Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

i can understand why you wouldnt want to offend people or influence children in any way...but i just asked a question about sex and people gave me such immature answers. and told me i was a sl*t and that I was tacky for wanting to have sex with my boyfriend!!! i dont understand we are in love with each other and its part of every relationship!

2007-12-16 02:23:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an agnostic, my daughter's father (we are divorced) is an atheist. He is dead-set against our daughter ever believing in any sort of higher power. As an agnostic, I'm pretty open-minded and don't mind our daughter at least being aware of what others believe.

That being said, my parents are Christian - my father a devout Catholic, my mother a converted Catholic who started out as a staunch Methodist. I respect their beliefs, but what to do when they're trying to force them on my daughter? Two Christmas gifts they've already given my daughter are a book about the Nativity and a Noah's Ark toy. This isn't the first time they've done something like this. And I know her father is going to insist they don't see her anymore, as they're telling her things in direct conflict with what he's telling her (there is no God, Jesus never existed, the Bible is a fairy tale, etc.)

Any suggestions as to how to handle the entire situation? Thank you all in advance.

2007-12-16 02:20:57 · 12 answers · asked by SquirrelGirlOH 4 in Family

Do you think that family has become too much of a gamble these days?

Today's society just seems like such a MESS and WRECK! Marriage and divorce is just out of control (People throw "divorce parties" for God sake!!) Marriage in general just seems obsolete. And not to be sexist, but from a guys point of view. Women seem very high risk. I heard that by age 40, 66% of women file for divorce out of no where. Not to mention female infideliy in general. If you read some of the studies on that. Mind blowing!
Added to that, cheating in general! people have become VERY black hearted when it comes to that! no one really cares.
And I don't believe in common law, cause that to me does NOT seems like a safer bet. You wanna a easy way out, why live together?!

So in general, the entire family/relationship, "love" thing. Is it just too much of a gamble you'll lose these days?

2007-12-16 02:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

gosh. im crying right now.
well, i am sick, like throwing up.
and today when i logged onto myspace, i got a message from my friend.
and it showed a conversation b/w her and my boyfriend.
they got into a fight, and my boyfriend called her a dumb*ss and a w*ore. this has happened more than once, and i really do not know what to do. we have been together for a little more than a month, and he has been the best boyfriend ever to me. he was the first guy to hold my hand, the first guy to french kiss me, ect. he is so sweet to me and most of my friends. but he really hates this girl, and he always calls her bad things. i do not like this, and i have told him to be nice to all my friends. i am so confused on whether i should break up with him or not. this is sooo not helping to my sickness, im crying so hard. please help me, what should i do??!! thank youuu.

2007-12-16 02:18:39 · 9 answers · asked by Jess. :] 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a right minger,don't know how to talk to women or impress them,I've been laughed at by girls all my life..my confidence is completely shot..I will never find a woman who I can completely trust..has anyone else said goodbye to romance?

2007-12-16 02:15:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 51 year old man and this offer is open to ladies only. It is at my flat and i consider myself a good cook, overnight accomadation available

2007-12-16 02:13:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 02:13:08 · 22 answers · asked by Jasmine ;) 4 in Singles & Dating

My friends turning 16 and i dunt no what to get her... i dont want to spend over 20 or 25 cuz im broke... so ideas?

2007-12-16 02:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by xbrunette1492 2 in Friends

2007-12-16 02:10:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me a year ago. then he asked me back out and i said yes. but we haven't talked in a while and i don't no what that means. Should i break up with him?

2007-12-16 02:08:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm a student with no money in the bank.

I have just been hired at a new job. Will a bank give me a credit card now that I have just started working?

I need about 1000 - 2000 to spend on a credit card.

Can I get a credit card?

2007-12-16 02:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this boyfriend and he tells me he loves me ut a couple of days l8er he told another gurl the same thing!!! wats up with guys who do that?!!! do they have a mental problem or sumtin?!!

2007-12-16 02:02:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are reasons for an ex, so you leave them in the past. Any idea about why contacting an ex besides:
- Love: it is gone when the relationship broke
- Emotional attached: time will heals
- Denial: Believe they still love you?
- Unhappy and selfish : If I can not get it, no one can have it..
- Children are involved...

I think I just do not understand why people wants to cause themselves or others so much pains when the relationship is over?

2007-12-16 02:02:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live with my parents and they dont have a problem with it, wer both 19 and obviously want to have sex. but what if they hear us? is it impolite to have sex when they're next door. after all i sometimes hear them!!!!! i always feel so guilty the morning after and i just want peoples opinions on this subject and if your a couple who doesnt live together...where do you have sex?

2007-12-16 02:00:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there anybody out there who's ever been arrested?

2007-12-16 01:58:32 · 3 answers · asked by Something W 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm so afraid of getting cheated on. So how do I become someone no one would cheat on?
I have tangled hair, sezuires, flakey skin, glasses thick legs, and have body hair (I do shave though). I also don't come from money. I'm also not flexible (Men ADORE flexiblity in bed). Is it any wonder I worry about getting cheated on? Women like me need to realize that if they are lucky enough to get a boyfriend it won't last long. The man will decide to "upgrade" or just leave.
How do I make myself ultra-desireable?

2007-12-16 01:57:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I've been seeing since October admitted to cheating on me with an ex. While we started talking again. At first I thought it wouldn't bother me but that night I couldn't sleep at all. She gave me the drunk excuse! I confronted after i really thought about the sitaution. I told her it was a bogus thing to do and I wanted nothing to do with her. I told her she knew what would happen and worse of all she called me the same day she did it and acted like nothing happen! She started begging and pleading with me. She told me she made a mistake and she was fallin' for me. She told me she'd never put herself in the position agian. I ended being w/ her that night and we're talking again. Why is it easier to tell a friend or family member to leave a cheater... but difficult when its u?

2007-12-16 01:56:58 · 25 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Singles & Dating

my problem is so complicated.
I love a girl since the summer and I did everything to get to her.
I asked people about her but no info.
I runned from school and waited a long time in front of her school for a whole week.
I followed her bus and I was really tired but suddenly, the bus stopped and I saw her face to face again after a long time.
I told her hi...we shared a smile and I said:"my heart was hurting me but I'm better now...I really missed you " then she just smiled.
after that I told her if I can take her cell phone number and she said:"yeah, that's ok"then said:"call me to add you to my list".
I felt happy about that then, after few hours I called her and said:"I love you"but she answered :"it won't work...I'm sorry...you'd better go back to school and focus on your study and you will find someone you love when you get older".
I said ok and cried...the next week I gave her a paper with a poem I wrote it in summer.I said: "pls keep it"
I'm 16 years old pls help

2007-12-16 01:54:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say if a guy is rumoured to be a flirt but he implies that he has proper feelings for a particular girl, and he drops this hint by staring at her intensely for about 4 minutes straight, and his eyes are really 'soft' - could he be majorly leading her on or could this be a reflection of how he actually feels for her? is it possible to do that to a girl you're not that interested in?

2007-12-16 01:54:15 · 17 answers · asked by rockyroad 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend organised this hangout because she's coming back to hong kong from beijing to visit us. totally happy and excited, we were totally outta control and invited so much more girls than boys. we told the shy boys the amount of the girls who were going, and they were totally intimidated that they refused to join us. but we want both girls and boys to come, so we decided to kick a few girls out....but how can we do this nicely without hurting their feelings?

2007-12-16 01:54:09 · 1 answers · asked by emo_chik 1 in Friends

I have decided to brake up with my fiancee, Its just that he is never there when i need him the most, i cant talk to him about anything any more, but its so ard to tell him because he is the first person i opened my whole life up to, im scared that if i leave him i will be to scared to love again, i used to be so confident and i was fine on my own but now its like i need him and i cant leave him, i give him everything he needs but he never does the same, i have tryed to talk to him many times but it never works he just gets mad and wont listen now its time to show him no more chances i just cant get the guts to do it.

2007-12-16 01:51:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with her for years but since we're getting older she is beginning to change (not that changing is a bad thing). But she has gotten in with a crowd that treat her badly and undermines her as a person, she complains to me all the time about it but then she goes back and starts hanging with them. She always does things like this and then comes back to me to talk out her problems, I find it kind of stressful helping her out because she always ends up hanging with them. It's like she's doing it because she knows whatever happens she'll always have me to run back to. And now that she is also dating someone her behaviour is getting worse, like when I try and talk to her on messenger she's like "im busy, sorry talking to my boyfriend". And when she visits my place for like five minutes she does the same thing, she's like "i gotta get home to go talk to my boyfriend.
Please help? What should I do? Do you think I am exaggerating or is this a legit problem?

2007-12-16 01:51:53 · 11 answers · asked by Some girl 1 in Friends

my friend organised this hangout because she's coming back to hong kong from beijing to visit us. totally happy and excited, we were totally outta control and invited so much more girls than boys. we told the shy boys the amount of the girls who were going, and they were totally intimidated that they refused to join us. but we want both girls and boys to come, so we decided to kick a few girls out....but how can we do this nicely without hurting their feelings?

2007-12-16 01:50:01 · 3 answers · asked by emo_chik 1 in Friends

she is really nervous about it and she is not sure if he likes her back, so she doesnt want to mess up da friendship

2007-12-16 01:47:26 · 11 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever seen in movies when a guy likes a girl or a girl likes a boy and they say " Call me"? Don't you have to give the number first? It's not like they know you. Do you know what I mean?

2007-12-16 01:44:34 · 4 answers · asked by Ashlee 1 in Singles & Dating

So the other day I was messing around on my boyfriends computer while he was at work and decided to upload a picture of me to be his wallpaper! I put in a picture c.d. from a long time ago because there was a certain pic i wanted on there! I then deleted all the pics after i was finished( or so I thought) my boyfriend got on a couple days later and found a naked pic of my ex !!!!ooops, I had forgotten that was even on that c.d. now hes pissed! would you guys be pissed? what to do?????

2007-12-16 01:44:19 · 23 answers · asked by Mychele h 2 in Singles & Dating

What can I do? I am really lonely but I cannot open up with people or meet new friends. Help.

2007-12-16 01:41:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and there isnt a woman around to tell him hes wrong then is he still wrong?

2007-12-16 01:39:15 · 2 answers · asked by erinp 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I have been dating for about a month and we have been really open with each other. We both were apprehensive about starting a relationship but after a few long and deep discussions we decided to go for it. Things are great, I really like her and she really likes me, but it seems like she is hiding me from some of her friends. I know she has told her best friend about me and her parents, but she seems to hide me from her guy friends or school partners.

Am I looking to deep into this, or should I have some concern?

I have brought it up with her and she says that she is nervous about a new relationship. We both had some bad relationships in the past.

2007-12-16 01:37:29 · 8 answers · asked by Zcarot 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't care if I'll lose 5 points but I really need to get you guys advice,

I used to have these 3 best friends, let's name them R,B and N, and we had been best firend from 1rst to 4th grade. When I was in 5th grade I got put in a different class from them because I took frenche as a second language and they took Arabic, When we found out we were in different classes we decided to meet in the recess break, for a few weeks, I was proud of my friends and showed them off to my classmates. But after a few weeks I just got you know sort of left out because they only used to talk about something in their own class, and whenever I started to talk about somebody or something in my own class they gave me THE LOST LOOK, I was hurt and decided to hang out with my classmates which were so much more immature than my former friends but so much more exciting... So when I started to hang out with them, I sort of felt guilty.is this right and can you give me some suggestions to stop feeling guilty

2007-12-16 01:30:19 · 12 answers · asked by Chaos Queen 4 in Friends