i live with my parents and they dont have a problem with it, wer both 19 and obviously want to have sex. but what if they hear us? is it impolite to have sex when they're next door. after all i sometimes hear them!!!!! i always feel so guilty the morning after and i just want peoples opinions on this subject and if your a couple who doesnt live together...where do you have sex?
2007-12-16 02:00:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually we're both adults and love each other and thats why we're having sex! i love him staying over because its romantic and doing it in the back of a car is tacky i want to do it in my own bed and it is MY house too!! my parents know we have sex as i said before theyre fine with it. cant believe some of the answers i got maybe YOU should grow up!
2007-12-16 02:11:08 · update #1
If you feel it is impolite you obviousley don't feel so comfortable with the idea of sex, perhaps someone has made you feel guilty in the past about it. I felt like that a few years ago when my boyf came over, because I still felt like it was 'wrong' and that my parents wouldn't approve.
Wait til they go out, or just be quiet, if theyre willing to let you share the same room then they are prepared for you to get intimate with your boyfriend, afterall you aren't a child anymore and they seem to realise that.
The best sex is sex when youre mind is at ease and you are content with what you are doing.
PS: It is not impolite as long as they can't hear you, so work around it.
2007-12-16 02:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do it in your parents house wait until their are gone for a while. Or if it still creeps you out then I'd say get a hotel room. Then you can have loud freaky sex without your parents catching or hearing you in the act! Or the backseat of a car is all ways a way to go!
2007-12-16 02:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god, don't do it at the parent's house. it's very inconsiderate of them, you might hear them sometimes, but they own the house and are married. my sister has her bf over and they have sex all the time while l'm in the house, i find it impolite, unbearable and very rude b/c he doesn't even stay the night, they go into her room, have sex and then he leaves and i can hear all the unattractive background noises. don't do it a the parent's house, get a hotel!
2007-12-16 02:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if you are worried about this stuff, then you should probably be doing it somewhere else...far be it for me to tell you when you're ready or not because you're going to do what you're going to do. Maybe you can do it at home but while your parents are out. Or maybe try his house...Just make sure that you are safe but like i said, if you're going to do it, you're going to do it and if you don't feel comfortable doing it while your parents are next door, then do it when they're out. If I was your parent, I would not only think it's rude you were having sex in the room next to me but I would probably break that dudes **** off...
2007-12-16 02:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by harroldreyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your all adults, your parents know your sleeping with him if he is staying over, and you can have sex without making alot of noise, granted it is hard and not as much fun, but you can do it. Plus I think you will find it a rush to do. I was with my girlfriend at her parents house I she was afraid to but I talked her into it and had to help her keep quit, she said it was the best orgasm she ever had? Try it out, if it freaks you out then go to his place or a hotel
2007-12-16 02:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by david h 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your parents know that u will have sex so they dont care about u having sex. But dont make it too loud. You mite be a parent one day, do just what u will expect your daughter to do at thia age.
2007-12-16 02:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont make too much nosie!!! its ok to have sex if you have been in a long term reletionship then of course you are gnna have sex with eachother at the end of the day i think your parents would rather you do it under there roof than in a back set of a car etc....
2007-12-16 02:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back seat of a truck. Terrible, lol.
But only when my roomates home.
As for having sex in your parents house, just... no. Not when they are home. Don't do it to them, because believe me - no way they are gonna be happy with thier kid having sex. They just won't be.
2007-12-16 02:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by AshaLynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex in your parents house, while your parents are in the house is weird. C'mon, you know you won't even enjoy it, will you? Best bet is a backseat of a car, in an empty parking lot.
2007-12-16 02:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes its impolite and uncomfortible, get a motel if its desparate. or find the time, i'm sure your parents arent home all day.
2007-12-16 02:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jason K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋