before u go and judge me. i feel rlly bad about this whole thingg, but seriously, what would u have done??

2007-12-16 06:03:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating