gosh. im crying right now.
well, i am sick, like throwing up.
and today when i logged onto myspace, i got a message from my friend.
and it showed a conversation b/w her and my boyfriend.
they got into a fight, and my boyfriend called her a dumb*ss and a w*ore. this has happened more than once, and i really do not know what to do. we have been together for a little more than a month, and he has been the best boyfriend ever to me. he was the first guy to hold my hand, the first guy to french kiss me, ect. he is so sweet to me and most of my friends. but he really hates this girl, and he always calls her bad things. i do not like this, and i have told him to be nice to all my friends. i am so confused on whether i should break up with him or not. this is sooo not helping to my sickness, im crying so hard. please help me, what should i do??!! thank youuu.
2007-12-16 02:18:39 · 9 answers · asked by Jess. :] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boyfriends or girlfriends do not have to like each others friends , this is off ten the case, also both of the them should grow up as thay could have left "myspace" long before it got into a slanging match??Only you know what is the best thing to do that makes you happy and less stressed
2007-12-16 02:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him one-on-one. Tell him there are a few things that need to be straightened out. Tell him that he means alot to you, but so do your friends. Let him know that you will not sacrifice your friends just to hold onto him. You aren't that needy. Give him one more chance. Get him and your friend together and talk it out. Tell him before this meeting that if he doesn't show respect and act like a gentle man, then he can go ahead and leave your life. Chances are, he'll be agitated, but will work things out with your friend. Just remember that if you decide to keep him if he continues being rude, you'll lose most of your friends. Then, if you break up later on, you have no one. Make wise decisions and I hope it all works out.
2007-12-16 02:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would try to keep the 2 relationships seperate..You can make time for ur bf and ur bf without the 2 of them being in contact..This should avoid any bad blood between them and keep you outta the middle...There is no reason for the 2 of them to keep fighting with each other, if they truly care for you n ur feelings they will respect ur decision and stay away from each other...Good luck!!!
2007-12-16 02:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by cajungirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-11 09:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop crying over something that can't be fixed, I'm a man and I don't trust your bf or gf right now THINK!
if he hates her so much why are they even talking? what's really going on? Don't talk to either of them about this. If you're put in the middle then say then don't talk to eachother anymore Tell them you love them both and not to feel free to make you choose one or the other. It's not fair to you and if one of them says well I'm upset at you then say you shouldn't be unless you don't Love me as much as I love you. Put the ball in their court. If it comes down to it be prepared not to talk to either of them it's their fault that they are being the jerks in this situation.....Take care of you Dear!
2007-12-16 02:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Wait until you are out of gradeschool to date.
2. Talk it over with your mommy.
3. Choose between your boyfriend and your friend, because if you do nothing to your boyfriend, you will lose your friend.
2007-12-16 02:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont dump a guy that makes you feel special. Get one thing straight to your friend and boyfriend-
You have close relationship with both and honestly they dont need to get along famously, just respect eachother, not even that just be civil.
Get them to understand that ur realy upset and its not fair.
Tell him to STOP calling ur friend nasty names, and tell her to RESIST starting/continouing arguments.
Also try not to be so sensitive people are not always going to get along and thats not your fault, its sweet that you care so much!
Just get them to understand,
hope i helped
Love M.Q x
2007-12-16 02:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that to ur friend. if u talk to ur bf and ur friend about how u feel than they should get along if u mean enough to them
2007-12-16 02:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Dump her. They are both asses.
Move on with your life. Believe in yourself and things will be fine.
2007-12-16 02:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋