Is my mom a drunk?

Question

Okay, so my mom throws parties all the time. She literally thinks she is 18. It ticks me off and I hate coming home to her being so S*it faced from the night before.

i honestly like don't know how to deal with it!

Answer 1

Yes she is a drunk. Apparently your mother doesn't have her priortities straight, she seems to forgotten that she is a mother, sounds like the only way your mother thinks she will have friends is by throwing them party and being drunk along with them, I wonder if your mother didn't throw parties how many friends she would actually have.
Try talking to her maybe she will realize that you even exist, learn from your mother's mistakes.
Happy Holidays.

Answer 2

First of all you are not responsible for your Mom's drinking that is her problem she has created but never think she does not love you she does.

I know kids think their parents are suppose to have it together but they are not perfect nobody has perfect parents that is only a dream.

Your Mom may not know how you feel about this tell her she may not see you struggling with this. Tell her if she continues you will be going to alanon meetings to learn how to deal with her problem.

When you Mom is drinking back off sometimes when people are drunk they will say things they do not mean and she might hurt your feelings and not remember it and no that is not OK.

All I am saying is don't provoke her when she is drinking keep your distance and limit your conversation with her and if you do talk to her don't discuss anything of importance with her when she is drinking.

She will be sober soon that would be the time to let her know how you are feeling about it.

If you cannot tell her in person write it all down take your time and describe how you feel and what you want to see happen to make this right with you. Give the letter to you Mom and leave let her read it and mull it over.

My theory in life is you don't get if you don't ask what have you got to lose?

Answer 3

You should tell your mother she should assume her roll as a mom and stop acting so irresponsibly.
She's not 18 and she should be serious and act her own age. That's not even the problem, the problem is that she should make an image of what a mother is like with her daughter and act according to that image.
It's not right that you see your mother drunk, you're supposed to have a respectful image of your mother.

Answer 4

Yes, your mom sounds like an alcoholic. See if there is an Al-ateen group you could join. You could use some help. Good luck!

Answer 5

Yeah sounds like your mom cares about fun and alcohol more than you. You should talk to her and tell her that you don't like it other wise that's kinda bad that she drinks all the time.

Answer 6

it sounds like my sister in law where is your other parent in all this she is a grown adult and im not sure what you can do but talk to a member of your extended family like a grandma or aunt or uncle to talk to her or a pastor tell your mom how you feel

Answer 7

yeah u need 2 sit her down & have a chat with her, she may be trying to hang on to her youth but that shouldnt be put around you kids everyday, just try and approach the subject gently, gd luck!

Answer 8

lexi talk to her but you have to know that you are responsible for your life and no one else
so your mom is responsible for her life....if she do not want to change she would not do

Answer 9

well....i am sorry about thiss....it is really sad...but maybe when she acutually talks to u in the mornng start acting like a stupid...maybe it will help byee

Answer 10

tell someone you know and you can trust and thet could get your mum some help.