Me and my best friend were really close a couple of months ago but recentley we've begun to drift apart and barely have anything to talk about.
My best friend has another best friend aswell and lately they seem closer than me and my friend and I feel really jealous of the other girl and have started to hate her.
I'm staying over at my best friends house soon so I'm hoping that will bring us closer but what can I do to stop being so jealous of them? What can I do to prevent me losing my best friend? =(
I don't want to lose her, but i'm worried that she'll become closer with the other girl and not want me as much. Help!
2007-12-16 06:46:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hun this happens to loads of people.
i went thru this my best friend when i was younger started to hang around with another girl. i hated her at first thinking i would lose my friend to her. but i got to know her and we became best friends.
we still are best friends now and that was over 10 years ago.
im still friends with the other girl too not best friends but we always have something to talk about we just dont see each other that much because of work and that.
what i would be worried about is why you and your best friend arent getting on as well as what you used to...people do change and you might not stay best friends with her. you cant be best friends if there is no connection there.
im sure you have other friends. do you have friends in common?? why not all hang out together??? you might still stay friends and get a new best friend! just dont worry too much about these things.
2007-12-16 07:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen, hon, I know this is hard to accept, but people change as they grow older, and this is possible what's happening with both of you. Trying to hang onto her won't win you any respect, in fact she may end up actively disliking you.
The best thing to do is just allow for this drifting to happen, then you'll always have a friendship with her. You will make new friends, meet new people! It's okay to be without a 'best friend' for a while! Nicer to have lots of really nice friends, I think .... she will always think of you with fondness if you don't get clingy.
2007-12-16 18:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she doesnt what to be ur best friend anymore then thats her loss cause I bet that ur a great friend. But u should never be jelious of another girl cause that just showes that ur weaker then the ohter girl and I dont think that is a good thing. so as for u loseing her dont try to hard cause then the more u put in it the more it will hurt if it doesnt work out...
2007-12-16 15:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Heather Marie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to be in the situtation and I wish I could tell you it gets better. But for me it just got alot worse and now we aren't friends. So maybe that means you should find somone new she did. But if you want her attention invite her to go on a trip or somthing!
2007-12-16 14:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Makena O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cany hang on to what doesnt want to stay so dont even try. Stay friends even if you are not so close anymore.
2007-12-16 14:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Moonstone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋