Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

I've never been asked out before and im already 17... (im reeeally shy..) and im worried that when a guy does finally make his move ill be so unprepared that ill just look at him like "OMG!" and he'll change his mind.. So i DO NOT want that to happen. What exactly should i do when a guy asks me out?

2007-12-16 08:32:24 · 54 answers · asked by Mcfly is the bomb 1 in Singles & Dating

You help your friends all the time but when you yourself are having problems, you don't think any of them could do anything and you don't turn to them for help?...

2007-12-16 08:30:56 · 7 answers · asked by Olga 2 in Friends

Which would you pick and why?

2007-12-16 08:30:44 · 21 answers · asked by Nat 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 08:30:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 08:29:44 · 9 answers · asked by P.R. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok guys and girls.... i've gone from an ex-husband who never said "i love you" to an awesome boyfriend who says "i love you" way too much..... which was cute at first and felt great, but its starting to get "and i hate to say it " but annoying.... its almost like its a habit to say it now..... i'm starting to feel that its not meaning as much if he says it all the time..... how do i tell him this without hurting his feelings????

2007-12-16 08:28:59 · 1 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

My night ended with:
An akward pause then we hugged.
And still, no kiss. UGH.
I'm too shy to just to do it.


When is he going to do it?

2007-12-16 08:28:39 · 3 answers · asked by amandajoes007 1 in Singles & Dating

OKay so I like this guy and I think he likes me. At least thats what everyone tells me. So then he asked me 2 dance at the school dance. So then I said yes. So when the dance came I chickened out and avioded him. Does he still like me? What is he thinking?

2007-12-16 08:27:13 · 14 answers · asked by confussed 3 in Singles & Dating

hi im 17 but i bought my gf a diamond ring and i am thinking of proposing on christmas to her, i am wondering what would be a good evening before i propose.

2007-12-16 08:26:43 · 10 answers · asked by menacingbozza 2 in Weddings

I Like 3 guys...I like one more than the other..and one has a girlfriend.i dont know what to do.I like the one who has a girlfriend the most!i like one a little and i dont know wat to do about the other!the one who has a girlfriend looks at me a lot!and yesturday he called me at 3 in the morning..he gives me all these signs that he is intrested!i need advice

2007-12-16 08:24:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my ex's told me he loved me after a few short weeks. I was totally freaked out & turned off by this. That's actually the reason why we broke up, he was too clingy & was moving way too fast.

I think I told my husband after about 6 or 7 months when I REALLY felt it. When do you all think it's the right time to say those powerful words??

2007-12-16 08:24:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy. I told him last last Friday when he was going out with someone. Just started to and then she broke up with him the next day. And now he is going out with someone in another town who i know. I feel horrible cause i like him alot. Then he was asking me for advice and i told him idk i haven't seen her since Halloweeen. Then he said You havent seen her since then and i kissed her like 5 times last night. I feel horrible. How i should i talk to him? What should i say? I talk to him on msn. I feel like i don't want to talk to him. What should i do about him? What should i tell him? Thanks!!

2007-12-16 08:23:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has trouble being romantic....can u guys give him some advice?? or girls??

2007-12-16 08:21:12 · 12 answers · asked by Pinks 1 in Singles & Dating

How on god's green earth do I ask this girl out? Especially since she's older than me.

2007-12-16 08:20:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My alchoholic wife has left me and our 2 children for the second time. She is now seeing a deadbeat alcoholic. She voluntarily signed full custody of our 10 yr. old son and shared custody of 5 yr. old daughter to me. Wife has been told by her doctor a few times that she needs to go to rehab to dry out, she also take anti depressants. She has also been told by 2 different alcohol counselers that she needed rehab which she never done. I want to get full custody of my 5 yr. old cause of unhealthy situation at her mothers and wondered if her medical records and counselers records can be used in custody case at Family Court.

2007-12-16 08:17:19 · 31 answers · asked by john m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he looks like he's going to kiss you then kisses you on the cheek, what does it mean?

2007-12-16 08:16:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering if there is a favorite out there that I should try.

2007-12-16 08:15:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-He goes into the female toilet and waits for me to finish doing my business even when girls freak out upon seeing him

-He often calls me up and demands phone sex

-He often says things like "i'll do really drastic things if you dont like me..its a big blow to me you know" in a joking manner but kinda weird idk

-Often stalks me at school or appears out of nowhere just to send me home

-Offers to take home my old and unwanted clothes after I have dumped them

-Often stares at me as long as about 10 seconds,only turns away after I've left or looked back at him

2007-12-16 08:14:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have some noticed some couples getting married or have been maried for awhile that never discussed many key topics. Such as, birth control, how many children- when, religion, finances (what is priority) ect. ect. What was the most beneficial thing that you talked about that helped your marriage or you want to be sure to talk about before you get married? Also how important was this, and which topic do you think is most important to talk about and why?

2007-12-16 08:13:58 · 19 answers · asked by Emily R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok ive liked this girl sence the third grade im not as popular as her but we talk and i need help

2007-12-16 08:12:08 · 10 answers · asked by humancalculator101 1 in Singles & Dating

This year we're literally living on pinto beans. We make $1000 too much to apply for any welfare. I have a two-year-old daughter and a loving husband, but we just can't afford presents this year. I know my mother-in-law is going to have a duck-dying fit that she doesn't get a present this year. What should I do?

2007-12-16 08:11:25 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she seems to be in control and after today it has to change. nothin is ever her fault. i love her so i have always tried to see past it. we get in an argument. she ignores me for a few days, and then i say sorry even if its not my fault and i shouldnt say sorry, but i do just to make things back to normal. but this time im not doing it. we got in an argument today and i know she will try to ignore me, so im not going to call. im going to see how many weeks it takes before she calles me. what can i do to change the tables, to make it to were what i say goes instead of it being what she says goes. im a laid back kinda guy. but i need to start being in control instead of her.

2007-12-16 08:10:29 · 11 answers · asked by music man 2 in Singles & Dating

If a guy looks at your lips does that mean they want to kiss you?

2007-12-16 08:09:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

while living with my ex husband i applied for a credit card in my name, i then purchased a tv. we split up resently and i let him take the tv as long as he made the payment. he has now threatened not to pay it. can i get the tv back from him? i know he wont' give it up willingly so how can i get it back?

2007-12-16 08:07:04 · 9 answers · asked by angie m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel so stressed, its like i have so much to do in so little time, right were do i start, i have tons of coursework forncollege thats in for friday and its gonna take ages, i have christmas shopping to do, then theres work and i feel like i have no time to fit it all in. And in the mean time i'm still trying to get this lads atention at college who i really like but its not easy when your shy and if i don't do something about it this week i'm gonna be wishing i had all over christmas when i won't see him, i'm so stressed, help.

2007-12-16 08:06:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Earlier in our relationship my wife decided that it was something that was acceptible for her to do, an acceptible form of torture if you will. But she just loves picking at whiteheads/blackheads on my back, shoulders. She thinks it is normal, i beg to differ, please help!!

2007-12-16 08:06:14 · 20 answers · asked by John IV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love with a 10th grader. i am in 11th grade.
how can i make her attracted to me? how can i make her fall in love with me?
i know her a little bit already and have her number

2007-12-16 08:06:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not a christian- I was brought up one but wouldnt be hypocritical enough to call myself one now. I have had a wonderful girlfriend for 5 and a half years now, and we are amazing together. Is it right to get married? Marriage really, although people take it for granted, is a declaration before 'god'. But I think that also it is a good foundation for a relationship, which to me is maby more important than worrying about being a hypocrit and getting married for the wrong reasons. I know a lot of people will say if my relationship is as good as I say, then I dnt need marriage to back it up, or make it mean anything. But I like the idea of it, y'know, having a wife, being a husband. I think marriage to me is about officialising something that you want forever. Not to mention my gf, who has never been a christian is adiment that i propose! So am I wrong? Or is marriage simply the right step for a beautiful relationship? What do you think? Opinions not orders please... :o)

2007-12-16 08:05:31 · 8 answers · asked by Drean 2 in Weddings

2007-12-16 08:05:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 08:05:18 · 3 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating