Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

my husbad is the only son, his mother is 64 years old and they have always lived together, now 2 years ago we got married he was 33 then i was 21, anyway his mother has been living with us in our apartment, i knew she would live with us but I never tought she would affect my marriage this bad!she pretends shes the one who rules there, like shes OUR mother and tells her son what to do and gets in his business ohhh... I hate her so much! she calls her friends and tell them about our life etc. she gets in our arguments its horribe! she even has come to tell him to choose between her or me! and I feel so sad inside beacuse to him she is everything for him and I feel like he prefers her! she doesnt work so she stays everyday home watching tv and i cant even change the channel, i have to go in my room and watch it there, sometimes I dont even want to come ou from my room as long as i dont have too see her! his is not life!But i love him! what can i do to make her leave us alone!

2007-12-16 05:28:48 · 26 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do???

2007-12-16 05:26:54 · 8 answers · asked by spill my heart 4 u 2 in Singles & Dating

would you hold the door open for her?
would you NEVER cheat?
would you be incredibly romantic?
would you pull the chair out for her?
would you protect her?

be honest. are there any really good guys left out there?!

2007-12-16 05:22:15 · 26 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend doesnt use the phone to talk to anyone because she always freezes and has anything to say....(light the deer in the headlights effect) but for me on the other hand i can use the phone...just recently we used the phone for 3 hours with me setting the tone...on the other hand when we talk in person...i have nothing to say but she always does...its pretty weird.....will this work out in the long run...we've been going out for little more than a year already......

2007-12-16 05:14:07 · 3 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night some friends and I were drinking. My friend, we'll call him Bobby, and I were getting a little touchy feely. We were all on the couch and he was reaching underneath my shirt. I didn't say no, and I didn't try to move his hand or anything. Well he has a girlfriend, she wasn't at the party. As soon as everyone fell asleep we went into the bedroom and had sex. He left shortly after that, I'm sure he feels guilty. As do I because I know his girlfriend and she's a sweet girl.

Well I don't know what to do. Should I tell her?
Should I wait until he tells her, if he even does?

I think things are going to be awkward from here after, because Bobby and Jane live together. I see them constantly and I really just don't know what to do. I need advice.

2007-12-16 05:06:48 · 16 answers · asked by optimistic jeskka; 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a little offended by my male friend in work. I emailed him and asked if he fancyed meeting up after the works do which he didnt reply to and i texted him in the evening which he didnt reply to. Weve been friends a while but every time in an email i suggest do u want to do anything out side of work he answers everything else part from that. He asked me over his flat which i went and we go to lunch why is he like that. Is he one of those people. Hes very worksworthy and takes his job serious

2007-12-16 05:03:30 · 14 answers · asked by shelley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok... That's a guy that likes me and he isn't not my type. Really, I always said that he's really ugly at beauty, but very good person. However that last aspect woudn't change anything cause I never would date an ugly guy.
I really like talk with him and he says me many times that he's in love with me and ask me to be her gf. I always say no and that i like other guy.
But yesterday, I felt sad, while talking with him cause we were remember that he will go to U.S.A. at August.
Weeks ago, he said me that if I would be her gf, that he would wait for me in U.S.A. to would marry with me. But, i think I can't date him cause he doesn't attract me. Secondly, I stay jealous if his heart would be belong to other woman.
My question: Am I starting beeing in love with him or Am I just have a possesssive attitude?!
Help please, but not be rude, ok?!

2007-12-16 05:00:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I kind of like on a website. we don't know each other but we keep checking each other's profile all the time(it's been 2 weeks and @ least twice a day we check each other's profile). She sent me a mail which I can't open unless I subscribe. I'm broke and out of love right now, should I subscribe to the website?

2007-12-16 04:59:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 04:58:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is really loud when she is drunk but she is good fun and I enjoy going out with her as we always have a brill night. But she flirts with men and dances quite sexy, and gives the men sexy looks etc, she has a boyfriend of 8yrs and has never acted on any of the attention she gets but do you think she is a bit of a slapper? She drinks a lot and seems to have the power to last all night drinking.

2007-12-16 04:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by lazycat 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a couple of months. He's 15. I don't know what to get him. I already got him Oceans 13 on DVD, cause I know he loves it and we saw it together. But I want to get him something else too. Something sweet, but not too sentimental. Cause he's rather "macho" and doesn't really like to show his sentimental side much. But I just want to get him something sweet that would show him how much I love him.

My budget is under 50 bucks, and I need to be able to get it at the mall, like at department stores or something, or Target. Common stores that are around most places.

2007-12-16 04:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Man at age 61 is more rare than woman.
What do you think

2007-12-16 04:51:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really dont get it. In England I know people who, at the age of 14, are drinking,smoking and having sex. People who at 15 have wild party's with alchaole and have boyfriends or girlfriends...

I'm 16. I don't get drunk, go out late at night or anything. Dont get me wrong I'm not some freak who stays at home I like going to cinemas, inviting people round and play video games and stuff but I feel Getting drunk, going out late in the night and having wild party's are for 19 year old +. Am I right? What are your views?

2007-12-16 04:48:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do guys put there size down all the time?
even if you tell them that they are big and that they satisfy you they still want it to be bigger.
WHY!

2007-12-16 04:45:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually being in a proper relationship with them?

I hear so many definitions...help me!
xx

2007-12-16 04:44:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have been in a relationship for 4 yrs. & were both loving & affectionate with each other & then all of a sudden the man says he wants out of the relationship because you are always fighting about his alcohol addiction can things ever be worked out? If he decides that he still loves you but, is no longer in-love with you can those feelings be turned around? Do men sometimes use those words just to get at you? My ex told me the same thing a few months ago when we split for a few days & then came back to me & said he didn't really mean it-he was just angry & I forgave him. This time though he has been gone for 2 mths. but, still uses things (picking up belongings,financial business,etc.) to stay in contact with me instead of just making a clean break.Do we have a future or am I just wasting my time. I still love him very much.

2007-12-16 04:42:13 · 6 answers · asked by Mary B 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 04:41:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I have a crush on, who has a BF in a diff city, but flirted with me heavily in the beginning- had an innocent mischevious way of talking & she even asked me to have drinks/dinner with her (in return for my help with career advice). But then she turned cold, I contacted her and asked her to dinner, but she didn't even reply to my email. I confronted her a week later, and basically told her that I was at least expecting a reply, ignored her for 2 weeks. Then, she asked me to dinner, and I refused thinking she's just playing games. Since then, she has been visibly jealous when she sees me dancing with other girls at parties, but this one time, she asked me to dance with her, we got very sensual on the dance flr and she said "I want to get to know you". But at dinner the next day, she starts talking about her BF and acted aloof. I got sick of it & didn't contact her, but she called me again after months and again, mixed signals. Why is a girl with BF sending mixed signs?

2007-12-16 04:41:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does it mean?

2007-12-16 04:41:11 · 9 answers · asked by Jodie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do they grow out of it? Is it just a phase?

2007-12-16 04:36:13 · 38 answers · asked by hannah.lydia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

At the xmas party my boss made a move on me, its was akward we were both drunk and I guess I was been a bit of a lush, but why would he think it would be a good move to make??!!

2007-12-16 04:33:06 · 18 answers · asked by lazycat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she is gonna be my sister in-law we're not close and the only reason I asked her was because we wanted her daughter as a bridesmaid. She has been the only one being difficult about it I asked her what she would like and it looked alot like my hairstyle the other bridesmaids agreed and said they didn't like her idea. What should I do please help

2007-12-16 04:31:44 · 32 answers · asked by Jayzee87 2 in Weddings

My best friend and i started to drift apart last spring. We would always get in fights about her boyfriends and how she was treating me. I felt like she was ignoring me and she wouldn't even talk about her guy w/ me anymore. I was the one who always ended up apoligizing during these fights so we could be good again. But things just kept getting worse, she lied to be many times about hanging out with her guy when we had plans. We started to drift away from eachother. I still tried to be there for her when her grandpa died, but she ignored my calls and texts. I thought she picked her guy to talk about it with. Then recently this winter she sent me a message asking me where was i all this time. She blamed me for not being there for her and that she was depressed all summer and cried herself to sleep, but she also said she forgave me.That made me mad that she didn't see how much i tried. I still love her lots and don't want to lose her but i can't take the fact she always blames me.

2007-12-16 04:29:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, my BFF Kim and Ashley took these, so the pics mite look lopsided or something! O and in the one with two girls, i am the one on the left! Please tell me if i am pretty?!

2007-12-16 04:28:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy. then break up with him and have your feelings go away for reasons outside the relationship. Then later on agree with the guy to work on building it back up and actually have it work?
Or do you think this could actually work if both people agree to it and want to?

2007-12-16 04:26:39 · 15 answers · asked by Baseballer 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up over the summer and had our ups and downs but still good friends. i dont no what to get him for chirstmas...i want to get him somthing that says ii appricate u as mah friend or something that doesnt say ii love you...any ideas?

2007-12-16 04:22:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it right or wrong? Can it affect the children?

2007-12-16 04:20:03 · 30 answers · asked by hannah.lydia 1 in Family

I'm sure I nag a little, but suddenly my husband has stopped talking with me. Just giving one word answers...No hugs or kisses...and when sleeping will not hug/hold me. Maybe he doesn't really love me?? Just married about 3 months. BUT he calls me all the time to check on me...but in person he says nothing.I m hurting.

2007-12-16 04:17:36 · 12 answers · asked by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean what do they feel when they play with them.

2007-12-16 04:14:56 · 17 answers · asked by LA 2 in Singles & Dating

to have people liking you when in fact they like you for who you are not yourself...like not being yourself?i found it hard to please people and they seem to be disliked me for many reasons now i don't bother myself with people liking us...but then we would be very friendless and lonely..do you this is a good thing?how would we know when someone is really genuine to us?

2007-12-16 04:14:38 · 6 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Friends