Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

I am 17 and my boyfriend is 16 almost 17. We've been together for 6 and a half months and we've gotten in some trouble at school together and now his parents dont like me. Can they press charges on me and get me put in jail?
Help Me PLZ!!!

2007-12-16 08:02:00 · 5 answers · asked by Cris 2 in Singles & Dating

he feels it is ok for him to be very close, too close with female counterparts but doesn't want me to have any opposite sex friends

2007-12-16 08:01:33 · 18 answers · asked by Lil Miss Miracle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, this is a very weird question, oh well...

Okay, do you think it is possible that a girl (in my case) could ask me out and I say no but it turns out that they're the "one" as they call it.

So for 80 more crappy years in your life your alone, have 157 cats, and work at a cheap fast-food resterant.

If you don't understand this question (hopefully not) then dont bother answering.

2007-12-16 08:00:45 · 11 answers · asked by Blacklisted. 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean if you and your best guy friend get on the topic of talking about what type of people you like, and he describes two different girls, one of which is his girlfriends decription, and one that sounds like you. And later, he says something that goes along the lines of but the other person is who I usually fall for, and when you question, he says, "nevermind. You'll understand eventually." What up?

2007-12-16 07:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 07:59:16 · 13 answers · asked by badcops2hell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think does he like me???
he blows in my ear (softly) he said"i like you and you make me laugh" like it was a joke. I saw him check me out more than once on the side of my eye. Sometimes i catch him looking at me. he always wants me by him.it seems like he fakes laughs at my jokes. always asks me to do something with him during after school activities. If feels like he finds ways to touch me, like hug me (not in the wrong sense). One time (actually this happend twice) i would go somewhere and i'd look behind me and i'd see him following me.

2007-12-16 07:55:59 · 18 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 07:55:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife was in a relationship with another man while i was working. i thought me and this guy were friends but she had a three week relationship with him.now she wants a long distance relationship with him.i told my wife that id take the the kids and divorce her if she ever talked to him again.

2007-12-16 07:51:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

today,
when my mother and siblings were away from home ..
my dad keep talking with his telephone in the bedroom ..
i want to have bath .. then ,i went to my bedroom to take a towel .. when i'm in the bedroom i heard my dad talking with other women .. i heard my father said " honey , honey, i love you " .. he talked with a soft voice .. man im pissed... now, im the only one know my father is cheating on my mom .. what should i do ? if i tell my mother that my father is cheating on her .. my mother will do very dangerous think .. like killing herself ..

p/s sorry for my bad grammar , i'm just 14 years old and im a malaysian .. please help..

2007-12-16 07:51:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to move a school and i cant really explain why i just have this feeling that i NEED to move a school... my mom got covinsed a bit to let me go but not completely she has her mind set on 1 other school and thats it if i dont get in i stay in the school im in now... there are tests tommorow for a different school that my parents arent willing for me to take unless i give them a reason to why i should move from a school that they love with out even a reason to a school that they dont approve of ...

ehat do i tell them?

2007-12-16 07:51:33 · 5 answers · asked by avital f 2 in Family

I like to have a few glasses of wine each night with dinner. I work full time, take care of my husband, my children and a household and never miss a day of work. My husband told me he thinks I have a drinking problem. What do you think?

2007-12-16 07:50:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok there is this girl who I never really talked to and she never really talked to me talked to me that much, but she would flirt with me casually I think..I think she was flirting because one time I had to go in and ask about my graudation stuff and she was at the double doors when I came back out and she told me she would miss me if I left and I just said I had to go home please move, anyways now she has a boyfriend, and I have finally come to my nerve and told her online that I have liked her, remind you though we have been talking a few times online sinse then, but as soon as I told her I kind of liked her she never responded back sinse then..I tried getting ahold of her online and sending her messeges she reads then but does not respond...I duno what to do...I dont want to keep trying to get ahold of her if she really is not interested anymore.

2007-12-16 07:49:46 · 4 answers · asked by ssss 1 in Singles & Dating

Im trying to inpress this guy.And so What do boys like from girls.i Figured the best way to know.Is to ask other guy's ;)?

2007-12-16 07:45:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 07:45:26 · 17 answers · asked by edie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

bf and I have not been getting along and both agreed to a break. together for 6 yrs. He has always been above board with me and I do not feel this is an excuse to "cheat" we both realize that once we agree its over its over and want to be sure before a hasty decision. I have come to a desicion and would like us to get back together but he is not sure. I do not want to push and have not asked him for a time frame but would like to ask you guys out there how your thinking works, if ever been in the same situaiton and how long it took and how did it work out for you.

2007-12-16 07:42:16 · 7 answers · asked by Patty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this habit of cutting my hairs with my teeth. whenever i am thinking something or i am upset about anything i start playing with my hairs and start cutting them with my teeth. tell me something to get rid of it?

2007-12-16 07:42:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been together 4 yrs and engaged two of those years. Why would he get engaged if he wasn't happy? He bought a house next door soon after we got engaged and rented it out to a family he knows. They are heavy partyers and drinkers and he started hanging out there all the time. he doesn't want to do anything but stay there for over a yr. He doesn't do anything around HIS house. I asked why. He said it's because he doesn't care about this house anymore. I then asked why he is always next door. He said it's because he's done and hasn't been happy with me since we've been together. I am very hurt and have alot of questions. Like why did he get engaged in the first place? Also, things got bad when THEY moved in next door. I asked him to go to couseling. He said no. He's done and I don't get that it's over and couseling won't help because there is nothing there anymore and he doesn't want to talk. He then left to go next door and then came home soon after. Why did we get enaged then?

2007-12-16 07:40:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in the past it has got to him choking me but the last time i told him if he ever put his hands on me. no more i now it i a simple push but i that enough i am emotionally on a rollercoaster what makes it a bit hard is we are a very happy loving family we are great for about 6 months then we just get into an arguement that turns physical it seems to ba a pattern to were i lose respect for him and and gets difficult to look at him how do you look at him the same i guess you can say im just dumb pathetic this shouldnt even be an issue but i make it one help!!!!!!

2007-12-16 07:40:30 · 14 answers · asked by pom pom 1 in Family

2007-12-16 07:39:02 · 18 answers · asked by Kasha 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my mom do not share a very great relationship. Her and my sister are really close. I feel really really left out. Whenever me and my sister get in an arguement she always supports my sister even if i am the one that is right. This morning me and her got in a really huge fight and she has decided that she wants me to move with my brother to a different city. Does she not love me? Is that why she wants me to leave her and my sister alone. It hurts me to know that my mom is tired of me and doesn't want me to be around her anymore. I just want to be able to have a better relationship with her and my sister but it seems like they don't want me to be a part of them.How can i do this?

2007-12-16 07:37:36 · 11 answers · asked by bubbalicoius 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hundreds of women, getting them drunk and then sleeping with them. I don't throw it in his face but how would you deal with it, being a woman and everything. Its kind of unnerving. Looking back I know he suffered from antisocial personality disorder but its till hard to reconcile, especially since the women were young. I know that my calling is to be a loving, and supportive wife but how do you handle it, especially since he has little respect for women still and basically used them just because he thought it was his right. How do I deal ?

2007-12-16 07:37:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

From what I gather she is not happy in her marriage and every time I see her she is so flirty. She wants to go to the pool next weekend and sit in the spa.

2007-12-16 07:35:35 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need to know as soon as possible! i'm in an argument with my friend about it, don't worry we're not really mad at each other. i think its "you're welcome" please tell me i'm right!!!

2007-12-16 07:35:25 · 21 answers · asked by Amiqua 2 in Friends

are in their 20's...and have two small children to consider....is SEVERELY BRAIN DAMAGED....he does not know who she is...etc.,....NOW I FEEL she should not have to stay with him...it is CAUSING HER DEPRESSION AND he is NOT a HUSBAND anymore...(but you know how people WILL JUDG E HER FOR LEAVING HIM AND PUTTING HIM IN A HOME)...cuz you know how some people are...She went to several counselors...and each one told her she will have to WHITE LIE in order to NOT be judged by them...such as say when asked only..'HE WAS IN A FATAL ACCIDENT...AND if they ask anything else...which they will do....just say..."i do not want to talk about this...it is NOT good for me to re-LIVE IT...Now remember ..WE ARE NOT IN HER SHOES AND WOUld never want to be...I have seen him so i can understand...I feel that is alright to say...because it was fatal to his brain...(the children are afraid of him)..with good reason...

2007-12-16 07:34:39 · 3 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

just curious...thanks

2007-12-16 07:33:14 · 19 answers · asked by HRHGavin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up on monday, and he treated me sooo bad, lied, did drugs, went behind my back didnt give a damn about my feelings throughout the relationship when i did everything for him ! and i just feel so much hate towards him..... I feel like sending him a txt message saying I hate him for the way he treated me, i havent called or talked to him since monday nor did he try to talk to me. . . i just want to say it so bad, but at the same time ppl are telling me not to do anything.... what do u think?

2007-12-16 07:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you put the characteristics you look for in a girl in the order of most importance? Thanks a bunch!

2007-12-16 07:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for a year and half. He loves me to bits but since we've been together I feel like I am our "life manager" and I am often frustrated (we talk abou this all the time). We have struggled a little financially because of a fairly heavy debt he brought into the relationship and sometimes I feel like I was happier living independently. We are now trying to have kids but there's something in my gut telling me that I shouldn't have kids with him. If I choose not to I will be jeopordizing our marriage and that breaks my heart. Should I trust my intuition?

2007-12-16 07:28:32 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And through the conversation that ensued, I learned that none of my friends are as put off by the idea of sex as I am. We're all about the same age, in yr9.
Further more, while I don't like the thought of sex, tonguing, &c.
I'm extremely fond of the idea of hugs, (literally) sleeping together and just touch in general... regardless of gender. Is that abnormal?

2007-12-16 07:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by m.sange 2 in Singles & Dating

These are the things my husband has done to me since we have been together the past 8 years, we now have two kids:

Ran up my phone bill w/phone sex numbers
Used his account for online sex websites
Got drunk on multiple, multiple occasions (he's an alcoholic)
stole money from me - used my credit cards-signed my name (ruined our credit)
forged checks - signing my name
got drunk - and pushed me down at my high school reunion
spent all our spending money right before we left on vacation
spent all our money right before Christmas
pawned my b-day presents
pawned our possessions for money to buy things he doesn't have the need for

Convinced me after all of this that he still has respect for me and loves me and wants to be with me..

He is bi-polar, has been in recovery for alcohol over a year. On medications to control OCD... Is on Disability due to his bi-polar (he was diagnosed with this after we got married).

Am I wrong for having feelings of not wanting to live like this anymore?

2007-12-16 07:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce