to have people liking you when in fact they like you for who you are not yourself...like not being yourself?i found it hard to please people and they seem to be disliked me for many reasons now i don't bother myself with people liking us...but then we would be very friendless and lonely..do you this is a good thing?how would we know when someone is really genuine to us?
2007-12-16 04:14:38 · 6 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Good question. It usually takes time and experience. You will eventually develope a ''feel'' for this. Listen to your intuition. You will often get signals but will ignore them because you are wanting to be polite and give the person a chance. Don't get involved too much too quick. It can be hard to get rid of people you don't want to be around.
2007-12-16 04:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that someone likes you for other reasons than the fact that you are the person that you are...you are better off without them. Always be YOU.
When that genuine friend comes along...you will know it.
It may take some time to make sure, but it's worth finding out.
Just be happy with you. You can't control other people and you don't want a fake friend. It will get better.
Love
2007-12-16 12:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to all. Keep your mind open. Don't take anyone at face value. Each one is wearing a Mask. You don't know initially the real person hidden inside it.You will understand this if you don't hurry to a have a relationship without ascertaining the real person in him.Your experience of the past will be your best guide in this matter.
2007-12-16 12:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think from the way they talk 2 u ...u can understand how genuine they are..in my case i know.... i have some friends who like being my friend bcoz im crazy...fun....and if u relaly need their help they arent there....they wldnt go out of the way to help!..but i also have frineds close ones..who would do their best to help me!! they just dont see the crazy me but they see me!!..im not jsut only crazy fun..but caring too..and i like if all my friends ar elike that..but..no matter wut i love htem all...
so...in ur case...um..if u think some ppl disliked u then...just think y they did....not everyone is perfect....but one thing i want to share is that ...no matter wut others thing of u..it dont care...wut GOd thinks matters!!!..Pleaseing Jesus christ in all ur ways ..will automatically make u treat ppl the same way Jesus treated them..and who knows u miught see a difference....oki :)
but dont worry..u just be ur self..we all have faults..so when we correct our faults...its much better...u take care. :)
2007-12-16 12:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Marki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's as if your not appreciated for who are in life. But when you aren't being honest in heart, sometimes it is easier to be liked.
Often, people are attracted to things they want to hear, or see. For me, its not the liking that matters, its the wanting to be respected, and given a chance.
If we aren't wanted, who cares? The world works itself in silence, but peoples thoughts are deafning. Call me crazy, so why not be?
I know when a person is really geunine to me, when I see one.
2007-12-16 12:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we don't until... we need a friend and they are there
2007-12-16 12:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋