There's this girl I have a crush on, who has a BF in a diff city, but flirted with me heavily in the beginning- had an innocent mischevious way of talking & she even asked me to have drinks/dinner with her (in return for my help with career advice). But then she turned cold, I contacted her and asked her to dinner, but she didn't even reply to my email. I confronted her a week later, and basically told her that I was at least expecting a reply, ignored her for 2 weeks. Then, she asked me to dinner, and I refused thinking she's just playing games. Since then, she has been visibly jealous when she sees me dancing with other girls at parties, but this one time, she asked me to dance with her, we got very sensual on the dance flr and she said "I want to get to know you". But at dinner the next day, she starts talking about her BF and acted aloof. I got sick of it & didn't contact her, but she called me again after months and again, mixed signals. Why is a girl with BF sending mixed signs?
2007-12-16 04:41:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I ran into her at another party several weeks ago and she came up, gave me a hug, was very friendly, but also started talking about her BF again. Then, when she saw me dancing with other girls, she asked why I hadn't contacted her in months and looked pissed. I think she's a player, so I haven't contacted her after that at all, and she hasn't either. I don't understand why a girl with a BF would send me mixed signals.
2007-12-16 04:43:37 · update #1
She is playing with you but will never leave her boyfriend for you. Move on, girls like this are dangerous.
2007-12-16 04:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Runa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She defiently sounds like a player. I had a similar situation myself with a guy, who i really liked but he was giving me mixed signals, he would want to see my one minute then the next nothing. I had to kick him to the curb and be strong as he was messing me about big style. You sound like a nice guy, be strong, and ignore her. Or confront her, ask her what she is playing at, and if she is not interested in you, and has no intention of leaving her bf, then tell her to leave you alone, to flirt and meet other girls. Good luck babe, hope you get it sorted.x
2007-12-16 04:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she wants the excitement of flirting like a singleton but on the flip side prob feels guilty as she isnt single!! she clearly hasnt got a clue what she wants & your best 2 stay clear of her, she has no right 2 get jelous of u dancing with other girls - shes the 1 in a relationship - NOT U!! shes bad news & i would advise you not to bother contacting her or meeting up as she'l just end up playing more silly games!!!
2007-12-16 04:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just IMAGINE what it would be like to be her boyfriend!! She is a outright FLIRT, jealous for NO REASON, and goes out to clubs without him - - and Ill BET she does NOT let him do anything even close to the same as she does!! That is one two-faced hypocritical game playing wench!!
STAY CLEAR of this one - she is big trouble looking for a playmate. IF she calls you again, just tell her "sorry, I lost interest a long time ago, and you play way too many games to be with me."
2007-12-16 04:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said her boyfriend is in a different city, she probably wants to have some fun without her boyfriend knowing- but she might feel bad about it.
If she has a boyfriend it's better not to associate with her as more than a friend- you may get your heart broken...especially when she's that moody.
2007-12-16 04:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Gabbie ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mixed signals are a prime indicator of a self-indulgent Drama Queen.
Run away.
2007-12-16 04:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Boomer Wisdom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She likes you. She can't take it further though because she has a boyfriend so acts cold too stop things gettng any further. She flirts with you when her feelings get the better of her.
Hope this helps x
2007-12-16 04:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mixed signals indicate instability and flip-flopping. It is NEVER a good sign. I'd would find another girl post haste.
2007-12-16 04:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mixed signals are dangerous. Better be cautious. Don't fall in a trap.She may use as a spare tyre.
2007-12-16 04:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself a lot of grief and avoid her. She's obviously playing games and is immature. The times that she seems "into" you is probably when she is having BF troubles. Again I say, avoid her.
2007-12-16 04:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by char0811 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋