Ok... That's a guy that likes me and he isn't not my type. Really, I always said that he's really ugly at beauty, but very good person. However that last aspect woudn't change anything cause I never would date an ugly guy.
I really like talk with him and he says me many times that he's in love with me and ask me to be her gf. I always say no and that i like other guy.
But yesterday, I felt sad, while talking with him cause we were remember that he will go to U.S.A. at August.
Weeks ago, he said me that if I would be her gf, that he would wait for me in U.S.A. to would marry with me. But, i think I can't date him cause he doesn't attract me. Secondly, I stay jealous if his heart would be belong to other woman.
My question: Am I starting beeing in love with him or Am I just have a possesssive attitude?!
Help please, but not be rude, ok?!
2007-12-16 05:00:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S.: He's 36 years old.
I'm just 23 years old.
2007-12-16 05:05:50 · update #1
You won't find a guy like him.
NOONE'S PERFECT.
For example, you hate ugly guys.
And for example, your friend that likes you loves you too much.
See, nothing is perfect?
If you love him then go to him. If he doesn't attract you, then tell him to make himself look good..
Don't look at his FACE! Look at his HEART!
2007-12-16 05:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know what they say, who is ugly on the outside can really be beautiful on the inside. You really should give him a chance, and maybe you will like him. And if his looks just stand in the way of that, then maybe you are the one that should think if you should continue to have competing emotions. I would suggest that you tell him that he is a good friend and that maybe you are just not quite ready to be in a relationship.
Of course you are only 23, and maybe you also appreciate the good looks of people around your age. If someone of that type fits your description more than maybe that's where you you should look to for now. Maybe what it is you need to do is find your true feelings. From there you won't feel so confused. But in the end, what you should go for is true happiness.
2007-12-16 05:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Alex R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and I have something in common. You said "I never would date an ugly guy.", and I would never date a thoughtless, insensitive scuz like you. Cool!
First off, he's way too old. Are you so desperate that you will accept a marriage like this? If so, I will give your father 2 camels and 12 goats to you to be my woman.
Stop worrying about boys and worry more that you get educated as to what a woman should be in this day and age. Have some self-respect.
2007-12-16 06:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by geeksball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leonor betitti, To be honest the most important thing is a true and faithful heart ! After time looks fade but the heart can remain the same. Physical beauty is only skin deep ! A loving heart is eternal !!!
2007-12-16 05:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well beauty is only skin deep. As they say.
But love has no boundries. those who think ,the person isn't the right person. soon find they were.
And so who loses.
But then again, your being selfish, a little i think. I think your afraid he will find someone else.
And your afraid he won't love you any more. Thats what i think. I think your afraid to lose him.
Why not have sex with him, and get it over with. then you will know.
2007-12-16 05:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by jc7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for this guy...go for it! Looks mean nothing. Would you rather have a really good-looking guy who beats you and pulls your hair, or a not so good-looking guy who treats you with respect and does all that he can to make you happy? Ugly people need love too. I think you should give him a chance.
2007-12-16 05:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by imawierdy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's always nice to by physically attracted to someone but give this guy a chance. it sounds like he really likes you and it sounds like you might even like him too but you don't want to admit to yourself that you like an ugly guy. stop being shallow. he may seem ugly to you now but a good looking guy with a bad personality is going to be 10 times more ugly than an ugly guy with a great personality. give him a shot. you might even surprise yourself.
2007-12-16 05:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Smile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One. Not wanting to date an ugly guy is shallow.
&& If yoo like him that much yo oshould give it a go. H seems like a really nice romantic girl.
I think that mayeb you re being possesive 'coz you want him but can't admit it.
2007-12-16 05:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by Meggie. ^.^ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Date him first. REALLY get to know him better. The let your heart decide. Love don't take into account looks..
2007-12-16 05:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by jupiter_aridan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is outside doesn't matter always look a guy in the inside
peace out
2007-12-16 05:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by Alou Arsenal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋