Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

Ok, so the other day my stupid retard friend came over and he had a condom that he said he found in his parents room, so he opened it and started acting stupid like putting it on his arm and stiff. Then I was yelling at him and telling him to put it somewhere before my parents came in and saw it and he put the condom and the wrapper in this little drawer thing i have. I kinda forgot about it. So then, the other day i opened my drawr and it fell out and my dad walked in and was talking to me but he stayed outside the door and then he kinda looked at the floor and made a weird face and walked out. Do you think he saw that? The wrapper was face down so the title wasnt showing. Grrr, if he brings it up what should I say? Maybe i Should get some clear plastic wrap and put it where the condom was and get a tootsie pop wrapper and put it upside down where the wrapper is and get him to come in my room and if he looks at it again he will just realize its plastic wrap and a tootsie pop wrapper.

2007-12-16 07:23:44 · 14 answers · asked by Nick Says Relax. DONT DO IT. 2 in Family

If you did was the other person married or single?

2007-12-16 07:21:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been best friends with this guy for 2-3 years now, so how do I say 'You have played too much Elder Scrolls 4:Oblivion and haven't been hanging around me since you got it, so I don't want to be your friend anymore'?

2007-12-16 07:20:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Grandma and mom say shes too young to be marrying the fiance
The wife a year ago divorced a 20 year old who got another woman pregnant after she supported him for two years
Her new 60 year old fiance has just bought them a house to live in once they are married
He said he will stand by her until he dies
Mom and grandma says she needs to be with someone about her own age.
They say they will try to get a restraining order against him if he tries to marry their daughter and granddaughter
I say, the daughter is an adult and she deserves to try to have happiness. Age has nothing to do with it.
Grandma and mom says he will die soom
I say, if she has found happiness let them live together in marriage as long as either can live
The sixty year old has never married. He wants children. So does she/
Grandma and mom says im stupid and their child and grandchild is much too young for that man
Isaid do you have aman They said no.
I said nothing.

2007-12-16 07:19:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 07:16:48 · 15 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

girl meets a boy on a messenger


crazy1 86: hey baby!!!


h0tNsPiCy91: who is this???


crazy1 86: ur secret admirer!!!!!


h0tNsPiCy91: oh really.... quit lyin! who is this???


crazy1 86: i loved u the first time a stared in your eyes...


crazy1 86: i think about u everyday... you are my dream come true.


crazy1 86: we met once! i dont think u remember tho.


crazy1 86: i cut myself because the pain takes away my feelings of u.


crazy1 86: u will see me sometime tonight....


h0tNsPiCy91: ..WHO IS THIS!?!?!?


crazy1 86:dont worry.... ill take very good care of you...


crazy1 86 had signed off.

The girl was so scared she locked all her doors and windows. She made sure her room was secured. She wasn't sure if it was a joke or for real. She didn't know when he was going to come. The girl was so frightened she decided to sleep with her little sister. The girl dozed off quickly.

Then she heard a knock on the window. The girl slowly walked to the window. It started knocking louder. The girl looked through the windows and saw nothing... just some of the tree branches. The girl went back to bed with her sister. The bed was wet and had a pretty horrid smell. Maybe her sister wet the bed... the girl checked and found blood everywhere. The girl panicked. She didn't know what to do. She ran and hid in the closet in case the killer was there for her. While looking through the cracks of the closet the girl saw a shadow. It was dark, so she couldn't figure out who it was. She started to get more frightened. The shadow crept closer to the closet. The girl closed her eyes as if it was a dream. Then suddenly he opened the closet door and pulled her out.

Her parents found her dead the next morning. She was completely skinned and hanging in her sister's closet. The younger sister was also found skinned and dead.

PART 2...

Two years after the Smith sisters deaths, the parents had a baby boy. The girl's room became a guest room and the little sister's room where the murder took place became the baby's room. The baby grew up to be a successful kid.

One night he was on the computer and received an instant message.


h0tNsPiCy91: Hey lil bro!!!


2seXay4u: Who the eff is this?


h0tNsPiCy91: It's your big sis.


2seXay4u: I never had a sister. I'm an only child.


2seXay4u: This is some kinda joke, huh?


h0tNsPiCy91: Mom and dad never told you?


h0tNsPiCy91: I died 15 years ago with your other older sister.


h0tNsPiCy91: We were murdered in your room which was once my little sister's room. She was killed in bed when I was sleeping. I was killed in the closet and skinned to death.


2seXay4u: Quit lying. I never had a sister. If I did my parents would have told me. Whatever. Your stupid.


h0tNsPiCy91: You don't believe me? Well if you wanna look in your closet floor.


h0tNsPiCy91: I carved my name and the time and date I was being murdered. Then I carved my little sister's name.


h0tNsPiCy91: If you don't believe me little brother check the internet. Google on ''Smith sisters murdered anonymously''.


h0tNsPiCy91: I gtg little brother. I love you and mom and dad soo much. I can't believe they kept us a secret from you.



The boy checked the closet. He saw the carvings. Was it true? He surfed the internet and information was there about the anonymous murder in the house. The next morning the boy went downstairs. It was so quiet. Maybe his parents were sleeping. Hours later the boy found
parents in their closet skinned and hanged. Then he found more carvings on the ground. They said ''I TOLD YOU I WASN'T LYING LITTLE BROTHER, I LOVED MOM AND DAD.... BUT THEY KEPT ME A SECRET. I CAN'T BELIEVE IT. WELL I'M FREE FROM THIS COLD WORLD, I WON'T HURT YOU LIKE I HURT THEM. I LOVE YOU!"

-lisa smith
This is a death chain letter. If you don't repost this in the next hour, the parents will kill you at night. They will kill you!

DON'T BELIEVE ME? LOOK IT UP IN GOOGLE!

2007-12-16 07:14:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i use to live and work on my own. i suddenly got ill and i had to move in with my parents. i knew that it was going to be hard. we have different personalities. well my mom had surgery . i had to cook,clean , wash clothes, buy groceries. i had a lot of responsiblity. sometimes i didn't even feel well. now im better and im starting to look for work so that i can move out of here. here's the problem- this happened this sunday and last sunday. there has never been a problem with me baking frozen rolls. all of a sudden there is. my mom will say watch your rolls they are ready. she was standing right in front of the oven. the same thing happened to today. i got mad. i ignored her. i forced her to get the rolls out. again, she was standing at the oven. also, i have learned how to make good broccoli cassorole. my dad asked me about 3 weeks ago to make some for a function. she has had an attitude since. what's the problem?

2007-12-16 07:11:48 · 4 answers · asked by intelligent80000 5 in Family

okay so like i have lots of friends and every thing but they are just friends. i liked this guy and he made me laugh and i sometimes helped him if he didn't get the homework. then about 2 weeks after i started liking him he started to date my best friend. they are broken up now but i am scared it will just keep happening. i need help on how to get people to notice me!

2007-12-16 07:11:16 · 5 answers · asked by xxxKatiegirlxxx 1 in Singles & Dating

what was the final straw?was it a difficult decision? how did you tell the people close to you? how did you break the news to your kids?do you regret your decision?

2007-12-16 07:07:32 · 16 answers · asked by boohoo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 07:06:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm moving in with my fiancé and I want to be that perfect girl. You know the girl that every guy wishes his girlfriend/fiancé/wife would be. I already love football and every other sport for that fact, I let him go out whenever he wants with the guys no questions asked, I don’t ever call to just "see what he is doing" you know the suspicious call.... our love life is good. I try to always look good for him. Is there something I’m missing? And what would your perfect girl be?

2007-12-16 07:05:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A GUY MAKES A GIRL JEALOUS WHEN..............
he made her jealous
on purpose he tried.
When the girl asked, "Do you love me?"
on purpose he lied.
He played with jealousy
like it was a game.
Little did he know
Things would never be the same.
His plan was working
but he had no clue.
How wrong things would go,
the damage he would do.
One night she broke down,
feeling very
alone.
Just her and the blade,
no one else home.
She dialed his number
he answered, "Hello"
She told him she loved him
and hung up the phone.
He raced to her
house
just a minute too late.
Found her lying in blood,
her heart had no rate.
Beside her was a note,
in it her confession.
Her love for this boy,
her only obsession.
As he read the note,
he knelt down and cried.
Grabbed her knife,
that night they both died.
She was found in his arms
both of them dead.
Under her
note
his handwriting said:
"I loved her
so, she never knew.
All this time
I loved her
too."

*sobs quietly*

2007-12-16 07:05:07 · 44 answers · asked by ☮NeonZebra♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Lets say they met at work, and became friends there and started going out to lunch together/dinner/movies what not.... and he did introduce u to her but still hung out w her alone. . . and swore there was nothing between them but friendship

2007-12-16 07:03:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, I want a fall wedding with a vintage, shabby chic, southern flair. I live in Southern California and while we do have the best weather on earth I don't know how to achieve this type of wedding here. I am all for a destination wedding as I have family all over the US. In my mind I visualize a large plantation home on a lot of property...very private and beautiful. Any ideas????

2007-12-16 07:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by Charlotte J 2 in Weddings

My boyfriends ex girlfriend still calls him 'just to talk'. The thing is she got a restraining order on him until shes 18. Shes 17 now. He has already went to JDC for talking to her, but she still continues to call. Im getting really annoyed with it. Is there anything I can do?


and he cant really not answer his phone when she calls. She calls from a blocked number, but so does his grandparents and his work. And telling her to stop isnt doing much either.


Im just really annoyed with it.

2007-12-16 07:01:07 · 19 answers · asked by Baby is finally here!! 5 in Singles & Dating

A while ago, we had a school dance, and i asked ''the new girl'' that moved here a half year ago, for a dance. But she said she was too shy, so she did'nt want to right now. That's bad. But some of the other girls encouraged her to ask me later. So she did, but the dance was a failure! That's even worse! A while after the dance, we both smiled at eachother, but nowadays she looks a bit sad, she always uses to smile:(
I've heard from some other girls that she likes me, did she get sad because of the dance? I like her too, but now im not sure if i have the guts to ask her out later? Do you have any meanings or solutions too this problem?

2007-12-16 06:58:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what type of person am i? how old am i? what assumptions can you make?

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2007-12-16 06:56:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to hear from someone at the end of the day?

2007-12-16 06:55:34 · 26 answers · asked by holy moses 3 in Friends

Bascily, got married at 20, been married for about a year and a half and have had sex maybe 10 times. When we first met we had sex all the time, and then we had a preggers scare.. sex slowly has died down and like now its been at least three months. It's certainly not because I'm not horney, but when it comes to my hubby, maybe the sparks are just gone? I'd rather do it with anyone else. Its just not as exciting or i dono.. now I am finding more and more I am putting myself in compromizing situations with guys.. tempting myself, more and more without a reason not to go through with it.. I know that sounds terrible, but I am a good looken 21 year old who feels like I am wasting away some of the best times of my life. Dont get my wrong, I love my husband, hes deff like my best friend. But I feel like we've become room mates. And the passion is gone. Like theres nothing, if you met us 2 years ago we couldnt keep our hands off each other in public, now we dont even hold hands.. help

2007-12-16 06:53:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The other day a very attractive woman(Great figure, great butt) asked me on a date. On the date, I made a point of thanking her 3-4 different times for asking me out. I had never ever been asked out by a girl with even half of her looks before. I was talking to a friend about the date and she said that I should not thank her that many times for her asking me out. She said that it makes it look like I am afraid to ask her out and that is not attractive to women in her opinion.

2007-12-16 06:53:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it weird that i get upset everytime my boyfriend and i get something and he immediatly has to share it with his mom? like everything, we got a dog and he brought the dog over to her before he showed me. we got a wood stove, and she came over while i was at school. i feel like by her being involved in everything first, that i will be always be second to her. i don't have a chance to enjoy things or be excited about things because "we" cannot enjoy it together. it's always been enjoyed with her first and me second.

2007-12-16 06:52:56 · 3 answers · asked by jamaican me crazy 3 in Family

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2007-12-16 06:52:33 · 3 answers · asked by sk8jew 3 in Singles & Dating

for 20 yrs, but we still are friends with his x and have very good relationships with his 3 adult children. Do we send each child a sympathy card or do we send just one to the oldest, but address all three in the card. The 3 children are all very close.

2007-12-16 06:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by Michael S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you can afford a diamond and like them, why is considered vain to want one. Why is it bad to say, you would not settle for anything less?

I often see questions on here debating diamond vs CZ. If someone says, " I only want the real thing" They get a thumbs down.

Why? To me, if you are getting married for the right reason and can afford a diamond, then what's making you vain?

Does anyone thing asking for a diamond isn't so bad or vain?

2007-12-16 06:48:36 · 33 answers · asked by J'adore 4 in Weddings

2007-12-16 06:48:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been going out for a month and 2 weeks
but he is always so "busy"as he might say.i leave him messages on myspace,telling how much i love him.but he just reads them and stays on for another hour or so just ignoring it.i wrote a extreamly long message that took me about an hour to write about we really need to hangout.he just read and ignored it.he signed on later on and didnt reply.he goes to church whenever he can,but never invites me to go.i call him and he doesnt know what to talk about.he was going to ask me out halloween night.but i couldnt go.which now that i think of it i shoulda gone cause it wouldve made it better.he doesnt invite me anywhere.and when i try to he says hes busy.hes always busy.he hasnt said he loved me in a week :[.i dont want to hurt him and i really love him with all my heart.but i am confused about him.im afraid theres someone else.so should i?
i am so confused right now.

2007-12-16 06:46:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my best friend were really close a couple of months ago but recentley we've begun to drift apart and barely have anything to talk about.

My best friend has another best friend aswell and lately they seem closer than me and my friend and I feel really jealous of the other girl and have started to hate her.

I'm staying over at my best friends house soon so I'm hoping that will bring us closer but what can I do to stop being so jealous of them? What can I do to prevent me losing my best friend? =(

I don't want to lose her, but i'm worried that she'll become closer with the other girl and not want me as much. Help!

2007-12-16 06:46:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have come through a good many things in my life, mother being beaten by father fequenly, Molestation when I was 4to5,fathers sucide when I was 11, raped when I was 18 aunts sucide when I was 19. Divorse and remarriage within 2 weeks of each other when I was 28. Every time I think Ive got my head on straight something else happens to make have to start with the therapy and the "growth cycle" all over again. The latest in my cycle is another possible divorse because of yet another growth cycle. Which included not wanting to drink at my problems or smoke pot with my husband any more. Ive used with my husband far to long and I want to live again. I took snow board lessons this week (had ablast) got a tatoo( shocking to the whole family) been snow shoeing. All without my husband and he is very resentfull and I dont know what to do. I did invite him. I failed once in a marriage and I am beginning to think Im just not cut out for it. I'm 47 been married 18 years this time 8 last time.

2007-12-16 06:45:41 · 12 answers · asked by wrknprgsat47 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl's voice becomes louder when you pass nearby and if she seems irritated everytime you talk to some other girl , does it mean that she loves you ?

2007-12-16 06:45:21 · 16 answers · asked by Thankful 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I apologise for asking this question, but my partner is 44 and up until recently, whenever we had sex would always last for at least an hour before climaxing. The same goes for whenever I gave him oral sex. We split up for a while and didn't have sex, but have recently got back together (after a months' break) and have had sex about 4 times since then (it's been once a week because we've both been busy). Anyway since we started sleeping together again he's only been 'lasting' around 15 minutes. This is actual intercourse, although there has been quite a bit of foreplay (rubbing, touching etc) beforehand lasting about 15-30 minutes. He's embarrassed by what he percieves as him coming quickly whereas I'm not bothered, but is there anything he can do to get back his 'sexual stamina', and what has caused him to suddenly start coming more quickly?

2007-12-16 06:45:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships