my problem is so complicated.
I love a girl since the summer and I did everything to get to her.
I asked people about her but no info.
I runned from school and waited a long time in front of her school for a whole week.
I followed her bus and I was really tired but suddenly, the bus stopped and I saw her face to face again after a long time.
I told her hi...we shared a smile and I said:"my heart was hurting me but I'm better now...I really missed you " then she just smiled.
after that I told her if I can take her cell phone number and she said:"yeah, that's ok"then said:"call me to add you to my list".
I felt happy about that then, after few hours I called her and said:"I love you"but she answered :"it won't work...I'm sorry...you'd better go back to school and focus on your study and you will find someone you love when you get older".
I said ok and cried...the next week I gave her a paper with a poem I wrote it in summer.I said: "pls keep it"
I'm 16 years old pls help
2007-12-16 01:54:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh boy.
2007-12-16 02:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by AshaLynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you're turning out to be too much too soon. Women hate guys that fall in love w/ them and don't even know anything about them. It's no better then being an ******. Leave this girl alone for a while you came on way to strong. Next time you met a girl you like talk to her. Go out, chill w/ each other, and most of all don't tell her you love her after a month. Real love takes months or even years to be realized. So be yourself and remember telling a girl you barely know you love her is not a way to win her over.
2007-12-16 02:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You problemly scared her when you just come out of no where and said I love you. Did you even get a chance to know her? She is problemly not ready to be in a relationship. She problemly had bad relationships in past, and not ready to be in another one. Give her some time. Be friends with her, and get a chance to know her. Try not to wait for her bus and follow her wherever she go. I undrestand that you are in love, but she is going to think that you are weird if you just do nothing but follow her. Try to focus your time on something else. There may be a girl that like you for you.
2007-12-16 02:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 11:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen that u fall in love with somebody that feel nothing for u. So get someone that can make u forget about her. But there is no problem if u want to insist i have proof that they can change their mind sometime. Keep sending those poems.
2007-12-16 02:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what she said to you is totally right....you should focus on your study..have a good career and with some maturity you can go find someone better...if u still love her i think better stop send her poem! that's not cool dude...she will even more hate u!!! show to her ur flying color result and that will works better! u can do it bro!
2007-12-16 02:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by emil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts man. but you just need to stick on a band-aid and tough it out.
2007-12-16 01:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help you what? The girl doesn't want you, get over it.
2007-12-16 01:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're freakin wierd
and a stalker
2007-12-16 01:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by Janis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-12-16 02:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋