i use to live and work on my own. i suddenly got ill and i had to move in with my parents. i knew that it was going to be hard. we have different personalities. well my mom had surgery . i had to cook,clean , wash clothes, buy groceries. i had a lot of responsiblity. sometimes i didn't even feel well. now im better and im starting to look for work so that i can move out of here. here's the problem- this happened this sunday and last sunday. there has never been a problem with me baking frozen rolls. all of a sudden there is. my mom will say watch your rolls they are ready. she was standing right in front of the oven. the same thing happened to today. i got mad. i ignored her. i forced her to get the rolls out. again, she was standing at the oven. also, i have learned how to make good broccoli cassorole. my dad asked me about 3 weeks ago to make some for a function. she has had an attitude since. what's the problem?
2007-12-16 07:11:48 · 4 answers · asked by intelligent80000 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She's feeling like she's not needed. If you acted like you needed her input now and then, I bet she'd get better faster. I bet you're doing a great job helping! TOO GREAT!! You're a wonderful person for helping the family. Just keep thinking about that.
2007-12-16 07:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have helpfully taken up all household chores yourself and your mom is disabled due to surgery,she is afraid that her authority is being challenged by you.You are doing a good deed in helping her, which she too must be realizing in her heart. You should continue helping them till such time,Mom is completely recovered. In the meantime,just ignore her poking in your work graciously.
2007-12-17 09:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your mom, and as to see counseling.
2007-12-16 15:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sitting down and talking with her.
2007-12-16 15:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋