I'm moving in with my fiancé and I want to be that perfect girl. You know the girl that every guy wishes his girlfriend/fiancé/wife would be. I already love football and every other sport for that fact, I let him go out whenever he wants with the guys no questions asked, I don’t ever call to just "see what he is doing" you know the suspicious call.... our love life is good. I try to always look good for him. Is there something I’m missing? And what would your perfect girl be?
2007-12-16 07:05:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I personally feel that the fact you care this much about him being happy..
That you're already the "perfect girl."
2007-12-16 07:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by xKYLEx 1 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Confidence is perfection. Love and humility (not pushover-ness, just being humble like Roger Federer, for example). These are very strong traits that takes a person of quality to possess.
I tease my fiance when a pretty girl comes by for him to check her out, and he says (and he's seriosu) that she's too pretty. He actually does not like girls to be too pretty. He finds it a bit boring. He does want a girl to be clean and dress pretty. Now, that being said, I am very pretty and he often says I'm gorgous, so I don't know what to make of his quirky tastes. However, I'm quite unique and excentric and confident, so he loves those qualities very much.
He and I both dislike football. I play a lot of tennis, and he is a bicycle fanatic.
He is not the one for you, you sound insecure around him. NEVER chase a guy, even in non-verbal ways. If you love someone, you can call him and see what he's doing because you care for him, not because you're suspicious. My gosh, if that's the case, then get away from him! I have zero suspicions of my guy, I know for sure he loves me. No questions about it. He knows I love him. That's why we feel very comfortable with each other and have a great friendship.
2007-12-16 07:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Remember to not be a doormat. Do things for you because they make you happy. He should be happy to be with you, the way you are. It's hard to play the part of the "perfect girl" for the rest of your life.
2007-12-16 08:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by ☆andi☆ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sincerely love him, right???
Well, then 99.9999% of your job is done!
But remember,
The last 0.0001% is that you must be yourself.
This is what some girls lack, they try to make their loved one happy, they try to become perfect, and lose their personality.
YOU ARE PERFECT !!!!! That is why he fell in love with you in the first place!
"Imperfection" as many girls (who try to be "perfect") call it, is the charm that creates a sparkle in a girl's personality.
Tell me, who would love a robotically perfect doll who does everything the way it should be done.
Why not? (you may ask). I will tell you why.
The boy cannot relate to the girl as his own, boys are NOT perfect, you know it !
A boy will "look up" to a "perfect" girl, not love her!
In a nutshell, be happy, don't be gross (just saying),
be loved (blush), be yourself, have fun!
and, DON'T BE CAUTIOUS AND WORRIED !!!!!!!
Hope this helps,
Cheers, Sam :)
2007-12-16 07:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Don't ride his back. Be his best friend, but don't make it a hard effort. Be the girl he wants to hang out with. Be the girl that he comes to with issues on work. Don't blow him off, make him a priority.
A great book I would recommend is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert" by John M. Gottman. The book is about $10 on Amazon.com. You may not be married yet (I'm not either) but it's great for relationships. I recommend this to everyone!!!!
2007-12-16 07:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy365 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If he asked you to marry him, you are already the perfect girl.
Don't change a thing. Every girl has different qualities and every guy likes different traits. What works for one guy, may not work for another.
Obviously, you work for him.
2007-12-16 07:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by J'adore 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a different "perfect girl" for every different "guy". If you two are happy and committed to being happy then it sound like you are his "perfect girl"!!
Remember the "perfect girl" does not mean that she is perfect, just perfect for him! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-12-16 07:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you always see him as the perfect guy....that will go a long way in the marriage....and make him continue to see you as perfect. It's how you make him feel about himself.
2007-12-16 07:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by In the Kitchen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should be yourself. . . that's why he fell in love with you. I don't care how perfect you try and make yourself for him. . . if it's not you. . . you'll regret it later. You centering your world around him and you should have your own identity. It's cute now, but eventually he's going to get tired of the "perfect wife." Good Luck!
2007-12-16 07:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by peaches6 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-11 10:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋